60% of American women...

[Countess DeWinter]

are a size 12 or higher. Men are probably in a similar state.
Sound off about our weight obsessed culture.

Personally, I find it sad. I've never met a man who really enjoyed feeling bony hips (not slender, mind you, BONY) rubbing against him during sex.
As for skinny guys -- any guy I can bench press is not going to get into my bed!

Let's hear your opinions!

 

[R Nitelight]

Countess DeWinter

I'd have to know what you bench press before answering.

 

[Countess DeWinter]

let's see....it's probably more appropriate to say that I can tackle a 200 lb. man while playing a friendly game of football.
I may be alone here, but I like the feeling of a man's weight on top of me...*sigh* Oops! My mind is wondering!

 

[Bobtoad777]

I like a woman that has enough meat on her that a bone isn't going to poke a bone out through her somewhere. and a little meat on the hips helps gives a better grip when I cum up from behind her and bend her over on the firehydrant at 1 in the morning on a darkened side street.

 

[TonyG]

I have never been sexually attracted to the Ally McBeal type of body. Just doesn't look healthy or appealing to me. I want a woman that has more on top of her bones than just a layer of skin.

Personally I never allow myself to become skinny or bony. I try to keep myself fit and usually no more than 10-15 pounds above the average weight for my height. This has now become more important since that is a way to get into your bed.

 

[WriterDom]

if she has a sexy mind I don't really care either way ... bony works well in the female superior position or from behind

 

[Thumper]

Uh bob..

I like a woman that has enough meat on her that a bone isn't going to poke a bone out through her somewhere. and a little meat on the hips helps gives a better grip when I cum up from behind her and bend her over on the firehydrant at 1 in the morning on a darkened side street.

Have you registered with the local authorities?

 

[Beebeeblue]

Re: Uh bob..

I like a woman that has enough meat on her that a bone isn't going to poke a bone out through her somewhere. and a little meat on the hips helps gives a better grip when I cum up from behind her and bend her over on the firehydrant at 1 in the morning on a darkened side street.

Have you registered with the local authorities?

ROTFLMAO!!! Shit...thats too funny!!! I needed a good laugh!

 

[Shelby]

Bobtoad...You are talking from experience here??? Bending her over a fire hydrant??? I'm thinking big or small, that's going to hurt big time!

Xmas shopping today I saw the cutest little hand painted sheep. Hand lettered on the sheep was the following inscription..."Ewe's not fat, ewe's just fluffy"

And just to gripe here... Is there a reason why people who are larger than I am feel they can say to me "look how skinny you are." I would never dream of saying to someone "look how fat you are."

Thank-you, I just vented.

 

[Bobtoad777]

Re: Uh bob..

I like a woman that has enough meat on her that a bone isn't going to poke a bone out through her somewhere. and a little meat on the hips helps gives a better grip when I cum up from behind her and bend her over on the firehydrant at 1 in the morning on a darkened side street.

Have you registered with the local authorities?

I was beginning to think no one would even notice me. It is all hypthetical, I am still a virgin and the darkened side streets with firehydrants are still safe for women
to walk at night

 

[Beebeeblue]

*damn*

 

[Bobtoad777]

*damn*

should I ask why?

 

[Beebeeblue]

No, you shouldn't. Because *IF* I told you why, I'd have to kill you. And you dont want that do you???

*not that I have any secret desire to be taken on the streets at 1am or anything* Pardon me now..gotta go fix my halo.

 

[Bobtoad777]

No, you shouldn't. Because *IF* I told you why, I'd have to kill you. And you dont want that do you???

*not that I have any secret desire to be taken on the streets at 1am or anything* Pardon me now..gotta go fix my halo.

you can kill me if you want I have been killed before and just like the unwanted house guest i just keep coming back. I think i have been killed 6 times now.

 

[Rosebud]

It is not the size of the horse you ride but the performance it gives that wins the blue ribbons

 

[Never]

This will sound ignorant and presumptuous but I'm on a roll tonight.

Sometimes, I think straights are too damn picky. That's what happens when you have 90% of the opposite sex to choose from. Realizing that there are three billion women who'd rather go to bed with Woody Allen than with you makes you a bit more humble.

If you're not attracted to the Ally McBeil type of body that's fine - if you're not attracted to the Rosie O'Donnell type of body that's fine - if you're not attracted to the Marilyn Monroe type body that's fine... simply remember that while judging you're being judged.

As the sex-starved virgin type, I can honestly state that given twenty minutes and a bit of imagination on my part, there's not a woman alive that couldn't turn me on.
Now that's scary.

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Now that I think about it - that's not really much of a complement to women. Just ignore me I'm rambling again.

 

[ShyGuy68]

I have to admit that I don't mind a woman with shapes at all. To me it's not the looks that are the most important thing, it's the personality. I know I might sound idealistic right now, but I'm being honest.

Ohh and Countess I really like your shapes!!

 

[Merelan]

Shelby...
I think I love you!! I lost alot of weight do to illness, and now I get the your so skinny all the time. I feel the same way. They say, oh your so skinny I hate you! I know their joking, but what if I said... Your so fat, I hate you.. to one of them. No, I would be rude and insensitive. Luckily I am back to my ideal weight, and staying there. But I still get it.
Obsessive weight concern in either direction, loss or gain, is wrong. It maims, inhibits and kills. And we are doing it to ourselves, allowing the "Ideal Model" to guide us, instead of medical fact.

 

[Xander]

If the skinny look is out. I guess I can count out any chance of action. I am, and has always been so.

Now I dont give a rats ass about how a womans appreance is, skinny, big, whatever. I dont care.
I may be touching, sucking and licking the body. But only because I love the mind, that controls it.

 

[Sparky Kronkite]

I must admit.......

to having a fetish for emaciated, starving women. Like those suffering from draught in Africa and certain regions of the mid-east. It's not the skeletal like frame though - it's the flies. I'm into flies. The ultimate sex machine.

 

[Countess DeWinter]

*blush* thanks, ShyGuy
and I agree with most of you that what's behind the appearance determines attractiveness....

I may be going out on a limb here, but as I am currently dropping the fat inches on a weight training regimine, I have discovered that I really enjoy the feeling of somewhat "fluffy" (I'll remember THAT one for a long time Shelby!) tummies rubbing together during sex.

 

[TonyG]

I may be going out on a limb here, but as I am currently dropping the fat inches on a weight training regimine, I have discovered that I really enjoy the feeling of somewhat "fluffy"

Ya know fluff goes great with Peanut Butter, care to mix it up

 

[Countess DeWinter]

With you, Tony, there are some other things I'd like to mix together....

 

[Closet Desire]

Well...if you really must know...

I have a penchant for petite, European women. I couldn't say what the statistics are here because there isn't the same obsession for the "perfect" body here that seems to pervade the states (yeah...I'm American). I do know that an American woman I met who moved here a year or so ago (claims to wear a 12) can't find any clothes here except for billowy, matronly things. My own partner wears an 8-10 UK which translates into a 4-6 US depending on the store and whether it's a junior or not.

There is a casual approach to the body here that I really enjoy with women of all shapes and sizes dressing in a way that is flattering and revealing...from skinny to "fluffy" which is really appealing.

As a casual observer I do really, really like London and Paris.

 

[brazenblaze]

slim hips, big shoulders and tall...perfection.
sometimes is painful rubbing "boney hips", but....
imaginationa and stamina can take the place of slim any day.