A literotica personal/rant

[MissExotique22]

"I am a woman seeking a man."

I don't even really know what I seek.

I seek a relationship not bound by sex, pretentious behavior, or emotional games. I seek a relationship not dominated by someone needing to have the upper hand at all times, therefore toying with and emotionally abusing the other party, but one equally distributed. I seek a relationship fueled not just by lust and instability, but by true passion, honesty, compromise, loyalty, and truth. I want something that can not only take my breath away, but keep me grounded and focused on what is genuinely important. I seek a companionship that keeps me humbled, identifying the flaws within myself and challenging me to fix them, but also continually makes me realize that I am treasured and loved.

In this world, fueled by either the most lonesome and miserable or the contemptuous and abusive, it's so very hard to find that balance for a relationship. That balance is what I crave. If I can't find it, I choose to be alone. I'm so tired of people "advertising" that they can give me what I seek, only to let me down or break me down by showing me they only want sex, or someone to latch onto emotionally because they're lonely and miserable. I want a friend first, then a lover. A passionate, no-holds-barred lover, like I am. I'm a flawed, imperfect being. I don't want a fairy tale; I want an honest relationship with another flawed, imperfect being. Something that simple has been turned into something so complicated, and I'm about to give up hope.

Rant over.

Anyone else feel this way?

 

[BlueElf]

Yep!

You said what is on my mind! Thanks for sharing!

 

[firstcousin]

Yes

More than you think. As a man if I don't satisfy a woman sexually than I have failed. Sex is more than the act- it is giving, taking, and emotion. There is a difference in, "I want to make love to you" versus "I want to make love WITH you." To you satisfies me, with you satisfies us both. Just my opinion.

 

[jonnyfingers69]

we are out there

Seek and ye shall find

 

[Thatdurtydawg]

MissExotique,

I think you have eloquently expressed what many people would want if they read your words and thought about your words.

Please do not give up hope!
My wish is that you find the relationship you seek as you clearly deserve it.

 

[Thebee123]

"I am a woman seeking a man."

I don't even really know what I seek.

I seek a relationship not bound by sex, pretentious behavior, or emotional games. I seek a relationship not dominated by someone needing to have the upper hand at all times, therefore toying with and emotionally abusing the other party, but one equally distributed. I seek a relationship fueled not just by lust and instability, but by true passion, honesty, compromise, loyalty, and truth. I want something that can not only take my breath away, but keep me grounded and focused on what is genuinely important. I seek a companionship that keeps me humbled, identifying the flaws within myself and challenging me to fix them, but also continually makes me realize that I am treasured and loved.

In this world, fueled by either the most lonesome and miserable or the contemptuous and abusive, it's so very hard to find that balance for a relationship. That balance is what I crave. If I can't find it, I choose to be alone. I'm so tired of people "advertising" that they can give me what I seek, only to let me down or break me down by showing me they only want sex, or someone to latch onto emotionally because they're lonely and miserable. I want a friend first, then a lover. A passionate, no-holds-barred lover, like I am. I'm a flawed, imperfect being. I don't want a fairy tale; I want an honest relationship with another flawed, imperfect being. Something that simple has been turned into something so complicated, and I'm about to give up hope.

Rant over.

Anyone else feel this way?

I *think* we all feel this way.

We don't act so.

 

[LadyVer]

"I am a woman seeking a man."

I don't even really know what I seek.

I seek a relationship not bound by sex, pretentious behavior, or emotional games. I seek a relationship not dominated by someone needing to have the upper hand at all times, therefore toying with and emotionally abusing the other party, but one equally distributed. I seek a relationship fueled not just by lust and instability, but by true passion, honesty, compromise, loyalty, and truth. I want something that can not only take my breath away, but keep me grounded and focused on what is genuinely important. I seek a companionship that keeps me humbled, identifying the flaws within myself and challenging me to fix them, but also continually makes me realize that I am treasured and loved.

In this world, fueled by either the most lonesome and miserable or the contemptuous and abusive, it's so very hard to find that balance for a relationship. That balance is what I crave. If I can't find it, I choose to be alone. I'm so tired of people "advertising" that they can give me what I seek, only to let me down or break me down by showing me they only want sex, or someone to latch onto emotionally because they're lonely and miserable. I want a friend first, then a lover. A passionate, no-holds-barred lover, like I am. I'm a flawed, imperfect being. I don't want a fairy tale; I want an honest relationship with another flawed, imperfect being. Something that simple has been turned into something so complicated, and I'm about to give up hope.

Rant over.

Anyone else feel this way?

Lit is not the place to look for a perfect lover or friend. Just try to have fun and remember that Lit is just another online platform full of people that are here for different reasons. Drama is plentiful here, unfortunately.

 

[troubledone]

"I am a woman seeking a man."

I don't even really know what I seek.

I seek a relationship not bound by sex, pretentious behavior, or emotional games. I seek a relationship not dominated by someone needing to have the upper hand at all times, therefore toying with and emotionally abusing the other party, but one equally distributed. I seek a relationship fueled not just by lust and instability, but by true passion, honesty, compromise, loyalty, and truth. I want something that can not only take my breath away, but keep me grounded and focused on what is genuinely important. I seek a companionship that keeps me humbled, identifying the flaws within myself and challenging me to fix them, but also continually makes me realize that I am treasured and loved.

In this world, fueled by either the most lonesome and miserable or the contemptuous and abusive, it's so very hard to find that balance for a relationship. That balance is what I crave. If I can't find it, I choose to be alone. I'm so tired of people "advertising" that they can give me what I seek, only to let me down or break me down by showing me they only want sex, or someone to latch onto emotionally because they're lonely and miserable. I want a friend first, then a lover. A passionate, no-holds-barred lover, like I am. I'm a flawed, imperfect being. I don't want a fairy tale; I want an honest relationship with another flawed, imperfect being. Something that simple has been turned into something so complicated, and I'm about to give up hope.

Rant over.

Anyone else feel this way?

Impressive rant do not give up hope engage with like minded people

 

[_man_]

I think most of us feel the same way, and I think we all have the best intentions of treating someone that we meet like a friend, a confidant, and then a lover. I personally wonder if you want some to keep you humbled as much as you want some to accept you as you are. And, day to day, we are not always the same person.

That's the balance, I think.

You are a thoughtful, introspective person. Don't give up your search. And don't settle.

 

[anarevan]

"I am a woman seeking a man."

I don't even really know what I seek.

I seek a relationship not bound by sex, pretentious behavior, or emotional games. I seek a relationship not dominated by someone needing to have the upper hand at all times, therefore toying with and emotionally abusing the other party, but one equally distributed. I seek a relationship fueled not just by lust and instability, but by true passion, honesty, compromise, loyalty, and truth. I want something that can not only take my breath away, but keep me grounded and focused on what is genuinely important. I seek a companionship that keeps me humbled, identifying the flaws within myself and challenging me to fix them, but also continually makes me realize that I am treasured and loved.

In this world, fueled by either the most lonesome and miserable or the contemptuous and abusive, it's so very hard to find that balance for a relationship. That balance is what I crave. If I can't find it, I choose to be alone. I'm so tired of people "advertising" that they can give me what I seek, only to let me down or break me down by showing me they only want sex, or someone to latch onto emotionally because they're lonely and miserable. I want a friend first, then a lover. A passionate, no-holds-barred lover, like I am. I'm a flawed, imperfect being. I don't want a fairy tale; I want an honest relationship with another flawed, imperfect being. Something that simple has been turned into something so complicated, and I'm about to give up hope.

Rant over.

Anyone else feel this way?

Wow. That was absolutely incredible. I feel this exactly. That was so raw, and real. Thank you for this.

 

[troubledone]

Wow. That was absolutely incredible. I feel this exactly. That was so raw, and real. Thank you for this.

Wicked girl

 

[MissExotique22]

Thank you everybody I was feeling a bit down last night and decided to just, let it out. I got some really sweet PM's, too. It's nice to know I'm not alone.

 

[YoungToy]

Ive found a few people here who basically just want someone to take afvantage of when theyre horny and sure its fun, but it gets old. Theres very few where I actually enjoy talking to them ouside of when I want to blow my load and Im very grateful to be able to talk to them. Always going to be a few bad apples and boring people, but there are some genuinely interested people that are seeking a friend and a sexual partner. They could be one of those people just seeking a female, they could be one of those horny submissive guys that are beginning for it, or they could be some random guy you message every once in a while. You never know. There arent many women that I talk to, but its always nice to find someone that I enjoy conversing with

 

[TwoShades]

Thank you everybody I was feeling a bit down last night and decided to just, let it out. I got some really sweet PM's, too. It's nice to know I'm not alone.

I hope you find what you are seeking. I think we all crave what you wrote so eloquently. Don't give up hope. If I could give you some advice, I would say... Keep your mind open to the possibility that it may come from someplace you would never expect. Keep your eyes and mind open. Be bold. But also be careful. Good luck.

 

[smallgirl]

"I am a woman seeking a man."

I don't even really know what I seek.

I seek a relationship not bound by sex, pretentious behavior, or emotional games. I seek a relationship not dominated by someone needing to have the upper hand at all times, therefore toying with and emotionally abusing the other party, but one equally distributed. I seek a relationship fueled not just by lust and instability, but by true passion, honesty, compromise, loyalty, and truth. I want something that can not only take my breath away, but keep me grounded and focused on what is genuinely important. I seek a companionship that keeps me humbled, identifying the flaws within myself and challenging me to fix them, but also continually makes me realize that I am treasured and loved.

In this world, fueled by either the most lonesome and miserable or the contemptuous and abusive, it's so very hard to find that balance for a relationship. That balance is what I crave. If I can't find it, I choose to be alone. I'm so tired of people "advertising" that they can give me what I seek, only to let me down or break me down by showing me they only want sex, or someone to latch onto emotionally because they're lonely and miserable. I want a friend first, then a lover. A passionate, no-holds-barred lover, like I am. I'm a flawed, imperfect being. I don't want a fairy tale; I want an honest relationship with another flawed, imperfect being. Something that simple has been turned into something so complicated, and I'm about to give up hope.

Rant over.

Anyone else feel this way?

Well said.

 

[bholderman]

I will admit, I'm not here for any serious relationship. Friendship, heck yeah, chat yes, cyber, occasionally but I completely get what you are saying. Rant taken, well written.

 

[DukeSupernature]

If we were all perfect - no one person would be different from another.
Our flaws are what define us and how you know you truly love someone.

 

[Raven6766]

"I am a woman seeking a man."

I don't even really know what I seek.

I seek a relationship not bound by sex, pretentious behavior, or emotional games. I seek a relationship not dominated by someone needing to have the upper hand at all times, therefore toying with and emotionally abusing the other party, but one equally distributed. I seek a relationship fueled not just by lust and instability, but by true passion, honesty, compromise, loyalty, and truth. I want something that can not only take my breath away, but keep me grounded and focused on what is genuinely important. I seek a companionship that keeps me humbled, identifying the flaws within myself and challenging me to fix them, but also continually makes me realize that I am treasured and loved.

In this world, fueled by either the most lonesome and miserable or the contemptuous and abusive, it's so very hard to find that balance for a relationship. That balance is what I crave. If I can't find it, I choose to be alone. I'm so tired of people "advertising" that they can give me what I seek, only to let me down or break me down by showing me they only want sex, or someone to latch onto emotionally because they're lonely and miserable. I want a friend first, then a lover. A passionate, no-holds-barred lover, like I am. I'm a flawed, imperfect being. I don't want a fairy tale; I want an honest relationship with another flawed, imperfect being. Something that simple has been turned into something so complicated, and I'm about to give up hope.

Rant over.

Anyone else feel this way?

I will agree with you Firstcousin. I really am tired of people not telling the truth about themselves. I do not have the ability to lie about myself, I am who I am.

What I feel people fail to understand is that if you lie about yourself in the beginning what makes you think people will trust you later. I also think that even if someone says they can lie easily that eventually it begins to eat that their very being. Yes there are those who lie and it never seems to effect them, but in the long run it will.
Raven