A man who swore he'd never do this, but...

[WaywardWanderer]

...here I am, nonetheless, putting a personal ad here.

All in all, my life is good -- I've got a great new job, a great apartment, and true feeling of stability that I haven't felt in ages, really. But yet, here I sit today, feeling strangely out of sorts -- and I couldn't quite put my finger on it. Then it hit me...

Despite all the chatting I do on these boards (mainly in the Playground), and all the great people I've met that way, I can't escape a truth I realized... I feel kinda lonely.

I'm perfectly happy when I'm by myself, and I love the "me" that I am. I feel well adjusted and happy ... except I just really feel sometimes like I don't have that special person to confide in, to laugh with, to cry with, and to share the ups, downs, and in-betweens that life can bring. And nothing sucks more than having a good day but really feeling like you don't have anybody you can really share that triumph with.

Yeah, I know -- this site's an odd place to put a post like this, given its predominantly adult nature. But hey -- that's me... always thinking outside the box a bit, even if it means making myself a bit vulnerable.

So, since this is a personal ad, lemme get allllll that stuff out of the way right now -- I'm a early-30-something man from Upstate New York, happily and gainfully employed (yeah, I know...that doesn't happen very often, does it?) who loves movies (preferably on DVD ... I hate shelling out $10 for a movie ticket!) and...well... pretty much anything at least once. I figure that if I don't try it, how will I know I don't like it for sure? So, that tends to apply in all aspects of my life, from activities to food and everything in between.

Am I a romantic? Yeah, I like to think so... being with the right person just inspires me to show them just how special they are to me. What do I find "sexy"? That's easy... to list, at least. To find...not so easy, I'm discovering. Brains, wit, charm, and a sense of humor. I've always heard it said that the brain is the largest human sex organ, and I firmly believe it to be true. Does that mean I want a rocket scientist? No. But a woman who can hold a discussion about movies and/or politics in one breath followed by discussing the last episode of "The Simpsons" in the other would be fantastic. Know who Snidely Whiplash or Professor Peabody are? That'd be a bonus.

Well, in any case -- that's me in a nutshell. If I even sound mildly interesting, I'd love to hear from you. My PM box is nice n' empty at the time I write this, so I'd definitely welcome any chance to fill it up a bit -- I always enjoy meeting new people and throwing PMs and such back and forth... penpals are under-rated.

Thanks for taking the time to read my ramblings and letting myself just kinda put myself out there a bit.

Be well, all.

 

[skygazer]

Just a suggestion WW... It was probably a bad idea to tell these ladies that you're to cheap to spring for a movie ticket... I think most of the women here are pretty down to earth and don't expect a guy to clean out their bank account on a date... But 10 dollars.... Uhhhh maybe there's a reason your sitting home alone

 

[WaywardWanderer]

:eyeroll: Gotta love the hecklers....there's one in every bunch, I suppose. In any case, thanks for the bump.

Anyway, to clarify -- that was called just a general rant regarding the principle of having to pay that much for a ticket. Nothing more, nothing less...

Anyway.... non-heckling replies always welcome.

 

[skygazer]

In the dating world perception is everything Not heckling WW just pointing out the flaw in the ad...No disrespect intended... To be totally honest I agree that it costs to much to go to a movie... But I can say that because I'm married to a women who who is cheaper than the two of us put together

 

[Friendly_1]

I know I'd rather cuddle up on the couch with a DVD

 

[Guttergoddess]

I dunno...guess I'm cheap too...I hate shelling out the 10 bucks for a movie ticket ,and pretty much refuse to let my dates do the same..when we can shell out $15 for the DVD, pop some popcorn..or better yet just get out a jar of caramel sauce, and watch the DVD either on the couch, or preferably in bed.

Wish I were upstate, WW, I'd love to go out (or in) on a date with ya...but alas..someone stuck me down the shore.

 

[bella247]

One of the good ones

First of all, I thought it was truely heartfelt ad, and it is so nice to find someone's personality actually shining through! I sincerely wish your courage to be rewarded with success in your search. You sound like a great person and I hope that you will find that special someone to share companionship and life with in all its glorious imperfection, be it here on Lit or in whereever else.

skygazer Not heckling WW just pointing out the flaw in the ad...No disrespect intended...

Makes no sense to me, how can you find a flaw in an ad?

People are unique and it takes a lot of courage to put yourself out there and try to show a reflection of who you are in a few paragraphs, with all the modest hopes and valid doubts attached to those lines. I am not a PR expert, so my opinion only refelcts my personal and limited experience, but the fact that an ad or a part of it doesn't strike my fancy certainly doesn't mean that it is wrong or bad or that it will not speak to another person, sparking their interest and possibly intrigue them to find out more.


And now, being done with hair-splitting for the day, ... I'll go and make sure to add my share of spam to Wanderer's probably not-so-empty-anymore PM box.

 

[StarvingNympho]

I'll go and make sure to add my share of spam to Wanderer's probably not-so-empty-anymore PM box.

True enough.

WW, your ad speaks volumes about your personality. It's candid, witty and straight from the hip.

As far as being cheap, I wouldn't call it that. I like the word 'frugal'

Good luck on your quest.

 

[poppy1963]

Hello WayWardWanderer.

I have a question for you. Are you seeking something with someone to develop into a real life relationship? There are many women on Lit who are here for a variety of reasons. It would be helpful to know if you are or are not interested in friendships with others who are limited in their accessibility.

Nice to meet you here.

 

[Perpetual_Edge]

So true. I originally started here hoping I would meet someone who was as sensual and kinky as I! Nevertheless, meeting someone of character who wants a solid relationship is like finding a needle in .... ....!

You sound great.

 

[secrets_within]

...here I am, nonetheless, putting a personal ad here.

All in all, my life is good -- I've got a great new job, a great apartment, and true feeling of stability that I haven't felt in ages, really. But yet, here I sit today, feeling strangely out of sorts -- and I couldn't quite put my finger on it. Then it hit me...

Despite all the chatting I do on these boards (mainly in the Playground), and all the great people I've met that way, I can't escape a truth I realized... I feel kinda lonely.

I'm perfectly happy when I'm by myself, and I love the "me" that I am. I feel well adjusted and happy ... except I just really feel sometimes like I don't have that special person to confide in, to laugh with, to cry with, and to share the ups, downs, and in-betweens that life can bring. And nothing sucks more than having a good day but really feeling like you don't have anybody you can really share that triumph with.

Yeah, I know -- this site's an odd place to put a post like this, given its predominantly adult nature. But hey -- that's me... always thinking outside the box a bit, even if it means making myself a bit vulnerable.

So, since this is a personal ad, lemme get allllll that stuff out of the way right now -- I'm a early-30-something man from Upstate New York, happily and gainfully employed (yeah, I know...that doesn't happen very often, does it?) who loves movies (preferably on DVD ... I hate shelling out $10 for a movie ticket!) and...well... pretty much anything at least once. I figure that if I don't try it, how will I know I don't like it for sure? So, that tends to apply in all aspects of my life, from activities to food and everything in between.

Am I a romantic? Yeah, I like to think so... being with the right person just inspires me to show them just how special they are to me. What do I find "sexy"? That's easy... to list, at least. To find...not so easy, I'm discovering. Brains, wit, charm, and a sense of humor. I've always heard it said that the brain is the largest human sex organ, and I firmly believe it to be true. Does that mean I want a rocket scientist? No. But a woman who can hold a discussion about movies and/or politics in one breath followed by discussing the last episode of "The Simpsons" in the other would be fantastic. Know who Snidely Whiplash or Professor Peabody are? That'd be a bonus.

Well, in any case -- that's me in a nutshell. If I even sound mildly interesting, I'd love to hear from you. My PM box is nice n' empty at the time I write this, so I'd definitely welcome any chance to fill it up a bit -- I always enjoy meeting new people and throwing PMs and such back and forth... penpals are under-rated.

Thanks for taking the time to read my ramblings and letting myself just kinda put myself out there a bit.

Be well, all.

Well now you can't mention the Professor and Snidely without including Dudley do-right. *giggles*

Lovely personal, honest and well written. I'm kind of like you, I like a man with brains. Someone who can converse with me and a variety of topics and yet have a delightful sense of humour (and be playful as well.)

I've seen your posts on various threads.

Have a wonderful evening.

 

[rh18]

Happy Holidays

 

[idnas71]

I have to agree that $10 for a single movie ticket is outrageous. Heck, it's $8 here for the evening shows and I still only go when it's one heck of a good movie... Casino Royale won me over recently because I couldn't wait for the DVD to come out. (Was not disappointed, great movie!) I'd rather splurge on a nice meal out and pick up a rental movie to watch at home.

Betcha didn't plan for your personal ad thread to turn into the pros and cons of renting movies vs. going to the theatre. Sounds like you'll come up with some new friends just by being yourself. It's a down-to-earth sorta ad that I think would appeal to a lot of people.

 

[WaywardWanderer]

Thanks for all the replies, all...and I'm glad to see I've got the basis for a grass-roots movement to rise up against the movie moguls who charge so freakin' much for tickets! hehe

In any case, though, I just wanted to say thanks to everybody, but I've decided that it's time to turn my attention away from this thread and toward some wonderful events that've transpired in my life.

Feel free to drop me a line anytime though, y'all .... penpals are always welcome, even though Santa's managed to bring me a bit of Christmas romance.

Be well, all.

 

[BedtimeStories77]

(Thread closed per "owner's" request.)