40's male WI&MN/Virtual - searching for an AP (with an actual friendship too!)

What's your ideal vacation

  • Beach

    Votes: 3 30.0%
  • Mountains

    Votes: 2 20.0%
  • Cottage/Cabin

    Votes: 4 40.0%
  • Somewhere else...

    Votes: 1 10.0%

  • Total voters
    10
  • Poll closed .
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Posts
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(Aug. 2021 update)
Put this up a while back...would love to connect with someone. Still in the market...take a look below, would love to chat. :D


Howdy!

Longtime Lit member (maybe like 2002) but cannot find my old login/password info for a defunct email address. Been reading stories here since then...

If you're reading this, I caught your attention! To cut to the chase, I would love to get to know a woman a bit more and see if we can both find a smile. In search of a long-term AP (affair partner)...not looking to change my situation or hers. I live in the Twin Cities in MN and would love if you lived close...although, it's not a requirement.

About me: I'm a mostly normal guy in my 40's. I have a good career, well educated and have a great life! What I feel like I'm missing is that spark of energy that comes along with someone I can be emotionally invested in and the sexual energy that comes with it. I'd love to find a like-minded woman, also married, who is missing that spark...see if we can find it together?

If you want a description, I'm height-weight proportionate and working like hell to keep my "dad-bod" at bay. I have a beard in the winter and a shaved head. I'm not the Adonis with a 6-pack, but my lack of 6% body fat is (hopefully) more than made up with whit and guile. I work out regularly, have tons of outdoor hobbies, enjoy a good book and even have been known to watch a few TV shows.

At minimum, I'd love to meet new people and have fun conversations. I truly enjoy chatting and learning from other's experiences and life journey's. In truth, I'd love 1 woman with whom I can connect and enjoy what we're both lacking at home. I'm looking to smile...I hope you are too!

Hope to hear from you soon!
 
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Bumping this for a long time friend and confidant.

This gentleman is one of my favorite guys on this site...even those few times when we go months without talking, we seem to pick right back up where we left off. He is always a perfect gentlemen, except when I don't want him to be. :devil::devil: If only I were much closer, he wouldn't need this ad. :heart:

Seriously ladies, hit him up! :kiss:
 
Bumping this for a long time friend and confidant.

This gentleman is one of my favorite guys on this site...even those few times when we go months without talking, we seem to pick right back up where we left off. He is always a perfect gentlemen, except when I don't want him to be. :devil::devil: If only I were much closer, he wouldn't need this ad. :heart:

Seriously ladies, hit him up! :kiss:

You’re too kind Kim :)
 
Great lakes guy... but still too far away from me. Makes me dream of all the naughty fun we could have together. :devil:

Good luck, handsome! :kiss::kiss:
 
A well written ad and Kim as your cheerleader. Nice!

Good luck with your search! :)
 
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