A crush...

[michaeka]

So I have an interesting situation, of which I'm going to leave all names and locations off of to protect the innocent (or the mostly innocent).

So I know this lady, she's just to die for!! A couple things you should know, first she dances for a living and no I don't mean ballet, she's married w/children, and we've made out several times. The other day we were talking, as I'm friends with her and a friend of hers, and she goes "you know I have the biggest crush on you".

Well FUCK ME!! Now lets put this in prospective, I'm not the best looking guy. In fact I'd say I'm pretty average. So I don't exactly how women falling over to meet me. And here's this HOTT smoking lady telling me she has a crush on me. Oh and I'm currently single.

Now the question is WTF do I do?!?!?! Do I let it go as a crush, or do I make a move?

And yes before someone asks the stupid question, I kinda do have a crush on her too. But I also have a ton of respect for her.

 

[Yang4yin]

You have to ask? Do not ask her out.

 

[sb363839]

I disagree...

You have to ask? Ask her out. She probably meets lots of the wrong kind of guys where she dances and would appreciate going out with you.

Since she is married with children, as tempting as it may be, you should not get "involved" with her. While it might be fun at the time it can not possibly lead to anything good in the long run. While it is hot to fantasize about and I will admit I probably wouldn't be strong enough to say no given the opportunity you would just be asking for trouble for yourself and her family. Bottom line is she should think about her kids and her husband before she does something she may regret.

 

[Yang4yin]

Since she is married with children, as tempting as it may be, you should not get "involved" with her.

Oops! I didn't read carefully! I take back what I said!

 

[Cathleen]

Nope, she is off limits, IMHO. You respect her so respect the fact that she's married - even though she might not respect it herself. You have to look yourself in the mirror - your choice.

 

[never_gets_enough]

Agreeing

Cathleen is right, could you live with yourself knowing that you destroyed a marriage and severely damaged lives of two children?

 

[BAD BOY BILL]

Don't shit where you eat

Leave her alone..I just went thru the same thing...nearly lost my job and self
respect...let her work on being single then go for it...

 

[somberReality]

I agree

Yes, she is married. Leave her alone.