a dying friend had a fantasy to have sex with you , what would your answer be ?

[VampirTARA]

If a friend That was over 18, was dying an example from something like cancer ( not HIV or AIDS ) and they had a crush on you or a fantasy to have sex with you, what would your answer be to them ?

 

[screwher]

If a friend That was over 18, was dying an example from something like cancer ( not HIV or AIDS ) and they had a crush on you or a fantasy to have sex with you, what would your answer be to them ?

Hmm that's a tough one. I wouldn't want to cheat in my wife but we're talking a dying wish here.

Let me add - Ladies, any guys use this as a line on you?

 

[VampirTARA]

Hmm that's a tough one. I wouldn't want to cheat in my wife but we're talking a dying wish here.

Let me add - Ladies, any guys use this as a line on you?

Yes I've had someone try to pull that line on me.

 

[CJontherocks]

If I was dying, I would totally play that card.

And if someone who was dying asked me to have sex, I would have sex with them. Can you imagine the passion a person with that much desire... to choose you as the last person they'll ever fuck... would feel like? Yeah, I would give them every last bit of me. And then I would probably cry.

 

[ncseeker]

That's an incredible scenario, and I don't think I could honestly answer it until I was really faced with it.

Still, all things being as equal as they could be, I think I would do it. As CJontherocks brought up, you couldn't doubt the passion and intent that person would have in making that request.

The only concern would be in making it worth their last time. In that respect, I would have to basically attend to their wish enough times to ensure they got their fantasy fulfilled.

Putting myself in the shoes of the dying one making the request, it most likely would be very sincere and totally from the heart (if not the head). I mean, even if I was dying, I still don't think I would have the guts enough to approach the object of my desires with that request. That's really putting one's heart out on the line.

 

[suckonsimon]

Hmm that's a tough one. I wouldn't want to cheat in my wife but we're talking a dying wish here.

I'd tell my wife about this request, and I guess I would go to it with her blessing.

The question begs other questions I've never posed: what about a fit and healthy good friend of my wife, who for some reason has little prospect of a new relationship and admits to having a serious crush on me, and longs for sexual pleasure in a safe context? I mean, as a couple we love to be generous in all sorts of ways ...

 

[rainbowdash30]

Yeah, why not? Just so long as they don't die during ...

 

[tristantrotsky]

Why pretend….?

The friend wouldn't have to pretend to be dying in order to have sex with me, just ask, I'm sure we could work something out...

 

[hilton1958]

I'd tell my wife about this request, and I guess I would go to it with her blessing.

The question begs other questions I've never posed: what about a fit and healthy good friend of my wife, who for some reason has little prospect of a new relationship and admits to having a serious crush on me, and longs for sexual pleasure in a safe context? I mean, as a couple we love to be generous in all sorts of ways ...

Hmm, while my wife is the embodiment of generosity, I figure this would be out of the scope, she would most likely tell her sex starved friend that sex us not essential to life or happiness, otherwise she might have offered my services to her sister by now, and made two people happy, lol.

 

[VampirTARA]

I love the answers everyone.

 

[HoldYouDown]

I'd do it - sounds like a unique opportunity to bring happiness to a sad circumstance.

Is this like an adult Make-A-Wish Foundation thing?

 

[screwher]

Hmm, while my wife is the embodiment of generosity, I figure this would be out of the scope, she would most likely tell her sex starved friend that sex us not essential to life or happiness, otherwise she might have offered my services to her sister by now, and made two people happy, lol.

I kind of agree here. I have some male friends with zero luck with women and couldn't get laid in a whorehouse. But I'm not about to turn my wife over to them, even if she wants too. I love the idea of other men screwing my wife - just not my friends.

 

[sexlover66]

For me...i think it would depend on the closeness of the relationship...if its someone you see like 2 to 4 times a year and you live in same town...no way....but if its someone you see regularly...someone you trust...i would probably go for it....but the relationship has to be there first

 

[maria1966]

I would tear off my clothes and have sex with them without any hesitation.

 

[VampirTARA]

For me...i think it would depend on the closeness of the relationship...if its someone you see like 2 to 4 times a year and you live in same town...no way....but if its someone you see regularly...someone you trust...i would probably go for it....but the relationship has to be there first

Now your answer, is exactly what I would say before I even would consider it, nott saying I would do it, but they would have to be a close friend before I would even consider the thought

 

[MissJW]

My answer would be no. First off, I'm married and monogamous. Secondly, I don't do people for pity or as favours. Us having sex wouldn't delay his/her death anyway.

 

[RipRespon]

Hmm that's a tough one. I wouldn't want to cheat in my wife but we're talking a dying wish here.

Let me add - Ladies, any guys use this as a line on you?

My wife and I did this once.

20 years ago my brother had a "terminal cancer patient" living in his house rent free to help him out in his last days. We met him, thought he was a good guy, we liked him, and after learning about our sexual history he had a dying wish. Then weeks later, after a party at the house, my wife and I had a 3 some with the guy. It was great fun.

He's still alive today. His terminal cancer ended up being a total farce.

 

[SquirtnBrat]

I don't do people for pity or as favours. Us having sex wouldn't delay his/her death anyway.

He's still alive today. His terminal cancer ended up being a total farce.

I agree. Pity sex is the worst! The cynic in me would buy the friend an escort. Easy solution.

 

[jackofthedawn]

If a friend That was over 18, was dying an example from something like cancer ( not HIV or AIDS ) and they had a crush on you or a fantasy to have sex with you, what would your answer be to them ?

I would totally have sex with that person, not out of pity, but just because I'm an incorrigible horndog.

 

[TangleLeg]

If a friend That was over 18, was dying an example from something like cancer ( not HIV or AIDS ) and they had a crush on you or a fantasy to have sex with you, what would your answer be to them ?

If there was a foundation of trust between us, little or no hesitation. Without the trust, I'd have to think about it, and my own attraction to them would be more of a factor.

 

[ShyMaleSub]

I agree. Pity sex is the worst! The cynic in me would buy the friend an escort. Easy solution.

What if all he wanted from you was a handjob?

 

[hilton1958]

I agree. Pity sex is the worst! The cynic in me would buy the friend an escort. Easy solution.

Yep, hiring a pro for your friend is an option, but didn't the original question imply it was specifically you that they wanted to hafe sex with? So it wasn't just sex thatbwas their dying wish, it was sex with YOU.

 

[Hypoxia]

Depends on the friend. I was actually in this situation long ago, with a dying friend and their mate, and it was pretty tense. (I had no partner at the time.) I'm not sure I would want to repeat. Good-bye fucks are never lots of fun.

 

[SquirtnBrat]

What if all he wanted from you was a handjob?

Marilyn Manson has a quote in his autobiography (I can't find anywhere on-line atm) about bj/hjs between friends more like handshakes then intimacy. Cracked me up!

 

[malefica]

No. I'm not going to break what is an agreed hard limit with my Owner, to fulfil a friend's wish. I've already discussed with my Owner about opening the relationship up because a friend of ours has an attraction to me that I was curious to explore, but he said no to the idea and that is that, end of discussion.