32/f seeks Dom

[ConstanceB]

I'm looking for a man to break me into BDSM by email or AOL (screenname constanceb1975). I don't know what boundaries I have right now - its all too new, but I'm happy to try anything.

I am married but my husband has no idea about this side of me - I couldn't tell him but I need something more intense than what we have. The Princess Treatment isn't working for me anymore. I want something more dirty and slutty.

Get in touch if you think you may be the dom for me.

 

[MasterZee]

pm

sent u a i.m on aol/aim as z135711 . u can also try me at yahoo mz135711
looking forward to helping you get in touch with your slutty submissive side.

MZ

 

[HottieMama]

I'm looking for a man to break me into BDSM by email or AOL (screenname constanceb1975). I don't know what boundaries I have right now - its all too new, but I'm happy to try anything.

I am married but my husband has no idea about this side of me - I couldn't tell him but I need something more intense than what we have. The Princess Treatment isn't working for me anymore. I want something more dirty and slutty.

Get in touch if you think you may be the dom for me.

I know I should probably just keep my big mouth shut, but perhaps you would be better served by posting the forums and getting to know some people first. No doubt, you'll get a lot of PMs in response to this ad, but I worry they won't be what you are looking for and you will give up before you get to experience something wonderful... I know what it's like to want "something more.." I'm going through that myself...Just don't settle for someone who is actually "something less."

Take care of yourself.

 

[Evil_Geoff]

And I'll go on to add that a Dominant/submissive (or Master/slave) relationship requires TRUST to be built between the parties involved. Trust requires HONESTY. Honesty means everyone concerned needs to know what's going on and consent to it.

You have a husband? You need rough sex? HE needs to know about it and have the opportunity to grow with you and meet your needs. Or consent to your seeking what you need outside your relationship. Or you need to ditch him and start fresh.

If you can't be honest with your husband, who is supposed to be the most important single human being in your life with the possible exception of your children if you have any, how in the world could I expect you to be honest with ME as your Dominant or Master? ? ?

You'll find PLENTY of Horney Net Geeks who will claim the title of Dominant, or Master, who are willing to play games with you as long as they get to bust a nut. And if what you want is a little strange on the side and some kinky sex, rock on hon, and have fun.

But if you want a real relationship, if you need that power exchange in your life, then you need to look real hard in your heart and soul and find the courage to be honest about it. There are a lot of ways you can bring this up with your husband. His love, care and concern about meeting your needs and desires should allow him to grow into what you need if you give him the information, the encouragement, the acceptance to do that.

Best of luck in finding what you want and need.

 

[Auraka6669]

Talk, talk, talk. And talk some more.

No BDSM relationship has been based on. "I want to be your Dom/sub" (as applicable) It's been a. Hey I'm interested in this. Oh, and this as well. This is what I do for a living. I also enjoy long walks on the beach and handing out floggings.

Seriously, take it slow. Especially if this is your first tumble into this world... but I can't support HottieMama's and Evil_Geoff's advice anymore than I already have.

If you ever have questions or need someone to talk to. Hit up the BDSM board or hell, PM anyone that's posted here.

 

[aymanmosstfa]

i must pm you or tel you pm me but why you dont try to tell your husband about what you need frist may be he gave you all your needs
but if he cant thin i will try pm you

 

[WriterDom]

In a perfect world we could give every husband/boyfriend a copy of "Domination for Idiots" and solve the problem. Unfortunately it's a bit like a woman waking up and deciding she has lesbian urges and telling her husband to act more like a woman. Now maybe if both the couple and the relationship are young, it's worth a shot. But by now he has preconceived notions/prejudices about bdsm and probably is very happy with how he "thinks" his princess bride operates.