34 yr male geek dom

[psiwolf13]

34 male washington state. I'm looking for a female submissive. Fethishes: short women, redheads, bondage, spankings, belts, canning, anal, oral, daddy/daughter. I tend to alternate between hard and soft. I'm still learning about the lifestyle and i'm very monogamous. I DON'T want a slave. I'm not looking for a 24/7 or total power exchange. Im looking for someone who likes what i like, but someone who can be a friend as well. Its not all about sex. Im a pagan as well, play video games, and roleplaying games (dungeons and dragons) so yeah I'm a geek too. I'm also into kung fu (7 years) and I'm living with my two best friends of 17 years. Four cats and four ferrets. My live tends towards interesting and then becomes boring. rollercoaster. Love most music except some country and some rap. I want to get to know people before i sleep with them or even cyber with them.