21/F Inexperienced Sub Looking for Online Male Dom

LilWhiskeyG

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Hello all, I'm relatively new to the BDSM lifestyle and the forums, however, I've been lurking for several months and reading through the fiction for a few years now.

I'm here looking for an online Dom - someone willing to teach, guide, and help me explore both myself and the topic in general. I was talking to one Sir for a short time, but unfortunately that didn't get the chance to go too far due to unforeseen circumstances. I'm genuinely interested in learning and that is my first request; not to be picky, but, I'd like a Dom I can have intelligent conversations as I'm introduced more to BDSM. Secondly, and this is not so much a requirement as it is an observation, it may be easier if you're US/Canada based. My last contact was in the UK and while the internet made communication possible, between my schedule and his we only got to talk regularly at 5/6 AM my time. I'm willing to try an online relationship with someone in a further timezone but it would require more work to match schedules. I'd initially like to explore and learn through an online avenue, so experience in online BDSM may help, not necessary and I suppose we could figure it out together. Maybe someday I'll be comfortable enough to venture into a real-life relationship.

A bit about myself: I'm a 21 year-old university student from Texas studying Interior Design and working part time. I enjoy all things outdoors from sports to grilling, especially anything on the river, and several indoor activities like crafting and sewing. I'm also an avid volunteer, most of my free time is spent helping others; I'm even in a sorority for service.

I can count the number of partners I've had on one hand and the number of serious relationships is less than that. I find that I'm too shy and reserved for my own good. Most everything I know about myself sexually is self-realized over a good deal of reflection. I am naturally submissive; I prefer to listen rather than speak; I enjoy completing assigned tasks quickly and correctly. All this I know about myself from the way I live outside of the bedroom, and from the limited experience I've had in the bedroom I know it applies there as well. I'm inexperience but willing to try new things and just looking for someone to help guide me through it.

If you're interested please let me know, and even if you're not but can still offer advice or an ear to listen if I want someone else to talk to, let me know as well. Thanks for your time.
 
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Welcome to the board. Is there a thread on inbox maintenance? Do noobs still get only 150 messages to start? I bet that took about 15 mins to fill. :)

Have fun and good luck!
 
Welcome and thanks for your complete and charming post. I am UK based so may not be exactly what you are looking for, but I do have quite a bit of experience and am very happy to have detailed discussions if that helps. I am sure you are inundated with PMs, so I won't PM you. But you can PM whenever you want. Good luck in your search.
 
Such honesty and clarity of vision is refreshing, especially out of a girl of your age. Good luck on your search.
 
Hello all,

I have gotten quite a few responses, not enough to fill my inbox but still quite a bit. Sadly, I've just been much busier this week than I anticipated so I haven't been able to reply to most of the messages like I've wanted. Thanks to those so far who've offered their help and advice, I've gotten a few good links to read through already. To the rest of yall - I'll get to replying soon. I'm going for a 4.0 this semester though so the school work is coming first and the professors all just chose this week for things to be due.
 
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