27 m new mexico nerdy guy looking.

Are you interested in me?


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This is the first time that I have ever personally done one of these on lit. I have been a long time looker but never thought I would put an add up. To be honest I am a college senior about to graduate. The problem is I really have never dated and I live in a small time that does not really open up to the nerd type culture.

I also have a problem because I am a virgin and never been with a girl. It seems every time the opportunity would arise the girl would back out feeling sorry for me or I would not know how to follow up on the advance. Anyway. I just wanted to put myself out there to see what chance I might have. I have a feeling not many people will reply but I thought I would try. I am a bigger guy and again very nerdy. So if interested into getting to know me or something more please respond or private message me. Also I am looking for a girl significant other but might be open to the possibility of a shemale or guy that sweeps me off my fat feet. Haha.

Don't give up. I was in the same boat you are. Except my college was on a hill so i was only slightly over weight. I have only been physically with one woman and that wasn't until like 6 months after college graduation. It can happen for us nerdy guys in small towns.
 
best way to get your profile out there is to actually do so.. go into the playground and play some games..or go post in threads that interests you...
 
Im actually a shy person so in most cases it is hard for me to just join something. Most the time I tend to get ignored. But ill keep the personal alive.
 
When u have time reply, I may have some cool advice for you. I was a wallflower until a friend gave me some good old fashion advice.
 
Thank you I sent a personal message so we can talk there thanks again. Still hoping to keep the thread alive.
 
Again just keeping the thread alive. More about me I guess would be in order. I am a huge Legend of Zelda fan from an early age. I have three tattoos and are planning to get more. I also am trying to become a second grade teacher as I like being a big kid. So what better place then at that level of teaching.

I don't know if I posted this before but I work as an English Tutor at a University. So I am very educated and also a smart guy. Also I am told to be funny and a people person where I want to be.
 
I can private message you my facebook if you would like. If not I will add those pictures from my facebook to here. *smiles*:heart:
 
I voted no because you haven't given us something to be interested in.

What will your degree be in
What nerdy things do you like to do
Besides shy, what other personality traits do you have
Hobbies, talents, shoe size

Being shy is hard, but think of this as an opportunity to tell the lit world what makes you great. You can even end every sentence with "said my mom" if bragging is hard :)

Happy Friday and good luck!
 
I voted no because you haven't given us something to be interested in.

What will your degree be in
What nerdy things do you like to do
Besides shy, what other personality traits do you have
Hobbies, talents, shoe size

Being shy is hard, but think of this as an opportunity to tell the lit world what makes you great. You can even end every sentence with "said my mom" if bragging is hard :)

Happy Friday and good luck!

I believe I wrote that a little later on in the thread if not then I guess I am more of a general person and if someone wants to know more then ask. Personally I have no idea what people want to know soI just give general information. *sigh*.
 
I believe I wrote that a little later on in the thread if not then I guess I am more of a general person and if someone wants to know more then ask. Personally I have no idea what people want to know soI just give general information. *sigh*.

So you did! I scrolled past it with all of the bumps.

People need a reason to ask...that is the point of your ad, make us want to know more. You can take a look at how many ads are here with people waiting for someone to come knock on their door, very passive. Go to the playground, it's a very open place, you don't need to feel intimidated about posting, people are nice there. If you want interaction that doesn't require you to talk about yourself there are a ton of abc games to play, favorite movie quotes and a music thread. No one is going to stop and point "hey new guy, come look everyone". People are here for their own reasons and we really are not watching every move you make. When you feel more confident there are threads for you to express yourself more as well.

Playground=1 stop shop for fun :)
 
So you did! I scrolled past it with all of the bumps.

People need a reason to ask...that is the point of your ad, make us want to know more. You can take a look at how many ads are here with people waiting for someone to come knock on their door, very passive. Go to the playground, it's a very open place, you don't need to feel intimidated about posting, people are nice there. If you want interaction that doesn't require you to talk about yourself there are a ton of abc games to play, favorite movie quotes and a music thread. No one is going to stop and point "hey new guy, come look everyone". People are here for their own reasons and we really are not watching every move you make. When you feel more confident there are threads for you to express yourself more as well.

Playground=1 stop shop for fun :)

*smiles* Thanks for the advice. The thing is sometimes I don't think I am much to talk about. But you are right. I need to give people a reason to want to get to know me. Thanks for that. I am just really unsure about the playing thing again just not used to that stuff but I guess its time to start getting out of the comfort zone. Thank you for that. Also will be uploading my tattoos.
 
I think there is a thread on the playground for tattoos. I am sure they would love to have some new people post.

:D
 
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