48 Hrs of submission ( a little long maybe)

[jtaylor33]

So, my birthday recently passed and the wife was asking me what I wanted. We got a lot going on financially with trying to get a new house and such so I told her dont worry about it. But i think I might have come up with an idea for a gift, 48 hrs of submission from her to me.

Now we are not a D/s couple. Occasionally one of us will tie up and blindfold the other during a love making session but that is more teasing than anything else, and it never last long. We have talked a lot about things we want to do and I think this could be a fun time.

So my first thought is making her sign a contract of some sort. Starting @ 7 pm fri until 7pm sunday I will belong to you. it will say something along the lines of she cant say no and will perform all request with enthusiasm and passion. I will still have a lot of thinking and detail to work out on contract.

I am thinking of starting the weekend off with a photo shoot. We have a friend that is a photographer, and my wife has talked about wanting to take some sexy pictures for me in lingerie and such. So thought about talking to friend finding out if she is ok with this and if so, then having the wife dress up in some sexy lingerie, bring in the friend and let them two have a photoshop. Hopefully this heats her up and then the rest of the night some hot sex with details to be figured out as we go.

One of my fantasies is public flashing. I think my wife is super sexy and hot and showing her off turns me on very much. So I thought sat during day have her wear something sexy but not over the top. go out to lunch, maybe some shopping, maybe the park and see if I cant flash a few people. I thought it might even be hot to find someone to trade a service for a flash.. maybe i show a restaurant manager my wifes tits and he gives us a free dinner, or a hotel clerk for a free room. Sat night i thought about really pushing her limits. taking her to a swingers club.. dresses in leather boots a hot dress and a slut choker and leash. kinda see how the night goes. We have been to a swingers club before but never participated with others past simple conversation. i dont know if that night we would do anything.. I would love it but not something we have decided on. again more hot sex for saturday on books.

Sunday, casual day of her servicing me. maybe naked, maybe in a maid uniform who knows. to top it off another one of her fantasizes, she has mentioned wanting someone to watch us. So Ill try and find someone to watch us do our thing. Either her service me or watch the whole act. Probably find a cheap motel room as not sure I would want a stranger knowing where we live but let them have a chair in a corner, or on the second bed and watch the show. This one makes me a little nervous as I am just not sure how to proceed with it, but she likes it and it does sound hot.



So any thoughts, ideas, or suggestions from the Dom experts?

 

[seela]

One of my fantasies is public flashing. I think my wife is super sexy and hot and showing her off turns me on very much. So I thought sat during day have her wear something sexy but not over the top. go out to lunch, maybe some shopping, maybe the park and see if I cant flash a few people. I thought it might even be hot to find someone to trade a service for a flash.. maybe i show a restaurant manager my wifes tits and he gives us a free dinner, or a hotel clerk for a free room.

No. Just no.

Flashing to people who don't want to be flashed at just isn't ok. On any level. It's stupid and impolite, not to mention illegal and could get you two arrested.

I might be naive and have too much faith in the decency of the mankind, but my guess is that even suggesting a trade of tits for food would get you kicked out of most establishments.

It's a good thing you're talking and are open enough to fulfill each other's fantasies. But seriously. Don't do it at other people's face, unless they have consented beforehand.

 

[jtaylor33]

I completely understand what your saying about the flashing. The last thing I would want is a child or someone like that seeing something they shouldnt that is a great point and kinda of why I am posting. Trying to see what could work and not work. What about wearing a blouse that is loose and no bra, if it just happens to gape open and someone looks that is on them??? loophole maybe? Ha ?!?

So any ideas on something that might work?

 

[Netzach]

I completely understand what your saying about the flashing. The last thing I would want is a child or someone like that seeing something they shouldnt that is a great point and kinda of why I am posting. Trying to see what could work and not work. What about wearing a blouse that is loose and no bra, if it just happens to gape open and someone looks that is on them??? loophole maybe? Ha ?!?

So any ideas on something that might work?

This is why things like truly sleazy adult bookstores and clubs exist, so figure out which are truly sleazy and realize that if you want to do trashy stuff you're going to have to own it as trashy and commit to being in these places. Pull her into a peep show booth and make her show the girl her tits, pay well, problem solved. DO NOT assume this girl wants to watch her blow you, but sometimes the spirit will just take over and you'll be enough of her thing that you may get more than you hoped for.

That in itself can be a turn on for a lot of people for whatever reason, they see themselves better than the people who normally go to these places and now...lo and behold, they ARE those people, naughty naughty.

You can find voyeurs in pervy personals, swingers, wifesharing contexts at times, but this mandates a little legwork on your part.

While you might not be full on SM people, a play party might work for you, you'd be in good "slightly spanko exhibitionist" company.

 

[Shikalulu]

I had this idea of giving my husband a birthday present of me being his slave for like a day or so, but I haven't yet got the courage to go through with it cos i'm kind of scared of what he'll ask me to do lol! I think it could be a fun idea, but like Seela and Netzach said, involving other people could be a bit dodgy and not to mention illegal when it comes to the flashing... probably best to try something like a swingers club, where other people are actually there to see other people do naughty stuff, but I think you should put that in the contract that your wife signs so she knows what she's getting herself into. I know the purpose of her being your 48hr slave is that she has to do what you say, but I just don't think it would be fun for her if you sprung something on her that she reeeeally wasn't comfortable with (like the flashing thing or a swingers party).

 

[duckandbunny79]

I think flashing depends on what you mean, for example we where out the other night. Walking infront of us was a girl wearing leggings, however they where so shear, that her panties showed quite clearly. She was not flashing just being fashionable in leggings.

Nowa days people are so liberal in their dress sense that actually you can get away pretty much with anything short of getting your bits out.

A short skirt with no panties would not be seen as flashing. However offering exposure for food would seam to be pushing it.

But plenty of girls walk around with skirts short enough to show off their panties or lack of them, again girls with jeans low enough to show not just their string but the whole v at the back. Plunging cleavages are often on display or tight tops with no bra to show off nipples are also common.

It's all about context, I would not ask my wife to dress like a slut taking the kids to a play centre, but on a night out or round a shopping mall, she would just merge in with the rest of society who are in various states of undress.

 

[edal1959]

As an alternative to all out flashing, take her out wearing only a sexy dress, no bra or panties. The two of you will know, and she may feel just "exposed" enough to make things exciting, without getting into trouble.

 

[Tmmldr]

I completely understand what your saying about the flashing. The last thing I would want is a child or someone like that seeing something they shouldnt that is a great point and kinda of why I am posting. Trying to see what could work and not work. What about wearing a blouse that is loose and no bra, if it just happens to gape open and someone looks that is on them??? loophole maybe? Ha ?!?

So any ideas on something that might work?

Once I was working at a construction site and there was nearby, a hot girl in a miniskirt talking to a biker. When she got on the bike behind him, she lifted her leg way up and we all got a look at her panties. They were polka dot.

So it can be done.

 

[monkeyman057]

If this isn't the kind of thing that you two have done before, I would recommend a much smaller window of time for your birthday present. 24 hours may even be too long. Try 12 hours - from 7am on Saturday to 7pm on Saturday. That way it's much less intimidating. If she's enjoying herself, give her the option to pick things up again on Sunday morning. If not - no harm, no foul. You got what you wanted for your birthday and she's not feeling guilty for wanting out of the deal before 48 hours has elapsed.

You've got to go at this a bit at a time - especially if it's new to her. To jump in feet first and expect the kind of submission that you're aiming for for 48 straight hours is, I think, setting yourselves up for disappointment. That's a lot of pressure on both of you right out of the gate.

Also, I agree with the others regarding the flashing... it's too easy to get in trouble there. Risky? Sure. Exciting? Sure. But there are a lot of variables involved that could all lead to an unpleasent or dangerous situation arising. I'd table that idea for now and explore some other avenues UNLESS you could arrange a situation that appears to be spontaneous but was actually orchestrated by you with people that you know and trust.

Good luck. Be safe. Have fun.

 

[KlaytonFrost]

I agree about a shorter window of time, and not involving other people (unless, of course, they want to be involved). But fundamentally it sounds like a good gift idea. Handmade presents are the best after all, and it's nice that you've considered what she might enjoy as well as what you will.

 

[jtaylor33]

Thanks

I wanted to stop in and say thanks to everyone for the comments. I have been checking every couple of days when I find my self with a few quick seconds. Things around here have been busy so I have not had a chance to really sit down and reply.

Lots of great Ideas. i really like the shorter time frame! I can see where that would be a good idea. I have not brought it up to her yet, just for the pure fact my birthday has passed and we have both been busy. Seems like when we are kid free we have other stuff going on with work and such that keeps us from even enjoying the free weekends. May have to turn this in to a xxx mas gift.

I also want to say I have gotten the point on the flashing. Thank you for all the clarification. I am really looking forward to getting a opportunity to explore this. I hope that I can find time to start putting this together soon. Feel free to keep dropping ideas ,suggestions and critiques to me tho!