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I'm new to this site but excited to try new experiences. Just looking for someone willing to show this shy at first WNY girl the ropes.
21 y/o f wants to learn
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i'd be happy to show you a thing or 2
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I'll teach ya the ropes and maybe even tie ya up with them.....in binghamton if your near by...
Take it easy and do it right!
Take it easy and do it right!
Hi. I am older man in California. Just have some strong suggestions after many, many experiences.
1) Keep exploring yourself.
Even at 50 I was still finding, or changing so, different things were arousing. Do the same with your partner. And talk about it often so each gets closer to the other.
2) Be aware of your weakness, especially emotional ones, if you can.
A girl I was dating in college knew up front that transferring to anothe school to follow my "true love" (who was out of the country that year.) About six months after I transferred, I ran into her and her mother. They were really on my case because she had a long, false pregnancy when it left. I was still a virgin so this was a big emotional pregnancy. I do not know if she could have know herself well enough to see this comming.
3) Be strong and smart.
Try not to stay in a sexual relationship with people you should not trust nor which is degrading (to you or the other person). If you do, be aware of and understand what and why you are doing this to yourself and to others. Who knows - it might be genetic but that is not a reason for not trying to understand it.
4) Part of sex feels good for the same reasion as cocain, so some people use sex for the same reasons as cocain. Touching and sex also build bonds with people (this is in a chemical/neural sense becaus of the chemicals it releases in the brain). Be aware that these can lead you to places where you will do anything for those sensations - that is a bad addiction.
I recently read "A Modern Love Story" by Octavian and the last part has stayed with me. I think illustrates some of this. Here is the last section: corrected link: http://www.literotica.com/stories/showstory.php?id=51798&page=12, Chapter 21. Please have a read.
5) Be honest and kind. Sometimes you have to be very careful because honesty can hurt. When you break up with someone, don't just say sorry. When you have grown in a different than your partner, help your partner grow in their own direction. I think this is very important. Spend time explaining how and in what direction you grew and WHY they cannot go with you, even if it is someplace they can never go.
Accept that many relationships end, especially as we grow older and become different. And there will be tears and pain. If you are a good person, you can help reduce that pain.
Love, Michael
Take it easy and do it right!
Hi. I am older man in California. Just have some strong suggestions after many, many experiences.
1) Keep exploring yourself.
Even at 50 I was still finding, or changing so, different things were arousing. Do the same with your partner. And talk about it often so each gets closer to the other.
2) Be aware of your weakness, especially emotional ones, if you can.
A girl I was dating in college knew up front that transferring to anothe school to follow my "true love" (who was out of the country that year.) About six months after I transferred, I ran into her and her mother. They were really on my case because she had a long, false pregnancy when it left. I was still a virgin so this was a big emotional pregnancy. I do not know if she could have know herself well enough to see this comming.
3) Be strong and smart.
Try not to stay in a sexual relationship with people you should not trust nor which is degrading (to you or the other person). If you do, be aware of and understand what and why you are doing this to yourself and to others. Who knows - it might be genetic but that is not a reason for not trying to understand it.
4) Part of sex feels good for the same reasion as cocain, so some people use sex for the same reasons as cocain. Touching and sex also build bonds with people (this is in a chemical/neural sense becaus of the chemicals it releases in the brain). Be aware that these can lead you to places where you will do anything for those sensations - that is a bad addiction.
I recently read "A Modern Love Story" by Octavian and the last part has stayed with me. I think illustrates some of this. Here is the last section: corrected link: http://www.literotica.com/stories/showstory.php?id=51798&page=12, Chapter 21. Please have a read.
5) Be honest and kind. Sometimes you have to be very careful because honesty can hurt. When you break up with someone, don't just say sorry. When you have grown in a different than your partner, help your partner grow in their own direction. I think this is very important. Spend time explaining how and in what direction you grew and WHY they cannot go with you, even if it is someplace they can never go.
Accept that many relationships end, especially as we grow older and become different. And there will be tears and pain. If you are a good person, you can help reduce that pain.
Love, Michael
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ooops! Take it easy and do it right!" Wrong URL
Hi!
The part I wanted to send you to is page 12 (http://www.literotica.com/stories/showstory.php?id=51798&page=12), Chapter 21. Ben is the husband, Kelly the wife, and Carl their friend.
Here are some excerpts that may tease you:
"So, Kelly, the end of our holiday. There'll be no more bonking in the sun for a while. And you'll be home with Ben tonight, unless you've changed your mind, that is."
"No I haven't changed my mind, Carl. Not after yesterday. I still don't know how you could do it." She turned to look at him and I could see that she had been crying.
"Look, Kelly, it was no big deal, you know."
"Obviously not, as far as you're concerned Carl, but it is for me. I didn't want to be videoed in the first place. And as for Jeff doing the filming… by the way, where is he?"
...
Kelly could not believe her ears. "You are saying that you want me to come with you to America so that we can make blue films? Is that right?" He nodded. "And people say that romance is dead!" It was a flippant remark but there was real bitterness in her voice. She looked at him again and then she was looking over his shoulder straight at the camera. "What the hell's going on, Carl? You're not filming me, are you? Turn it off. Turn it off, now!" She was really angry.
"It's not on, Kelly. I don't know what sort of bastard you take me for but even I wouldn't do something like that, I swear.
...
"All the difference in the world! It was my decision to have sex with you, Carl, not Ben's. Mind you, knowing what I now know, I wouldn't say it was one of my better decisions. And likewise, if I fuck Jeff, then that will also be my decision. I won't, of course, because I don't even like the man."
"So you think you made the wrong decision about me, do you?" And then he laughed.
"What's so funny? I don't see anything to laugh about."
... She didn't finish the sentence. He was kissing her and I could see her hand instinctively reaching down to grasp his cock.
...
"Do you want me to fuck you?"
"Yes, Carl. I do. I want it now." God, she sounded desperate for it.
"All in good time, Kelly." And then he was beckoning to someone. Jeff suddenly appeared! He was naked. "Well, Kelly, what a coincidence! We were only talking about Jeff a moment ago and guess what? He's here." I heard a strangled, "No!" and then I saw Carl grab hold of her legs and bury his face in her vagina. She was kicking backwards with her heels but it was obvious that her resistance was weakening as his tongue was again working its magic on her clitoris. Soon she stopped struggling altogether.
... Carl broke off once more to speak to her. "Kelly, this is your lucky day. Jeff here is prepared to fuck you, but you'll have to ask him nicely. You know you will ask him because you will do anything I want as long as I lick that clitoris of yours, won't you?" Jeff was standing close by, watching her intensely and slowly stroking his erection.
"Yes."
The video went on, I thought, with Carl and Jeff geting her to do more. First, she had to snort a line of coke before she could get more sex. Soon, she started to make them pay refusing the next request unless she got more coke - that would make it expensive. Then she started suggesting things so she could get more coke. (I may have read that part in another story but it is firmly in my mind here but no longer on the web site.) But just an uncontorlable sex drive is more than enough adiction. Back to the story:
"Smile, Kelly," I heard Carl say, "You're on Candid Camera!" But my beautiful wife wasn't smiling. On the contrary, she was weeping. And she wasn't the only one. I switched off the video and wiped my eyes.
...
And she'd said something about… now, what was it? Yes I remember. 'No one felt degraded in fantasies.' She'd obviously felt terribly humiliated.
-Michael
Hi!
The part I wanted to send you to is page 12 (http://www.literotica.com/stories/showstory.php?id=51798&page=12), Chapter 21. Ben is the husband, Kelly the wife, and Carl their friend.
Here are some excerpts that may tease you:
"So, Kelly, the end of our holiday. There'll be no more bonking in the sun for a while. And you'll be home with Ben tonight, unless you've changed your mind, that is."
"No I haven't changed my mind, Carl. Not after yesterday. I still don't know how you could do it." She turned to look at him and I could see that she had been crying.
"Look, Kelly, it was no big deal, you know."
"Obviously not, as far as you're concerned Carl, but it is for me. I didn't want to be videoed in the first place. And as for Jeff doing the filming… by the way, where is he?"
...
Kelly could not believe her ears. "You are saying that you want me to come with you to America so that we can make blue films? Is that right?" He nodded. "And people say that romance is dead!" It was a flippant remark but there was real bitterness in her voice. She looked at him again and then she was looking over his shoulder straight at the camera. "What the hell's going on, Carl? You're not filming me, are you? Turn it off. Turn it off, now!" She was really angry.
"It's not on, Kelly. I don't know what sort of bastard you take me for but even I wouldn't do something like that, I swear.
...
"All the difference in the world! It was my decision to have sex with you, Carl, not Ben's. Mind you, knowing what I now know, I wouldn't say it was one of my better decisions. And likewise, if I fuck Jeff, then that will also be my decision. I won't, of course, because I don't even like the man."
"So you think you made the wrong decision about me, do you?" And then he laughed.
"What's so funny? I don't see anything to laugh about."
... She didn't finish the sentence. He was kissing her and I could see her hand instinctively reaching down to grasp his cock.
...
"Do you want me to fuck you?"
"Yes, Carl. I do. I want it now." God, she sounded desperate for it.
"All in good time, Kelly." And then he was beckoning to someone. Jeff suddenly appeared! He was naked. "Well, Kelly, what a coincidence! We were only talking about Jeff a moment ago and guess what? He's here." I heard a strangled, "No!" and then I saw Carl grab hold of her legs and bury his face in her vagina. She was kicking backwards with her heels but it was obvious that her resistance was weakening as his tongue was again working its magic on her clitoris. Soon she stopped struggling altogether.
... Carl broke off once more to speak to her. "Kelly, this is your lucky day. Jeff here is prepared to fuck you, but you'll have to ask him nicely. You know you will ask him because you will do anything I want as long as I lick that clitoris of yours, won't you?" Jeff was standing close by, watching her intensely and slowly stroking his erection.
"Yes."
The video went on, I thought, with Carl and Jeff geting her to do more. First, she had to snort a line of coke before she could get more sex. Soon, she started to make them pay refusing the next request unless she got more coke - that would make it expensive. Then she started suggesting things so she could get more coke. (I may have read that part in another story but it is firmly in my mind here but no longer on the web site.) But just an uncontorlable sex drive is more than enough adiction. Back to the story:
"Smile, Kelly," I heard Carl say, "You're on Candid Camera!" But my beautiful wife wasn't smiling. On the contrary, she was weeping. And she wasn't the only one. I switched off the video and wiped my eyes.
...
And she'd said something about… now, what was it? Yes I remember. 'No one felt degraded in fantasies.' She'd obviously felt terribly humiliated.
-Michael
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Take it easy and do it right! How to find a partner.
Hi!,
I would suggest someone you know and like.
One time a "friend with benefits" wanted to try a three way. I was living 1000 miles away but comming home for Christmas. I guess she trusted me and knew I would not bug her.
I suggest something like that. Perhaps such a friend that has moved to Boston. It could be a one nighter, but I would suggest a few vacation days together, perhaps in another city. Then you two can really talk about what you feel and are doing.
Explain before getting together that this is probably a one time thing. That it is just something you want to know about. Be very clear that you are in control.
Oh, also this can be about just petting, mutual masturbation, excetra. I was a virgin until about your age, but I had learned a lot about loving a woman in the past few years. And I still love and think about those wonderful ladies.
-Love, Michael
Hi!,
I would suggest someone you know and like.
One time a "friend with benefits" wanted to try a three way. I was living 1000 miles away but comming home for Christmas. I guess she trusted me and knew I would not bug her.
I suggest something like that. Perhaps such a friend that has moved to Boston. It could be a one nighter, but I would suggest a few vacation days together, perhaps in another city. Then you two can really talk about what you feel and are doing.
Explain before getting together that this is probably a one time thing. That it is just something you want to know about. Be very clear that you are in control.
Oh, also this can be about just petting, mutual masturbation, excetra. I was a virgin until about your age, but I had learned a lot about loving a woman in the past few years. And I still love and think about those wonderful ladies.
-Love, Michael
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