32 Married Man with no sex at hm looking to flirt with the Ladies

[dunns]

32 Married Man in Oregon with no sex at hm looking to flirt with the Ladies

I am a 32 year old married male. My wife is totally uninterested in sex. I am a hard working self-employed residential contractor. I am crazy horny all the time and am extremely sexually frustrated. I absolutely love to pleasure my wife orally when she lets me. I am really good at it and I love the control I have over a woman's body. I absolutely love the beauty of a woman's body no matter what shape. I love to just talk with the women on here and role play. Maybe more later I also love to write stories about the fantasies you have and send them to you. PM me and lets start!

 

[dunns]

bump

Bump

 

[marla56]

hey...how can you be happily married if she won't help you out..she's supposed to be a lady out around others but a whore in the bedroom with her man. hell if she wants to keep you from strayin she needs to give you what you want when you want it. but anyway..i don't always get what i like most and that's getting eaten..but heck you are way across the country,,west coast and i'm on the east coast..but if you want to chat or rp,,i'm here for ya

 

[dunns]

Bump

Bump xoxo

 

[marla56]

ok am i chopped liver..i'll help you..but it's like you don't even see me..what is up with that

 

[dunns]

marla

Hi Marla! I just sent you a PM Hope you like it!

 

[dunns]

Thanks everyone for your responses. I have loved talking to all of you!

 

[dunns]

Any ladies up tonight

 

[dunns]

I have my arms around you. I am leaning in for a kiss as my free hand is making it's way down the front of your body...it has grazed your breasts and is now sliding down into your pants.......

 

[SassyKatz71]

Have you not tried talking to your wife ? Why no interest in sex ?

 

[dunns]

Have you not tried talking to your wife ? Why no interest in sex ?

Yes!!! I have talked to her hundreds of times about my desires. It never does any good or goes anywhere. She says she just never thinks about it and doesn't want it like I do. She is totally fine with once or twice per month. To me that is just a teaser!! I would love sex two or three times per week!! I am crazy horny all the time and get soooo frustrated! ��

 

[gypsyTX]

Yes!!! I have talked to her hundreds of times about my desires. It never does any good or goes anywhere. She says she just never thinks about it and doesn't want it like I do. She is totally fine with once or twice per month. To me that is just a teaser!! I would love sex two or three times per week!! I am crazy horny all the time and get soooo frustrated! ��

Two-three times a week is not overmuch. Have you tried to get her to read erotic literature? I don't mean Lit, that might be a bit to strong for start, but romance books like Avon, for example.

Also, of she's always tired and not getting enough sleep, that could decrease her sex drive as well.

Good lick! Ahem, luck.

 

[SassyKatz71]

Yes!!! I have talked to her hundreds of times about my desires. It never does any good or goes anywhere. She says she just never thinks about it and doesn't want it like I do. She is totally fine with once or twice per month. To me that is just a teaser!! I would love sex two or three times per week!! I am crazy horny all the time and get soooo frustrated! ��

2 or 3 times a week isn't enough either ! Is she on any Medications that might decrease her libido ? coupled with being tired all the time.

Has she seen a sex therapist or counseling for you two ?

 

[Primalex]

I am a hard working self-employed residential contractor.

So, you are never around, don't help with the mundane tasks of life, spend your spare time here, the last time you brought flowers was before the marriage and a real vacation has been quite some time ago and in the end you expect her to spread her legs because you are horny. Did I sum this up correctly?

 

[dunns]

Two-three times a week is not overmuch. Have you tried to get her to read erotic literature? I don't mean Lit, that might be a bit to strong for start, but romance books like Avon, for example.

Also, of she's always tired and not getting enough sleep, that could decrease her sex drive as well.

Good lick! Ahem, luck.

I have tried to get her to read romance books, but she doesn't like to read, and especially anything that has to to with romance or exoticism, she doesn't like at all.

 

[dunns]

2 or 3 times a week isn't enough either ! Is she on any Medications that might decrease her libido ? coupled with being tired all the time.

Has she seen a sex therapist or counseling for you two ?

No, no medications. She is tired alot, but its more because she stays out late with her friends. She has seen a Dr. and everything checks out fine...have not seen a therapist or done counseling. We need to though

 

[SassyKatz71]

No, no medications. She is tired alot, but its more because she stays out late with her friends. She has seen a Dr. and everything checks out fine...have not seen a therapist or done counseling. We need to though

Suggest it then and see how she reacts.More so than what she says to it

 

[dunns]

So, you are never around, don't help with the mundane tasks of life, spend your spare time here, the last time you brought flowers was before the marriage and a real vacation has been quite some time ago and in the end you expect her to spread her legs because you are horny. Did I sum this up correctly?

Um, not exactly. I have my own schedule so I am home alot and make good money when I have jobs. I do most of the cooking and baking because I enjoy it. I also am the one who keeps the house clean, does the shopping, does the laundry and fixes things around the house. My parents raised me to be a "home maker" incase I had to some day. Lol! I love to please her sexually as well and don't expect her to just "spread her legs" for me. There have been tons of times where I please her orally, with toys or just my hands and it relaxes her so much that she falls asleep after. I just let her sleep and it might be days before she returns the favor if at all. We go on lots of vacations and have date nights. So, no...you did not sum it up

 

[gypsyTX]

Sounds to me it might be time to be logical and start writing a pros/cons list...

 

[Que]

No, no medications. She is tired alot, but its more because she stays out late with her friends. She has seen a Dr. and everything checks out fine...have not seen a therapist or done counseling. We need to though

You are in a sexless marriage as defined by less than 10x per year. Both partners are at risk for an affair if sexuality is not being expressed within the marriage. It is as likely as not that the "not interested" party is the one doing so.

Forget what you have been told about "taking the burden off of her" by being the maid. Yes our generation was told that egalitarian roles and divisions of labor was not only fine but desirable. The actual sociological studies say otherwise. If you must do housework balance it with manly stuff. Come home with sawdust in your hair and axle grease under your nails.

Read Athol Kaye's "Married Man's Sex life."

Get sexuality back into your marriage and as plan B set aside $3-$5k for a good divorce lawyer...or just keep doing what you are doing and come back and tell us how shocked you are that you were blindsided by her filing the divorce papers.

Talking to other women as some stop-gap measure as your sexual self is not being fed is not the answer. Truly

I sincerely wish you well.