40 year old disabled veteran (married *in name)

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In PITTSBURGH,PA

Title has the most truth. First: My disability is 85% back pain and problems and 15% a wondrous mental mix...depression (duh) anxiety (duh) and CONVERSION DISORDER (any kind or mix of seizure symptoms anytime my brain thinks it's experiencing trauma *we disagree a lot*. Just the obvious to let you know. Mostly falls and undertreated pain because I made a mistake and my wife lied to the va.


Second Oh this is the fun part. I'm married(only in name). My wife screams at me to find another woman if I want any intimacy. I haven't had sex in about 5 years and only 3 hanjobs in the last 3 years for total of my sex HEH life. I believe in life long commitment so I haven't left but my god am I losing it.


So I'm seeking a woman for some emotional support and of course that all time needed physical support. I don't want an easy one night stand. I'd prefer a long time relationship based on love and monogamy BUT I'm a realist. At this point I'd like to get to know someone and have a friend with befits at worst to a second wife at best. I am not seeking a threesome nor do I wish to just use someone but I have NEEDS unmet. My wife won't see reason or even discuss this.

My life is suffering (I use a wheelchair for any length of time out of bed and my office chair) and daily back pain holds me down. I generally fall or miss moments causing wtf moments but can have any kind of seizure by definition.
Making this even weirder I'm an introvertish sort but mostly pain and depression keeps me housebound. I'll take a pity lay at this point for gods sake. Oh yeah I cannot drive (seizures heh). Veteran of USAF. Electronics god and computer guy. I did woodworking and photography as hobbies + gardening until she ruined my pain control. I'd love to find a loving woman who like me avoids large crowds and would be happy watching tv with my wife. Other than that I'm ready to deal state your terms ;)
 
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One thing to add is that I'm very....driven and good at pleasing a woman. There's a fingering technique that's produced an orgasm a minute for partners. Can't wait to have some fun again if ever.
 
One thing to add is that I'm very....driven and good at pleasing a woman. There's a fingering technique that's produced an orgasm a minute for partners. Can't wait to have some fun again if ever.

Good luck finding her
 
Good luck finding someone, been 7 years + for me. The only difference is I got the boot earlier this year
 
Best of luck to you, man...sorry your wife is an absolute thundering asshole; I hope you find what you’re searching for.
 
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