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My suggestion for a beginning point would be to check out the library at the top of this forum...you will find lots of good threads loaded with information there as well as links to other places of interest. Feel free to ask any specific questions you might come up with.

Catalina :rose:
 
catalina_francisco said:
My suggestion for a beginning point would be to check out the library at the top of this forum...you will find lots of good threads loaded with information there as well as links to other places of interest. Feel free to ask any specific questions you might come up with.

Catalina :rose:
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i found it earlier. There so much. :)

Is there any that you know of offhand that deal with the emotional or psychological part of BDSM?

:kiss:
 
Welcome, hope you find the information around here useful. There's lots available if ya dig deep enough, or just start asking some questions. :)

I personally think the only difference between straight and non-straight BDSM is sexual orientation, but that's just me. :D
 
dixicritter said:
Welcome, hope you find the information around here useful. There's lots available if ya dig deep enough, or just start asking some questions. :)

I personally think the only difference between straight and non-straight BDSM is sexual orientation, but that's just me. :D
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Hi there stranger. Nice to see your sexy av again.
 
the BDSM aspect of my relationship, while a neccesary part for me, is sometimes overwhelming to my boyfriend and Sir. We found a comprimise between a normal/vanilla relationship and one involving D/s.
 
I'd like to recommend as well that you keep in mind that BDSM is not a "thing". It's a name given to a very, very broad range of behaviors and habits and lifestyles.

Here's the thing I want to warn you about: A lot of people who do "BDSM" are inexplicably dogmatic. There are a lot of "shoulds" and "shouldn'ts" and labels and categorizations and hierarchies and nomenclature and etc. etc. While there are always good and bad in every "community", I personally shy away from the BDSM crowd because I find that much of the beauty and art is lost in a sea of "rights" and "wrongs".

Suggestion: Don't get too wrapped up in what it's called and don't take someone else's word on how to do it right as gospel. Do be brave about exploring all the possibilities and potential avenues that appeal to you (and bring your lover with you for the journey). When you get the flavor you like into your sex life, you'll know it... and no-one can tell you otherwise.
 
Jailhouse said:
I'd like to recommend as well that you keep in mind that BDSM is not a "thing". It's a name given to a very, very broad range of behaviors and habits and lifestyles.

Here's the thing I want to warn you about: A lot of people who do "BDSM" are inexplicably dogmatic. There are a lot of "shoulds" and "shouldn'ts" and labels and categorizations and hierarchies and nomenclature and etc. etc. While there are always good and bad in every "community", I personally shy away from the BDSM crowd because I find that much of the beauty and art is lost in a sea of "rights" and "wrongs".

Suggestion: Don't get too wrapped up in what it's called and don't take someone else's word on how to do it right as gospel. Do be brave about exploring all the possibilities and potential avenues that appeal to you (and bring your lover with you for the journey). When you get the flavor you like into your sex life, you'll know it... and no-one can tell you otherwise.
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I like your post here Jailhouse!

*smiles*

Fury :rose:
 
Hey thanks. I just don't want this poor soul to be discouraged if some overweight, middle-aged homer wearing a gimp mask says "THAT'S not BDSM! You're not doing it RIGHT! What's WRONG with you? BDSM is *only* when you (insert long list of dogmatic bullshit here)!"
 
Jailhouse said:
Hey thanks. I just don't want this poor soul to be discouraged if some overweight, middle-aged homer wearing a gimp mask says "THAT'S not BDSM! You're not doing it RIGHT! What's WRONG with you? BDSM is *only* when you (insert long list of dogmatic bullshit here)!"
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LOL!

I hear ya!

*smiles*

Fury :rose:
 
Oh, one last bit of advice:

Hemp rope. Not nylon. It's worth the cost.
 
And another thing, I can't make myself inhale so, really I'd prefer hemp brownies please. How about turtle caramel hemp brownies? :devil:

Fury :rose:
 
FurryFury said:
And another thing, I can't make myself inhale so, really I'd prefer hemp brownies please. How about turtle caramel hemp brownies? :devil:
Fury :rose:
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You've had your warning. Now assume the position!

If this doesn't work there's only one thing left to do!
 
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