A couple discussion topics.

[DragonCat91]

Just thought I'd throw out a few things to talk about, roughly related to my latest submission, that I can link to if anyone wants.

1: Penis size
What does everyone put their males at in this matter? Are they growers or showers? How big is too big?

While I don't put exact numbers down in the stories themselves, I did assign them. Feel free to list your own.

Guzma: 8 inches on the dot. Grower.

Slater "Saturn": 7.4 inches. Shower.

Merc: 7.8 inches. Grower.

Those are erect lengths, I'd assume the two growers would be a few 16ths of an inch smaller soft. From what I understand, a "grower" means it gains length, but a "shower" just gets hard.

Also, the last two are father and son, respectively. Some genetics involved in Merc's final length, he did end up slightly bigger than his dad, but still similar, at the age of 19 when he's fully grown. And of course he didn't get some until then either.

As a straight virgin female, I can only guess on how big would be too big for my liking. When I made that homemade dildo, I measured out 6 inches of the plastic tube because that's what I figured the average size was. I think I'd be okay with anywhere between 7 and 8 inches. Just like I assigned the guys in my stories. Yeah. I wouldn't reject someone if he was bigger than that or closer to the dildo size though. Heck, when I get to that point with a guy, I'd make it work.

2: Virgin awkwardness
How do you portray the awkwardness of a character's first time? It would depend on whether one or both are virgins of course. Yeah, for simplicity's sake, I'm not considering threesomes or foursomes etc.

Using a very well done guide on Tumblr for reference, I made Merc and Ava's actions shaky and hesitant, because they were both virgins. He'd humped pillows before but that doesn't count lol. They just rammed their noses into each other the first time they tried to kiss, he didn't know how to get her bra off, that sort of thing. The Tumblr guide suggested having the guy miss the vagina and stab his erection into the girl's leg, so I did that. First he stabbed her leg and then he missed her completely and hit the bed underneath her, then he almost stuck it in her butt lol. He wasn't looking down to control his aim, of course. He had to look down to get it in the right place. Awkward, yet adorable. I think that should describe a virgin's first time well enough.

I guess this would also depend on character personalities and a bunch of other factors, but yeah. Guzma was also a virgin in the story with him, but his girl wasn't. Yet I didn't include any adorable awkwardness. Maybe I should have, but then again, his personality is also more brash and cocky in general than Merc's, so he'd just plow right through the potential awkwardness I guess. Or maybe he'd practiced with blow up dolls. Yeah, I'll say that.

Discuss.

 

[ElectricBlue]

As a self-professed "straight virgin female" your best perspective, and the most credible and real writing as a consequence, surely, is to write as yourself?

You must be able to imagine your own uncertainty, excitement, fear at the idea of somebody entering your own body for the very first time? Am I doing this right? What will he think?

Aren't you your own term paper?

You wonder about the different lengths between soft and hard. It's not measured in sixteenths of an inch. Firstly, the Kinsey average for an erect penis is 6" - when soft and flacid, perhaps half that length (depending how cold it is - the little todger can be most unimpressive on a cold winter's morning). Remember, six inches is 'average' - which means half the guys you meet...

In my experience, women quite like a straight eight. I've seen a few eyes light up over the years. Maybe it's my height, six foot, thus keeping things in proportion. As they say.

 

[DragonCat91]

Haha, yeah...this is more of a discussion on what everybody does in their stories though. But good insight nevertheless. Sounds like I was close enough to being accurate.

And...shrinkage when it's cold? I've heard of that but haven't considered it. At least not in my stories.

 

[ElectricBlue]

Haha, yeah...this is more of a discussion on what everybody does in their stories though. But good insight nevertheless. Sounds like I was close enough to being accurate.

And...shrinkage when it's cold? I've heard of that but haven't considered it. At least not in my stories.

Serious shrinkage - I will go for my morning shower in a sec. I'll look down and disappoint myself. Seriously, I can be three inches soft, eight hard. It's a biiiiggg difference!

In my stories, I write what I know. Fortunately, I have a father to thank for a good gene pool. As does my son

 

[NotWise]

And...shrinkage when it's cold? I've heard of that but haven't considered it. At least not in my stories.

Especially in cold water.

Paraphrased from and on Seinfeld episode, "It hides like a scared turtle."

 

[PervOtaku]

Nah, I don't give cock size in inches. Sometimes a make a point of saying it's average size. That's in contrast to tits, where I do usually call out cup size just because it's a convenient and well known shorthand.

I've done a virgin-guy-experienced-girl scene a couple of times. I pretty much go with a slight timid uncertainty but also "he's seen enough internet porn to know how this works".

 

[JaxRhapsody]

1) Get laid. Hands on experience with dicks will help your story.

2) I've only got one virgin story. Truth be told- with variances of peoples personalities and experiances taken in to consideration, your virgin can be as one my friend encountered IRL who curled in to a ball and cried the moment his pants dropped, or your readers choice can't-wait-to-get-this-dick and anywhere between, outside, or diagonal of that.

I actually haven't checked my stuff, but I'm sure I posted that story about the virgin(s).