2 men, But only 1 I want.What 2 do?

Devilish1

Horny Devil
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Ok, i got a problem.

Im dating this guy whom i dont love but he loves me.
Im in love with someone else, have been for nearly a yr.
We dated for a few weeks till he told me he wasnt just ready to get into a realtionship.
BUT, He still calls me every week, once or twice a week and has told me he still cares for me.
Im wanting to break up with the guy im dating.( hopefully this weekend i will end it).
I want to ask the guy im in love with out. But i dont know how to do it. I dont want to make him feel like im pressuring him into something hes not ready for.

He called tonight from his cele phone on the way to see one of his sick kids.( living with mom). He lives about a hour from me and his kids home is less than a hour from me. I was DIEING to ask him when hes finished visiting his son to come by here and we can talk for a while if he wanted, no matter what time it was. But i chicken out. But before i had a chance to TRY tell him, his cele phone died. :(


We have known each other for almost a year now. He kinda sounds like hes ready to get into a realtionship. But im not sure.

How do you know when someone is ready to start dating again after a divorce?
I know im confusing. You should be in my shoes right now.

:confused: :confused:
 
LOL....
Not the answer i was looking for but i got a good laugh anyway. :)
 
Well, one theory holds that a person needs a year, just to cycle through the emotional reactions to anniversaries of happier times & holidays, etc. Beginning & ending with the date of finalization for the divorce.
 
Well maybe your right.
He decided right after X-mas that he wasnt ready to get into a realtionship just yet.
Hes since has gotten his divorce and he is starting to go out with his buddies,something he didnt do before the divorce was final.
He has 4 wonderful kids and he was raising 3 of them but the courts .... well was in Moms favor for having custody even though the kids are still begging hm to let them come home to him.
Hes trying to get custody of his kids and he doesnt seem so unhappy like he once did.
I guess the only thing to do is to ask him out (Once i dump the other guy) and if he says yes, we can take things slow, If he says no. then hes still not ready.


*Praying to God that he will want to try for a realtionship again*
 
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