ShyVixen
Subbly Bookworm
- Joined
- Apr 19, 2004
- Posts
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This will be first ad, so please bear with me. It’s taken me a while to write this ad and have the courage to post it!
A little bit about me – I’m a 26 year old female. Currently, I’m a postgraduate research student in counter-terrorism. My career is extremely important to me (so please do not send any PMs telling me to give up my day job and be a full time submissive). I live in the UK. I love books, classical music, fine wine, theatre (especially opera or ballet) and movies. I can talk politics, history or military history till the sun goes down. I’m quite shy initially (aren’t we all?!), but once a person takes the time to get to know me, I tend to open up. For R&R, I like write – I have two e-books published with a small publishing house, and do cross stitch (one of my guilty secrets).
My experiences as a sub - My tastes run to the milder side of BDSM, however, most things are negotiable. As the ad title states, I haven’t had any real life experience, and only limited online practice. I’ve been researching the lifestyle and chatting with other Dom/subs, after all, knowledge is power as they say.
What I’m looking for in a Dom - I’m seeking a gentle, loving male Dominant with the patience to get to know me, teach me and guide me through the experiences we would hopefully have together. Age is unimportant. I prefer a male in the 30-50 age range, but there are exceptions. I would also prefer someone in the UK, but at this point location is unimportant, what matters the most is the compatibility factor. I seek a Dom who is intelligent, articulate, but most of all a Dominant with a sense of humor.
Initially we would start out online – PMs, emails, IMs. If things fall into place we would hopefully progress to a real life meet. I’m not ruling anything out. There would have to be an extended period of ‘getting to know you’ on both sides. I won’t submit to the first gentleman who writes me a PM demanding I show him some pics and get on my knees. If that is what you are looking for, I’m sorry, I don’t work that way.
I would also expect someone to be understanding of my time constraints. I am not interested in a 24/7 Dom/sub relationship at the moment.
I think I’ve run out of things to say, but I’m sure there are some things I’ve missed out. LOL If any of this has even remotely grabbed your attention, please feel free to send me a message. I will reply to all messages sent that are more than just a “Hey, baby”. After all, if you take the time to write me, it’s only courteous of me to reply.

A little bit about me – I’m a 26 year old female. Currently, I’m a postgraduate research student in counter-terrorism. My career is extremely important to me (so please do not send any PMs telling me to give up my day job and be a full time submissive). I live in the UK. I love books, classical music, fine wine, theatre (especially opera or ballet) and movies. I can talk politics, history or military history till the sun goes down. I’m quite shy initially (aren’t we all?!), but once a person takes the time to get to know me, I tend to open up. For R&R, I like write – I have two e-books published with a small publishing house, and do cross stitch (one of my guilty secrets).
My experiences as a sub - My tastes run to the milder side of BDSM, however, most things are negotiable. As the ad title states, I haven’t had any real life experience, and only limited online practice. I’ve been researching the lifestyle and chatting with other Dom/subs, after all, knowledge is power as they say.
What I’m looking for in a Dom - I’m seeking a gentle, loving male Dominant with the patience to get to know me, teach me and guide me through the experiences we would hopefully have together. Age is unimportant. I prefer a male in the 30-50 age range, but there are exceptions. I would also prefer someone in the UK, but at this point location is unimportant, what matters the most is the compatibility factor. I seek a Dom who is intelligent, articulate, but most of all a Dominant with a sense of humor.
Initially we would start out online – PMs, emails, IMs. If things fall into place we would hopefully progress to a real life meet. I’m not ruling anything out. There would have to be an extended period of ‘getting to know you’ on both sides. I won’t submit to the first gentleman who writes me a PM demanding I show him some pics and get on my knees. If that is what you are looking for, I’m sorry, I don’t work that way.
I would also expect someone to be understanding of my time constraints. I am not interested in a 24/7 Dom/sub relationship at the moment.
I think I’ve run out of things to say, but I’m sure there are some things I’ve missed out. LOL If any of this has even remotely grabbed your attention, please feel free to send me a message. I will reply to all messages sent that are more than just a “Hey, baby”. After all, if you take the time to write me, it’s only courteous of me to reply.

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