a better way to find someone

[WriterDom]

Some of you may want to spend some time on the other bdsm boards here. There are pretty nice available subs that would probably like to know you better if you don't come on too strong. "Get on your knees and suck my cock" isn't going to win many hearts. Not a bunch of Doms, but some. If you see a guy named Richard, he is always looking for a sub.

Taking time to slowly make friends has worked better for me than personals.

 

[OzSteamer]

Yeah, it's interesting, anyhoo, spending time, here...I've met all SORTS of people.

In any case, you're right.


That STILL doesn't mean we shouldn't post a "personal", though, if you'll pardon me for saying so - it alerts people to the fact that we're looking & interested.

 

[WriterDom]

I'm not against personals. I just have more luck interacting with people. Seems that women have much more luck with responses, usually than a guy does. But I often hear them complain about quality. How often have you seen a guy's personal sink to the bottom without one response? I guess they could be contacted privately. I know that worked for me once. But the majority of mine never worked.

But if you don't have your line in the water, you aren't going to catch a fish. So post away.

 

[lovetoread]

Good advice.

That Richard dude is a cool fella.

 

[WriterDom]

Good advice.

That Richard dude is a cool fella.

Flirt needs to feed you more.

 

[Netzach]

I'm a top and I'm sooo not in Australia, but I think I may be developing a fetish I'd never even thought of looking at those pics.

 

[Luminary]

a better way

I would have to agree with you.
I like to take is slow and build.
I don't come here to often because of the hard press.
I've only made two good relationships the whole time I've been here.
So you are right on !!!!

 

[WriterDom]

My bad poetry has gotten me laid more than anything else. It doesn't work on all women. But more than you may think. The key is to start off very sweet. Get her to look forward to something everyday. Interject more romance and sexuality. Within a month she'll meet you at the door in her panties.

 

[lovetoread]

Flirt needs to feed you more.

Which appetite should he be feeding?

 

[FungiUg]

Which appetite should he be feeding?

The one that's hungriest?

Actually, I have had the most sucess posting to a local New Zealand dating site. Go figure. That and just chatting to people on ICQ.

So I guess the real thing is not to pin your hopes on just one thing. Post personals, but get out there and chat and talk to people as well.