33 yr old Dominate Male seeking female submissive.

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33 yr old Dominant Male seeking female submissive.

Hello, I am in the process of seeking a full time female submissive to train and collar. I have over ten years experience in the BDSM lifestyle. I am open to any type of play that you desire. PM me if interested
 
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If you are serious, you might know the word is dominant, not dominate. If you don't get this right, you'll get nothing right. You sound ignorant to me. Superman indeed?
 
If you are serious, you might know the word is dominant, not dominate. If you don't get this right, you'll get nothing right. You sound ignorant to me. Superman indeed?

So I misspelled a word. Sue me. I have been in the lifestyle for ten years. I know my way around the community. I know it from both sides of the fence. So don't say I'm not serious. Until you have walked where I have. Then you may judge me.
 
I have walked where you have. And I know the difference between a verb (dominate) and a noun (dominant). You are clearly NOT serious if you don't know that, as you patently do not. And you dare call yourself 'superman'...

Superbairn more like.
 
I didn't realize perfect grammar was a prerequisite for the Lit seal of non-disapproval. If that's important to someone then they're free not to message him. Doesn't need the dom-police to roll in and hate on someone's ad. Not cool.
 
Ok, yes i know the difference between Dominate and Dominant. Nobody is perfect, You can't tell me you never made a mistake in your life. I'm being called a tool, a fake, and a fool, over a misspelling error. I don't go around checking for other people's mistakes. when I see one I usually ignore it, because I know we are all human and we make mistakes. There is not one Dominant I know of that is perfect .
 
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ok, changed my mind... gonna post it here

don't worry about the ones that tried to cream ya for grammar and spelling... they're acting just like cocks who got their feathers ruffled when another cock goes out looking for a hen to mount (cocks = roosters, by the way)

i am a 43 y/o married female sub.... joyfully dragging hubby into the lifestyle with me...... and so, while i may be "new" to the lifestyle... i am NOT new to life... people (including ones who snottily corrected grammar) are human and prone to make mistakes... :D

i find quite a few who can't spell words or sometimes even know proper grammatical usage (and i can't even spell sometimes).... and very often the ones who let some grammatical errors and typos through are fine people.... a person who truely cares about another person doesn't correct things like that.... (and if you MUST correct it, geez louise, have a bit of tact about it, cuz if you don't it shows you're no better than the one you're trying to put down) as long as the one you're conversing with can understand you, it's ALL good.

there are MORE than enough female subs to go around.... and if there aren't.... well, maybe the doms should try to be a bit nicer to the subs.... i am all for a little rough play, but underneath it all, he'd better be able to treat me well or he isn't even worth my time... and my time is precious just like everyone else's is...

they're just acting like asses and trying to run off the younger *nicer* doms.... DO NOT LET THEM... keep plucking along.... all us subs need nice, fine, caring doms.... because while we sometimes need the rough treatment, many of us need some snuggles and cuddles afterwards...

have fun!
 
ahotwife:

The OP and I have had a long PM discussion and have I think parted friends.

I'm not a cock strutting about looking for anyone. I'm deeply attached, as you will learn if you read my stories, esp 'Melanie'. So I'm not looking, and I don't play online. I don't need to.

But I do think it's important that folk choose their words carefully if they are seeking anything online. Words are the primary means of communication, and online that means it helps a lot if spelling and grammar are right.

I hope both you and the OP find what you're looking for.
 
opinions are like.....

well... if you've parted friends... then maybe you should have put a public note out, since you found it necessary to publicly try to put him down for his lack of proper wording..... only seems fair, don't ya think? at least now, you've posted that the two of you have come to some sort of understanding.... instead of leaving things so harsh....

i don't have to read your "stories".... i am making my own, thank you very much!

to each his own... go forth and have fun! it just might be better to think of your own words before you toss them harshly at another, since wording is so important to you... just thought it was important to say that....
 
I just did make it public. And I'm not urging you or anyone else to read my stories. But I know as a careful author that it always helps to read what others have written. It's the only way one can improve as a writer. To read and consider carefully what others have written.
 
We all do typos, especially in the immediacy of an IM. But it's sensible to take care if you're posting here, hoping for a response from someone.

Or even more if you post a story. I've posted many, and however careful I am, or my loving editor is, the odd one can slip through in 5,000 words or so...
 
Gosh...

I'm glad you were able to make peace with Superman, but you're still a bit of an asshole. Are you a female submissive seeking a dominant male? If not, why would you reply to the ad? SMH- I should have read this and just kept going. But like you, I couldn't resist responding to your faux paux.
 
If you troubled yourself to read what I've posted, and the stories I've written, and my interaction with my lover, you'd know that I'm a dom male, and deeply in love.
 
well, bully for you!

"If you troubled yourself to read what I've posted, and the stories I've written, and my interaction with my lover, you'd know that I'm a dom male, and deeply in love. "

i'm glad you've made it public now.... that's a load off my mind..... carry on superman!!!!! go forth and find your lois lane.... (wasn't that superman's gf?)

oohh.... and it's a *bulletin board*, i agree with Daddys_Touch, i didn't see where correct grammar, punctuation, and spelling were mandated in the rules for posting..... and, no, i didn't read what you wrote... i got about 3 lines in and it wasn't my cup 'o tea.... to each his own.

@unfairplay --- *whispers* (i think he's trying a bit too hard to convince us.... or is it just a shameless attempt at getting others to read his stories?)

@newinmke --- thank you, Sir... you are kind... :kiss:
 
Since this was my post. I admit i made a typing error in my thread title. I had my mind on Dominant, but when I typed the thread, I typed the word Dominate. Does that make me stupid, no. Words do mean a lot when writing personals.

I must admit. I use to always type out you're when texting my friends, until they started texting your and ur back to me and these people are highly educated. They know how to spell. I use your instead of you're at times myself.

I just came on here looking for a female submissive, that could serve me in real life 24/7. I am finding out experience doesn't mean a whole lot here. I'm not giving up for my search. But i am realizing that I'm no superman. I am a common Dominant looking for a submissive.
 
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Will not give up.

I was always taught, that if you fall down that you get right back up. I made a mistake in spelling, it wasn't the first and it will not be the last. But just cause of that mistake will I give up? NO! Maybe this shows that I have flaws, but it also shows that I have a spirit of not giving up.

I know one day I will find a submissive who will love and serve me, for who I am. All my flaws included.
 
You haven't had to bump this thread even once. It's developed a life of its own since you your spelling was corrected ;). I guess every cloud has a silver lining after all...

We all know that the words we use on a message board in which writing is the primary form of communication (smilies and pics apart), are crucial. BUT we ALL make mistakes...and I'm guessing that in your excitement at posting your first thread, you made a boo-boo.

I sincerely hope you find a delicious and loving sub as a result of all these ruffled feathers and kerfuffle :)

It would be nice to find a sub as a result of all these ruffled feathers.
 
Holy crap some of you are major d bags. *awaits the inevitable correction/advice/unwanted solicitation regarding Hungarian taco night. No, that's not a euphemism.
 
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