2 subs 1 Dom

[CrimsonDom]

Here is a scenario that I would like to hear peoples thoughts on. A Don has a collar pet and has been approached by another sub who is sweet and shy. She is fairly new and has a lot to learn. The primary reason the Dom is considering this is both subs not only seem interested in serving him, but also are interested in exploring with each other. Just to clarify I am not the Dom we are speaking about it is a fellow Dom from a local group.

 

[seela]

I'm not sure what kind of input you're looking for.

All three seem to be eager to be in that kind of a relationship, so I'd say go for it, but be aware that poly relationships aren't all skittles and rainbows. Jealosy, time constraints and all kinds of issues can multiply in poly settings.

 

[CrimsonDom]

I agree and that was the same input I gave him when he asked me what I thought about it.

 

[robbie_boy1]

I agree and that was the same input I gave him when he asked me what I thought about it.

As with any relationship, there needs to be open communication and all cards laid on the table before entering into a poly relationship. Mostly I have seen a couple D/s enter into a scene with another s. Bells sound, sparks fly and if the couple is into instant gratification the whole thing goes from a romp in the hay to a relationship.

Other couples plan, seek, and are slow to enter into such a relationship. These seem to work out the best. The longest I have scene is about 5 years and they three have been together before I ever knew them. Most I see last a few months and then *ca ca occurs* I guess if you are into scat that would be a good thing. Heartache and discontent is not what it is all about though.. Be happy!

 

[desertslave]

As robbie said, communication is a necessity, as is honesty with yourself and the other partners. Secrecy and 'suck up and deal' can be poisonous. Also, before starting anything, be certain that everyone is on the same page in terms of goals and expectations. I have seen situations where the new sub sets out trying to replace the present one, with nothing but heartache in the end.

Mutual attraction all around, however, can improve prospects tremendously.