hi Selena, i know I'm a guy, but I'm really interested why you've chosen to go with another girl now, considering you are pregnant and you don't want him to join in ? It's a very horny idea ... my wife has just had a baby, but if I'd found out sh'ed done thta I'd have been permanently erect ...
Going with a girl at this point because I'm curious *shrugs* now is as good of a time as any other I suppose. Putting it off for whatever reason would just be an excuse and I've done that a million times, if its something I want to try I should just do it instead of procrastinating more.
As for not including him, well I'm nervous enough about even posting as it is without someone else involved and drooling over it. I just feel its something I should try alone to make up my own mind about how I feel with it. Then if the person I'm with wants to include him and I do too fine, if not fine, or if i decide that its just not thing well I have no outside pressure to keep going because its what he likes.