30 F Sub Looking for dom or domme

kwells548

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Hi there.

I'm an intermediate sub, looking for a master. I live on the East of the US, so someone in the US would be ideal, but not necessary. I'm looking for a dom, between the ages of 25-50.

I've posted a similar ad a couple of times, yet nothing has come from those experiences. A long term relationship is not a necessity. This is due to the nature of the training I'm looking for which is rather specific to be honest. I'll explain after I find someone worthy of talking to me.

My limits are: Pics, Cam, Phone, Bodily fluids, family, blackmail, anal

Likes: bondage, public, training, orgasm denial/chastity

If there's any questions about those limits, feel free to PM me. I am willing to try new things, to please my dom. I've had some experience, but I know what I'm looking for.

I know I'm not being specific, but I do know what I'm looking for and its a particular type of training. I'll be willing to provide more information once I see you are no going to give me a one-liner which will turn me off you.

I hope to hear from someone soon, please let me know via PM, and I shall message you my yahoo messenger details if I think that we should talk more.
 
I've read through some of your previous posts

Each are a list of things you would like. Nothing wrong with making clear your desires.

Unclear is what's in it for this Dom you seek?

Usually, I'll bite on a vague post because its interesting to me to learn details about people that they aren't necessarily comfortable posting in the open.

I hope you take this in the constructive vein it is offered but something in the tone here is off-putting, at least to me. Could be that just indicates no intersection of interests and that is just fine of course. You want to screen for people of compatible interests.

Stella has a very good post in her signature line about tops, bottoms, submissives dominants and like that.

I understand that you like a lot of activities that we all generally associate with submissives, but there are ways to get those needs met that don't necessarily involve dominance and submission.

My ear hears a lot of interest in being in charge of the flow of play, and that is fine, topping from the bottom is great for those that enjoy that. I am wondering if a change of frame might get you to where you want to be.

Good luck in your journey.

Stellas essay: here
 
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