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[Ling00]

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[muppiethesecond]

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[AlmostAlice]

Meanwhile, there seems to be no shortage of stories about black men dominating white women but as far as stories about white men dominating women of other races (even Asian women like myself)... not so much. Why is this?

Maybe because there are more white women on Lit than Asian women? I don't know.

I do remember reading a few stories with white men dominating Asian women in the nonconsent/reluctance section, though I don't think racial abuse was actually a big part of the stories. Is that important? Anyways, searching for the 'asian' tag in the nonconsent/reluctance section might be a good place to start.

There was a new story called 'Prejudice' in the nc/r section a couple of days ago with racism specifically. Though the Asian woman in question was Indian rather than East Asian, which presumably was what you meant by 'Asian'?

Welcome to Lit and hope I helped!

 

[JustaSCOUNDREL]

Ling00 here is a link to a story you may like although I will say it is pretty rough both physically and verbally.

http://www.literotica.com/s/craving-humiliation-asian-adventure

Mike

 

[barebacknubianf]

I think people are scared that if they indulge in this sort of thing in fantasy land they might be accused of being actually racist in real life.

It's sad because we should be able to keep fantasies and reality separate. What goes on in a story or a PM exchange or in one's own dreamland should stay there.

 

[webjock]

Racism.

I'm noticing stories involving racial abuse and humiliation are few and far between. As someone who loves reading about Asian women being racially abused by sexually dominant white men, this is sort of disappointing. In fact I've only found a handful of stories exploring this theme.

Meanwhile, there seems to be no shortage of stories about black men dominating white women but as far as stories about white men dominating women of other races (even Asian women like myself)... not so much. Why is this?

Also I'm new here so if anyone could direct me to where I can explore this interest further, please let me know.

It depends on the scenario. As a Black man, I would not being mind being dominated and degraded by a White woman in private as long as she does not take our "session" outdoors in public.

 

[Abitov]

I'm noticing stories involving racial abuse and humiliation are few and far between. As someone who loves reading about Asian women being racially abused by sexually dominant white men, this is sort of disappointing. In fact I've only found a handful of stories exploring this theme.

Meanwhile, there seems to be no shortage of stories about black men dominating white women but as far as stories about white men dominating women of other races (even Asian women like myself)... not so much. Why is this?

Also I'm new here so if anyone could direct me to where I can explore this interest further, please let me know.

Hi LingOO:

Here is another Tags Search Area in addition to the link "AlmostAlice" gave you:

http://tags.literotica.com/

One possible explanation is that Asian women naturally have that domme look--(sorry if that is a racist sterotype, but that is how my imagination sees them usually. Such eyes!

Anyhow, hope the link helps, and welcome to Lit.

Abitov

 

[HeyAll]

I love it as well. It's an erotic fantasy.

I think there isn't as much of that here because people might be ashamed to write it, or they think it won't have an audience perhaps.

 

[Stella_Omega]

I think people are scared that if they indulge in this sort of thing in fantasy land they might be accused of being actually racist in real life.

It's sad because we should be able to keep fantasies and reality separate. What goes on in a story or a PM exchange or in one's own dreamland should stay there.

we should, and it should, but--. the hard part about keeping race play seperate from the rest of our lives is that we take something that figures in the rest of our lives, and we shove it into our sex life.

I once got hollered at by my mother (1972 or thereabouts) because I made kitty ears for my black girlfriend (before kitty ears were common) and made a kitty collar for her, for halloween. STELLA, she said in the Mom Voice Of Doom, YOU MARCHED FOR EQUAL RIGHTS RIGHT ALONGSIDE OF YOUR PARENTS. YOU CAN NOT PUT A COLLAR ON A BLACK GIRL!
(You'll notice the use of "girl" instead of our more aware "woman")

Moooommm... this is personal! She's my pet!

But I lost the battle.

It depends on the scenario. As a Black man, I would not being mind being dominated and degraded by a White woman in private as long as she does not take our "session" outdoors in public.

indeed.

Sex is what it is, and what gives you a boner is your own lookout-- untill you decide to share it with the rest of the world. That's when your sex life becomes public property.

 

[justherhusband]

I'm with Stella on this one.

 

[BradBigBrain]

I'm with Stella on this one.

Well, maybe. But the OP loves what she does.

 

[Stella_Omega]

Well, maybe. But the OP loves what she does.

I think I would love what she does, too. In private.

 

[BradBigBrain]

I think I would love what she does, too. In private.

No doubt.

 

[englishgent73]

One possible explanation (speaking as a bi-sub) is that Asian women naturally have that domme look--(sorry if that is a racist sterotype, but that is how my imagination sees them usually. Such eyes!

I don't know if it's a cultural thing from our colonial past, but most sexual references I come across in the UK about Asian women involve them being extremely subservient.

Although I could never envisage an overtly racist scenario myself, I could see one harking back to colonial days - maybe a girl used to sweeten a trade deal or something along those lines.

 

[acre1]

I think people are scared that if they indulge in this sort of thing in fantasy land they might be accused of being actually racist in real life.

It's sad because we should be able to keep fantasies and reality separate. What goes on in a story or a PM exchange or in one's own dreamland should stay there.

i completely agree!




If there any stories out there with this theme, and anyone cares to PM me them, that would be great....i have never read one of these stories but the topic sounds like its right up my ally.

 

[KatNW1]

It depends on the scenario. As a Black man, I would not being mind being dominated and degraded by a White woman in private as long as she does not take our "session" outdoors in public.

Why in the hell did thinking about THAT turn me on???

 

[KatNW1]

I don't know if it's a cultural thing from our colonial past, but most sexual references I come across in the UK about Asian women involve them being extremely subservient.

Although I could never envisage an overtly racist scenario myself, I could see one harking back to colonial days - maybe a girl used to sweeten a trade deal or something along those lines.

Or maybe a White strawberry blonde brought over from the Colonies as an indentured servant?

Good God.

(The same references to Asian women exist in the US as well.)

 

[barebacknubianf]

Why in the hell did thinking about THAT turn me on???

Probably because you're baaaaad.

 

[ChinaBandit]

From Lorena

Just a perspective from one Asian woman. I do not want to be abused or suffer humiliation. The sexual situations I find myself in are only those I can agree to-and have much control over. If I do let go of control-it is my own decision to do so. Kinky and humiliation are distinct-I think. See my other post for further thoughts.

Kisses,

Lorena

 

[ChinaBandit]

This is Lorena

Before 1949 mainland women enjoyed no rights!!!Men could do whatever they pleased. This included having mutltiple or small wives. Beating was common. We had no face in male society. I think that was a horrible time. I feel very fortunate to have been born in modern China. Today-we hold up half the sky.

There is a saying-my husband decides the big things but I first decide what are big things and what are small things. I have male employees! I am the home financial manager! I am the bedroom manager-and select male concubines at MY preference! I like living this way (SMILE). It is still important for me to try and be kind at all times. Also-a smart women does not do something that will ruin her family. That is very Chinese thinking.

Kisses,

Lorena

 

[Fondelum]

My wife is from Taipei Taiwan. She's 5 years older then me. We've had this conversation numerous times. She doesn't go in for the submissive Asian female role at all. In fact it she's very much against it. Born in a dragon year and a Virgo she brooks no crap She could be a very good Dom but isn't that either lol.

 

[Fondelum]

Before 1949 mainland women enjoyed no rights!!!Men could do whatever they pleased. This included having mutltiple or small wives. Beating was common. We had no face in male society. I think that was a horrible time. I feel very fortunate to have been born in modern China. Today-we hold up half the sky.

There is a saying-my husband decides the big things but I first decide what are big things and what are small things. I have male employees! I am the home financial manager! I am the bedroom manager-and select male concubines at MY preference! I like living this way (SMILE). It is still important for me to try and be kind at all times. Also-a smart women does not do something that will ruin her family. That is very Chinese thinking.

Kisses,

Lorena

Well and so

 

[ChinaBandit]

Rebut

This is Lorena's husband and I don't totally agree with her.

If I am the bitch in my house it has everything to do with her male characteristics rather than ethnicity.

In general, most Asian women (including Chinese) remain submissive in the 21st Century!

In an effort to be helpful:

I can recommend several excellent reads including Edward Said's "Orientalism" but the best may be "The Asian Mystique" by Sheridan Prasso. The ISBN for this particular tile is: 1-58648-214-9. There is even a chapter entitled "Race-ism, Fetish and Fever". It is a fascinating read for anyone interested in the connections, often illicit, between sexual desire, Asia and the Occident. It will definitely help you explore the typical Eastern female/Western male relationship.

 

[minago]

Racism: Is it wrong to get off on it?.

well if your submissive in general ...then you like being dominated .

racism could be a from of domination so naturally you would like it.

now is it wrong to get off on it?

racism in it self is subjective ...i don't necessarily think it has a right or wrong.

but the circumstances that relate from the outcome of it can be bad.

i don't think it is healthy mentality to have in it self "discrimination".

most of the time if you have to stop and ask is this alright?

then more than likely it's not.

try talking with your partner far as activity's in the bedroom .

because for the most part why read fantasy to get off when you have reality.

 

[englishgent73]

Or maybe a White strawberry blonde brought over from the Colonies as an indentured servant?

Good God.

Well, that would work for me. Know where I can find one?