A bit of a different ad.

[lostforyou]

hello.

i'm a young woman looking for something a little different than what perhaps is the basic purpose of this forum. i'm an outwardly reserved and internally bursting person, looking for friends of a certain degree of intimacy, not necessarily at all sexual. i am already in love with a person, and i am already 'in love' with most of my close friends. i desire a probably unrealistic ideal, a friendship that extends beyond the normal limits, something safe and strange and intimate and wild, without being stifling, without the sense of something unrequited or the lack of fulfillment that comes with pining for a close friend. i'm looking for someone interesting, someone fun, someone open-minded, someone inquisitive. i am obsessed with the adventure that comes with getting to know and being known by another person. i want the thrill of discovery without jealousy and without disappointment that i cannot give of myself a strictly romantic commitment.
those who don't know me well consider me a little evasive, sometimes even cold, but in truth, i'm anything but. i'm not what one would consider a social creature; i am shy, a little dark, a little bright, wrapped in a package most probably wouldn't expect (but if what i look like is really a caveat for you, then i don't think that you're what i'm looking for). i'm looking for women or for men. i'd prefer messages (private or not) here before i give out any personal information, about how to contact me otherwise.

 

[wickedlady31]

hmmmmmmmm

Interesting
*scratches chin* Very very interesting

This Ad has my attention

 

[Lurnk]

This Ad has my attention

Ditto.

 

[LibraStud]

Double Ditto. Interesting.

 

[kirkat]

Yes, thats what I thought when I saw it first thing this morning, Interesting.
In a sense, what lostforyou is seeking is what this board is is a microcosm of. We can all come here, be here, let our hair down and show our truly sensual side which is so much a part of our esssential humaness, (despite attempts to stamp out for centuries by various religous dogmas) yet what what we cannot be to each other in real life because we are afraid of what society, our peers, workers, bossess, society in general will ostracize us somehow if we are using our most human traits more fully. There are conversations here that are very fulfilling, all particapants sharing and little by little pushing our mental/spiritual side as it/they harmonize with our physical side.

Of course there is more to the search, finding that like minded soul, who will allow her to grow beyond herself without controlling the direction of the growth. It's hard, and freinds who can do this are rare indeed. I would say I am fortunate to have been in several of these over the years, some lost due to geographical seperations, some to forces from others in their lives. But I wish you sucess on finding that person. Its great to have that someone, even if only for a few years.

 

[TwilightEmbrace]

Yes, thats what I thought when I saw it first thing this morning, Interesting.
In a sense, what lostforyou is seeking is what this board is is a microcosm of. We can all come here, be here, let our hair down and show our truly sensual side which is so much a part of our esssential humaness, (despite attempts to stamp out for centuries by various religous dogmas) yet what what we cannot be to each other in real life because we are afraid of what society, our peers, workers, bossess, society in general will ostracize us somehow if we are using our most human traits more fully. There are conversations here that are very fulfilling, all particapants sharing and little by little pushing our mental/spiritual side as it/they harmonize with our physical side.

Of course there is more to the search, finding that like minded soul, who will allow her to grow beyond herself without controlling the direction of the growth. It's hard, and freinds who can do this are rare indeed. I would say I am fortunate to have been in several of these over the years, some lost due to geographical seperations, some to forces from others in their lives. But I wish you sucess on finding that person. Its great to have that someone, even if only for a few years.

I haven't experienced that on lit and probably just because I have only been on the boards for about a week, maybe a lil more. I have experienced this at other places on the internet. There some that I shall never forget. Some that gave me strength when I needed it the most. Some of those friends have moved on whether it be through normal life changes, distance, or the unthinkable death.

Sometimes I draw on the memories I have to gain the strength that I'm currently needing.

 

[JayVCL12]

I'm not exactly sure what you are looking for, but I would love to have a deeper conversation about it if you are still looking for that. I also am in a committed relationship and feel like what I am looking for may be similar to what you are looking for. Message me sometime or send me an e-mail at verycunninglinguistics@yahoo.com. I don't check this e-mail extremely regularly, but I promise I will respond if you e-mail me there. Hope to hear from you soon!