25F. My parents want me to have sex with them and I need advice

Ummm....

**PLEASE** read my whole post before sending me a PM


Hi everyone. I’m a 25 year old girl in California who moved back to be with my parents during COVID. I’m dealing with REALLY intense situation and I was hoping for some input/advice.

I moved back in with my parents since my industry is dead right now, and to help my mom and dad with groceries and errands during the pandemic. I’m the second oldest of four siblings, and the oldest girl, and my parents have always thought of me as the most “together” and mature of their kids...the “sibling in chief,” basically. It’s a role in our family that means a lot to me, and coming back home during this chaos was sort of an example of me living it out.

It’s honestly been really nice to be at home with them during all this...to be in my childhood home, my old bedroom, eating my mom’s cooking, just being in a safe space while the outside world is a mess, and having my mom and dad’s company - we’ve always been really close.

Apparently, though, my parents want to be close with me in a way that I never anticipated. I was up late talking with my mom over wine a couple of weeks ago and we were making jokes about sex. We’re really close, and that’s not weird for us, but my mom said something that made my jaw drop: “you know, your dad and I often think of you that way.”


At first it didn’t even register...I thought I had misunderstood, or was hearing things. Then I got it, and it hit me like a ton of bricks. My mom explained that, for a long time, she and my dad have been...”interested” in me. Acting and comedy is all about playing to your audience and taking on roles, and in that moment I was just trying really hard to be a good daughter. As stunned as I was, I made it my job to hear my mom out, and listen carefully, and with empathy...a lot of nodding, a lot of calmly saying “I understand” and just trying to hear her out. But honestly, it was the hardest conversation of my life, and it only got harder when my mom asked me to consider going to bed with them.

I told her I would think deeply about our conversation. Then I went up to bed and felt...just in a total daze. Betrayed. Like my reality had been turned upside down. I also felt this deep sense of empathy for my parents, to have carried a secret like this for so long, and a strange sense of pride that they trusted me enough to open up about it.

Since that initial conversation with my mom, I’ve sat down with both her and my dad and we’ve talked things out more as parents and daughter. What they’re asking of me is...a lot. It includes bathroom stuff and extremely heavy torture. I’m trying really, really hard to practice empathy and approach all this with an open mind. It’s been so emotionally intense. I guess I’m posting in the hope of starting a dialogue with someone who would be willing to “interview” me, and learn about me, my life, and my family, and then dive into my current situation.

A few requests:


- PLEASE be able to spell. No netspeak, no use of “lol,” etc. It matters to me that I speak with someone who can actually communicate intelligently.

- have the time and energy for a sustained, in-depth conversation.

- be willing to use Wickr, it’s my preferred platform.

- send me an introduction that makes it clear you really read this post and have a genuine interest in diving deep into this with me. I won’t reply to mindless one-sentence messages.

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**PLEASE** read my whole post before sending me a PM


Hi everyone. I’m a 25 year old girl in California who moved back to be with my parents during COVID. I’m dealing with REALLY intense situation and I was hoping for some input/advice.

I moved back in with my parents since my industry is dead right now, and to help my mom and dad with groceries and errands during the pandemic. I’m the second oldest of four siblings, and the oldest girl, and my parents have always thought of me as the most “together” and mature of their kids...the “sibling in chief,” basically. It’s a role in our family that means a lot to me, and coming back home during this chaos was sort of an example of me living it out.

It’s honestly been really nice to be at home with them during all this...to be in my childhood home, my old bedroom, eating my mom’s cooking, just being in a safe space while the outside world is a mess, and having my mom and dad’s company - we’ve always been really close.

Apparently, though, my parents want to be close with me in a way that I never anticipated. I was up late talking with my mom over wine a couple of weeks ago and we were making jokes about sex. We’re really close, and that’s not weird for us, but my mom said something that made my jaw drop: “you know, your dad and I often think of you that way.”


At first it didn’t even register...I thought I had misunderstood, or was hearing things. Then I got it, and it hit me like a ton of bricks. My mom explained that, for a long time, she and my dad have been...”interested” in me. Acting and comedy is all about playing to your audience and taking on roles, and in that moment I was just trying really hard to be a good daughter. As stunned as I was, I made it my job to hear my mom out, and listen carefully, and with empathy...a lot of nodding, a lot of calmly saying “I understand” and just trying to hear her out. But honestly, it was the hardest conversation of my life, and it only got harder when my mom asked me to consider going to bed with them.

I told her I would think deeply about our conversation. Then I went up to bed and felt...just in a total daze. Betrayed. Like my reality had been turned upside down. I also felt this deep sense of empathy for my parents, to have carried a secret like this for so long, and a strange sense of pride that they trusted me enough to open up about it.

Since that initial conversation with my mom, I’ve sat down with both her and my dad and we’ve talked things out more as parents and daughter. What they’re asking of me is...a lot. It includes bathroom stuff and extremely heavy torture. I’m trying really, really hard to practice empathy and approach all this with an open mind. It’s been so emotionally intense. I guess I’m posting in the hope of starting a dialogue with someone who would be willing to “interview” me, and learn about me, my life, and my family, and then dive into my current situation.

A few requests:


- PLEASE be able to spell. No netspeak, no use of “lol,” etc. It matters to me that I speak with someone who can actually communicate intelligently.

- have the time and energy for a sustained, in-depth conversation.

- be willing to use Wickr, it’s my preferred platform.

- send me an introduction that makes it clear you really read this post and have a genuine interest in diving deep into this with me. I won’t reply to mindless one-sentence messages.



Didn't you have this same post a while ago? Would love to chat..
 
parents want sex

NO !
How dare they ask something like this of their daughter.
Please leave their home and find some place to be by yourself, or look into
getting your own bed partner {a man...not your dad} so you can enjoy
the pleasures of your own body and his..

would love to converse with you.
email me: professor1319@aol.com

Joseph
 
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