23 M Looking For A Submissive Girl For Long Term

[thevillian69]

I require a submissive girl for long term on kik
Needs to be obedient
Will do anything I command
Age doesn't matter
You will share pics audio and video on demand

If you can do all that
Message me on kik say "I wanna be your slave" with your pic

Add me on kik
Thevillian69

 

[Zundas]

I require a submissive girl for long term on kik
Needs to be obedient
Will do anything I command
Age doesn't matter
You will share pics audio and video on demand

If you can do all that
Message me on kik say "I wanna be your slave" with your pic

Add me on kik
Thevillian69

Hello there, I'm a guy your own age who has some pointers for you when it comes to communicating on lit and what it means to be a dominant while communicating. I'm a switch but spent a long time acting under the pretence that I was solely a dom, I believe I can provide some much needed insight to hopefully improve your chances of success:

1)

Just because you're a dominant doesn't mean it's reasonable for you to demand obedience from strangers. If you're looking for a long term BDSM based relationship with someone then you need to communicate first, establish your dynamic together to make sure you're both wanting the same thing and that you actually like what the other does.

You don't demand trust, you earn it and it's the same with obedience. You aren't playing the role of a dominant or master etc in a play where your submissive is also a character, you're a real person and so are they. If being a dominant is part of who you are rather than a mask you wear to get off then you should get this.

There are a million young doms out there demanding women obey them, do you reckon they're going to follow the orders of the ones that come across as needy petulant children or the ones that go out of their way to appeal and communicate well?

2)

People who are interested in your ad are going to check your profile. They're going to look at your past posts to see what kind of person and by extension what kind of dominant you are. So far 100% of your posts are this same thread but copy and pasted a few times and replying to those threads saying you're still looking.

This doesn't send a good message. The copy and pasting of some very simple and not particularly useful/informative text comes across as lazy, as does your lack of engagement with the community of the site. This isn't a hookup site - one aspect of it is finding people to get off with, but there's a lot more to it.

You're just giving the impression you're here to find people to make you cum and that's it - nothing wrong with that bear in mind but again if submissives have the choice between a dom who's shown themselves to be communicative, interesting, creative, witty, etc OR someone that copy and pastes the same thing they've already seen in 1000 other similar threads on here which are they going to choose?.

3)

Tying in somewhat with point number 2, post more. Not only more but with more variety. This site has an active community filled with people that talk, play, make friends and explore a variety of things together. You're going to come across better and will also hopefully learn a lot by exploring the site and posting around a bit, look at things that interest you and try to contribute.

Also, and this is a minor thing, but people are going to take you even less seriously with your username. It sounds exactly what the most stereotypical "poser" dom would come up with.

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Hopefully you can take the useful nuggets of info in the above to heart and try to learn from them to adapt and improve your approach to using lit.

 

[AlliaPotestas]

Hello there, I'm a guy your own age who has some pointers for you when it comes to communicating on lit and what it means to be a dominant while communicating. I'm a switch but spent a long time acting under the pretence that I was solely a dom, I believe I can provide some much needed insight to hopefully improve your chances of success:

1)

Just because you're a dominant doesn't mean it's reasonable for you to demand obedience from strangers. If you're looking for a long term BDSM based relationship with someone then you need to communicate first, establish your dynamic together to make sure you're both wanting the same thing and that you actually like what the other does.

You don't demand trust, you earn it and it's the same with obedience. You aren't playing the role of a dominant or master etc in a play where your submissive is also a character, you're a real person and so are they. If being a dominant is part of who you are rather than a mask you wear to get off then you should get this.

There are a million young doms out there demanding women obey them, do you reckon they're going to follow the orders of the ones that come across as needy petulant children or the ones that go out of their way to appeal and communicate well?

2)

People who are interested in your ad are going to check your profile. They're going to look at your past posts to see what kind of person and by extension what kind of dominant you are. So far 100% of your posts are this same thread but copy and pasted a few times and replying to those threads saying you're still looking.

This doesn't send a good message. The copy and pasting of some very simple and not particularly useful/informative text comes across as lazy, as does your lack of engagement with the community of the site. This isn't a hookup site - one aspect of it is finding people to get off with, but there's a lot more to it.

You're just giving the impression you're here to find people to make you cum and that's it - nothing wrong with that bear in mind but again if submissives have the choice between a dom who's shown themselves to be communicative, interesting, creative, witty, etc OR someone that copy and pastes the same thing they've already seen in 1000 other similar threads on here which are they going to choose?.

3)

Tying in somewhat with point number 2, post more. Not only more but with more variety. This site has an active community filled with people that talk, play, make friends and explore a variety of things together. You're going to come across better and will also hopefully learn a lot by exploring the site and posting around a bit, look at things that interest you and try to contribute.

Also, and this is a minor thing, but people are going to take you even less seriously with your username. It sounds exactly what the most stereotypical "poser" dom would come up with.

---

Hopefully you can take the useful nuggets of info in the above to heart and try to learn from them to adapt and improve your approach to using lit.

This needed to be said, thank you