22 yr old female looking for advice from M or F dont matter to me

[LoveYou2111]

I am 22 yrs old and I have a boyfriend. I have this girl at work that is bi and she lets everyone know this. All I want to know is how can I get her to let me try bi sex with her? Do I just go up and ask her? I am not looking to cheat I told my man about this and he said I should try it and that I way I will know if I'm bi or not. I just dont know how to get this girl to have sex with me. Any ideas?

 

[Magnum_TN]

sounds like a good idea to me, except you work with her. That would be a big NO for me.

as you said ....

and she lets everyone know this.

I wouldn't like the idea everyone else knowing it.

thats jus me though
good luck

 

[pantyman69]

just let her know your curious and that you would love to find someone to try it. she will offer herself, i'm sure!

 

[LastoftheGreatMikeys]

no one way to do this. if she finds you attractive that will help. make sure she's not saying she's bi just to be ''trendy.'' be social, hang out with her a little outside of work and see where things lead is my suggestion...and make sure she knows you have a boyfriend. maybe let the fact that he doesn't mind you trying a woman pop up in conversation...see what happens.

 

[capricious_chic]

Just because someone is bi doesn't mean that they will fuck anything that moves. Simply offering yourself isn't going to do the trick unless there is an attraction.

Talk to her and flirt with her to see if there is a reciprocal attraction. She may be the type that only fucks around w/someone she is in a relationship with - male or female. I wouldn't go up to her assuming that she is an easy ho that puts out on demand. That may be the case, just don't assume it.

 

[Bad_Bad_LB]

Ask her out on a date.

BTW I'm sure that your boyfriend is simply estatic that you're bi-curious.

Somewhere his mind is churning away at a plan to get you and another woman in bed at the same time.

If you have a twin sister the guy probably thinks of nothing else.

<Wait, maybe that's just the way my mind works.>

You could ask her to a drink after work, stop at a Hotel with a bar, see if she wants to get a room.

 

[LoveYou2111]

Ok thank you all for the advice. I know she is bi and not just saying it. At lunch she is always talking about girls, and get to know her and you will know what I mean. Thanks again and if anyone has anymore advice I could use it!

 

[brnbutta]

The bi girl in the lunchroom

This could be friendly advice, but know that this is just my opinion. It is obvious that you have some type of attraction to the bi girl at the lunch table. I think a good start would be to define what your attraction is. Are you attracted to her (looks, conversation, attitude, personality, etc.) or is it just the idea that you want an experience with another women. If that is the case, then perhaps the bi girl at the lunch table is not the road you want to travel down. Keep in mind that she is a talker, according to your above statements of her talking all the time about girls. Think about how much she will kiss and tell after your moment of sharing. Also keep in mind and understand that just because she is bi, doesn’t mean that it’s a free ticket for a good chat and chew in bed. Bi people have feelings too, no matter how much she brags and rattles on at the lunch table. Her conversation just could be a way of saying, “Hey… I’m bi, but I am also very lonely right now and need a friend to talk to and one that will listen”. Try being her friend, perhaps that is what she really needs right now. As for you… While I don’t exactly agree with your boyfriend on this being a way of telling if you are bi or not. I think, like the cat, you are full of curiosity and would like to experience a taste of that world with another women. Perhaps, experiencing this world with someone in the work place is not a good idea. I am a lot older than you and have learned in life that you don’t shit in your own back yard, it’s too much to have to clean up. On a nicer tip, play in another sandbox and keep your personal life personal and out of the work place. There are a lot of bi curious and bi women out here that would love to accommodate you on this journey to satisfying your curiosity. Now… If you just must have the bi girl in the lunchroom, try being her friend first. Find out the nature of the beast before you enter into her den.

 

[Rambunctious]

Bravo brnbutta...that is the best advice she could get.

Get to be friends with her. Then you can see if the office personal start to talk about you, and you may meet one of her Bi-curious friends.

 

[LoveYou2111]

Thanks so very much for your advice Brnbutta. I didnt think of her not wanting to give it up, thanks for bring that up. (along with the others that did) I think I just may ask her out with some of my friends to drink. And see what happens. But either way she will know I have a boyfriend so thoughs of you thinking that I want to cheat on the best thing that has happened to me dont you dare think that because if I had to choose I would not want this girl in bed because I have what I want already! I love you Justin!!! Thanks agian Brnbutta and thanks to all the others!