2 for 1 / Bi women and Crossdressing Men

[Paige.]

I am a new poster here and I am curious about a couple of things. I don't know if this is a good thread question but here goes.

I understand there are many men that love women's panties, lingerie etc and there are many that enjoy dressing up as a woman. But from what I have read, many men dress only for themselves, in private, and no one else ever knows.

How many more of you 'straight' men or even bi-curioius men would be more willing to dress as a woman, complete with make-up and a wig if you knew for certain that you would be accepted completely, with absolutely no fear or thought that you would be ridiculed or rejected by your wife or girlfriend. When I say accepted I mean accepted only by women, not men. Other men would never see you. How many of you would like it if a Bi or a straight woman found you to be very attractive and sexy looking as a woman? And you would never be found out except by your partner.

For the women. I think many women are very attracted to and interested in, or curious about having sex with another woman. But like the men, we are gripped with a real fear of being found out and labeled a lesbian, or wiered, or something else by our family, friends and society. I also think many women don't understand why a man wants to dress as a woman.

However, if you knew for certain you were perfectly safe in your attraction to another 'woman', would an attractive, sexy looking crossdressed man be appealing to you. Would it make it easier, or would it not make any difference for you, to take the next step? A same sex experience?

Personally I am attracted to both straight men and women. But I am also attracted to men that are very feminine looking when they are dressed in women's clothing. Not dressed like sluts, but as a normal woman would be.

Any comments?

 

[nz8inchtoy]

Thongs

I am a guy from NZ that loves to wear ladies thongs.

 

[pantybeard]

Bi women and cross-dressing men

I would do anything a woman wanted to do, if she would be accepting. I like wearing panties for the look and feel of them. I would love to share that with a woman, but never have because I am scared that they would think it weird, along with my being bi.

 

[kiwisub]

I am a new poster here and I am curious about a couple of things. I don't know if this is a good thread question but here goes.

I understand there are many men that love women's panties, lingerie etc and there are many that enjoy dressing up as a woman. But from what I have read, many men dress only for themselves, in private, and no one else ever knows.

How many more of you 'straight' men or even bi-curioius men would be more willing to dress as a woman, complete with make-up and a wig if you knew for certain that you would be accepted completely, with absolutely no fear or thought that you would be ridiculed or rejected by your wife or girlfriend. When I say accepted I mean accepted only by women, not men. Other men would never see you. How many of you would like it if a Bi or a straight woman found you to be very attractive and sexy looking as a woman? And you would never be found out except by your partner.

For the women. I think many women are very attracted to and interested in, or curious about having sex with another woman. But like the men, we are gripped with a real fear of being found out and labeled a lesbian, or wiered, or something else by our family, friends and society. I also think many women don't understand why a man wants to dress as a woman.

However, if you knew for certain you were perfectly safe in your attraction to another 'woman', would an attractive, sexy looking crossdressed man be appealing to you. Would it make it easier, or would it not make any difference for you, to take the next step? A same sex experience?

Personally I am attracted to both straight men and women. But I am also attracted to men that are very feminine looking when they are dressed in women's clothing. Not dressed like sluts, but as a normal woman would be.

Any comments?

I love to CD in private and one day hope to dress for someone in person. I did it initially for how it makes me feel inside and nothing to do with how I looked on the outside. I never wanted to be a woman and didnt intend to look like one however the thought of a woman being turned on by seeing me dressed this way pushes my excitement to another level.

I am not gay or bi however the thought of another man getting turned on by me dressed as a woman is equally a turn on.

Shame theres such a shortage of takers (female that is !!!) ???

 

[stlpenguin]

You've actually just described my marriage.

I'm a straight male CD that only dresses in private at home. My wife is aware and accepting (hell, a little encouraging with makeup and fashion tips - it's still a little surreal to me.) and is also bi. She likes me to look like a woman because she is primarily physically attracted to women, but socially attracted to men. So if she can get a man that looks like a woman, she's set for life.

 

[CaptainWench]

Ahhh the good life.

Yes,

Thats what I am currently living. The idea of genderfucking is high on both of our lists of sexual attractions. We are also both bi.

Men, women that are in love with David Bowie are your ticket in. Just a note.

Captain Gabrielle

 

[briar_rose]

You've actually just described my marriage.
She likes me to look like a woman because she is primarily physically attracted to women, but socially attracted to men. So if she can get a man that looks like a woman, she's set for life.

haha that sounds like me, my boyfriend is very male but we have lots of jokes because when people learn of my bisexuality i can joke that thats the reason he has such looooong hair, it satisfies my attraction to girls lol. (not really though)

 

[noonenew]

I crossdress in private, but would love a captive audience- male or female. I would love to be able to pass in public, cruise around town as a chick... but I'm too afraid that someone will see me, and recognize me, or that I don't actually pass at all, and I just look like a guy in girl's clothing.

 

[Prime]

I suppose any hangups i personally have about not ever doing that in private stems from the common taboo of it, so if there wasn't any such thing, i really think that i would enjoy it, just like i've enjoyed every other thing i've tried that is against 'the norm'

 

[maccr]

I would dress up in a moment. My wife knows my fantasies and enjoys seeing me in panties. I have no desire for men, but sure love to wear lingerie. I have told my wife to buy me stockings and garters and she says it even turns her on, but she has only bought me panties and a bra. I wear them to bed and masterbate and love it, but would really like to go the whole way, make-up and all. I'm a big burly guy so I know I wouldn't look to attractive, but I can't get over my fantasy. I wore panties out one time and told her, never really went anywhere, but I did it. I walk through walmart sometimes and would just love to go to the lingerie and pick one out and take it home and put it on, I just don't have the nerve. I think with me, half the turn on is the shopping for them, I have gone and bought panties and snuck them through the self check outs, never told my wife that one either, threw them out before she found out or worse accused me of having an affair or something. I'm just a big chicken I guess. Always thought I was just weird, until I found that my fantasies are not so uncommon. Sometimes I want to tell my wife just how turned on I am by it, but like everythign else in my life, I think I just go to far sometimes. SO it scares me.

 

[jackin_off_ca]

hey paige, just into the wearing of the panties stage, it definatley increases my jacking off sessions.

sometimes I wear them as I jerk off, love the way they cup my balls even my ass, at times I don't even take my cock out, I just play with it till I fill my panteis with cum

other times I just wrap them around my cock, play with my ass and go till I explode all over myself.

 

[Paige.]

I crossdress in private, but would love a captive audience- male or female. I would love to be able to pass in public, cruise around town as a chick... but I'm too afraid that someone will see me, and recognize me, or that I don't actually pass at all, and I just look like a guy in girl's clothing.

I think your comment is very typical of the fear I was refering to. I do think more men would dress if their wife or girlfriend helped choose appropriate styles and colors of clothing. She should be able to tell if you would pass or not. If not then you could both do your thing at home in private.

From what I have read I guess the problem is to find an understanding woman to begin with.

Good luck

 

[Paige.]

hey paige, just into the wearing of the panties stage, it definatley increases my jacking off sessions.

sometimes I wear them as I jerk off, love the way they cup my balls even my ass, at times I don't even take my cock out, I just play with it till I fill my panteis with cum

other times I just wrap them around my cock, play with my ass and go till I explode all over myself.

May I make a suggestion? Something you may want to try to increase the intensity of jacking off is to buy yourself a pair of pantyhose and slip them on.

Ihope you get to dress all the way sweetheart.

 

[rbijon]

May I make a suggestion? Something you may want to try to increase the intensity of jacking off is to buy yourself a pair of pantyhose and slip them on.

Ihope you get to dress all the way sweetheart.

Oh, Paige has some good advise!... ....
I love to wear panties too!
...but it is very disfuntional, I have a hugh hard, drip'n cock all day long....heheheee

 

[hs9in]

I'm a closeted aspiring cross-dresser. I tried coming out to my last girlfriend but it didn't go over well. It was strange to me that she reacted so negatively too because there were many occasions when she would try and get me in her panties after sex but once I let her know I liked it she freaked out. My dream is to be with a girl who would swap genders with me and go out in public dressed as a guy (with a strap-on under her pants) and I would be dressed as a women waiting to receive her eternally hard cock.

 

[noonenew]

I think your comment is very typical of the fear I was refering to. I do think more men would dress if their wife or girlfriend helped choose appropriate styles and colors of clothing. She should be able to tell if you would pass or not. If not then you could both do your thing at home in private.

From what I have read I guess the problem is to find an understanding woman to begin with.

Good luck

The problem is, I have a high profile job in a small town. If one of my employees saw me en femme I don't know how that'd blow over with my employers- and at 21, I'm not ready to deal with that kind of stress. I'm pretty sure I could pass in public with a wig and proper make up, but there's always that slim chance.

I'd love to find a girl that could deal with it, but like I said, I'm only 21, and I'm not sure how girls my age would react to that kind of fetish/secret/lifestyle.

 

[knkycva]

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[T.H. Oughts]

I am a single woman in New Zealand who would LOVE to have a male CDing partner. I think men are ever so sexy in stockings and panties etc.

If only I could find such a man who was single also that lived near me.....

 

[Tymeless]

i'm a mtf transexual just starting the transition. i feel much more at home in female clothing but i have yet to wear anything in public but i definately don't hide what i am anymore anyone i'm gonna be with is gonna have to deal with my dressing as a woman even if i don't go through the transition fully!

 

[melsdad]

I was about 8 years old when I first wore my mothers lingerie.

My first masturbation involved the same.

In my teens, I'd see a mates, sisters, bra, slip or panties on a line and they'd overpower me. I'd love to have taken them home with me.

Putting on stocking or pantie hose is a real turn on.

Every opportunity I ever got to wear, I'd go for it.

I loved to look in women's lingerie drawers whenever I got the opportunity, it excited me to the max.

In my 50's, and divorced, Ebay opened up the flood gates which enabled me to purchase my own things in a way that wasn't embarrassing.

After much trial and error I got the sizes worked out and it wasn't long, being semi retired, before I was spending a great deal of time in the privacy of my home, enjoying the most thrilling moments of my life.

It's a sexual thing with me which involves masturbation.

It's not been something I've ever wanted to share with others like me. Yet I know, if something spontaneous occurred, I'd go along with the moment.

I do fantasise about having a female friend who'd enjoy it with me, I even have a little fetish for the humiliation of it, but with someone who'd have to be very special to me. In fact there is a friend, but she has no idea she's in my fantasy.

I have no idea what triggered this as a boy of 8. It's been with me always.

All I know is, I love it, and always want to do it. It thrills me to such an extent, it could be said, it takes my breath away.

Yet I've always been a wild bloke, whose done extra hard and physically demanding work, in quiet violent environments.

No one who knows me would have a clue.

It's possible the secrecy of it all, just adds to the thrill of it.

It's great to at least talk about it in here. I'm hoping to read things which can shed a little light on why it was a natural part of who I am, from as far back as I can remember.

Over to you fellow lingerie lovers and wearers.

 

[Paige.]

I am a single woman in New Zealand who would LOVE to have a male CDing partner. I think men are ever so sexy in stockings and panties etc.

If only I could find such a man who was single also that lived near me.....

I agree completely! Not just panties and stockings though. I am also looking for that 'special' sexy looking woman.

Even from the few posts on this thread it is apparent that there are many men that want a female partner like you. My original premise in starting this thread is that many of us have a fear that is dificult to overcome. We have tremendous desires that are never consumated.

Do you know of a thread that is active that is devoted to pictures of crossdressed men. I haven't had much luck. Lots of panty pics and that Shemale_junky thread is yummy but just good everyday 'normal' men dressed as women are scarce.

Paige

 

[T.H. Oughts]

Even from the few posts on this thread it is apparent that there are many men that want a female partner like you. My original premise in starting this thread is that many of us have a fear that is dificult to overcome. We have tremendous desires that are never consumated.

Yes there are more around than let on.

The New Zealand dating website I go to there is a TV section but not many CDers have a profile there. I presume that because the site only allows one profile per person their profiles are geared towards the male side of their life style.

 

[kiwisub]

I purchased a special pair of panties yesterday. They are black and lacey plus a little seethru which is rather naughty and the bottom is sheer. They are bikini style which makes my slim hips look great.
When I tried them on the first time I could feel the butterflies in my stomach as I stepped into the soft silky material and felt the lace on my firm thighs as I slowly pulled them up, by the time my balls were enclosed in the lace I was fully aroused and had troble fitting everything in which you could clearly see through the lace. I stood in front of the mirror then turned around to see how my bottom looked in the sheer black material...firm and viginous

 

[deidracowen]

As soon as I got divorced I started dressing, so yes not having a GF or Wife does make it easy. Although for a while this year I dated a 'real' female, she was a tranny chaser. LOL

I started off at home doing the closet thing, well I cammed a bit on yahoo. But in a few months I started going out to bars. These days I go to malls, resturants and of course the bars. (even a few straight bars) I am lucky in that while I might not be 100% passable, I do seem to look good enough to blend in and have very little trouble while out.

I have had problems only twice. At a Waffle House diner after midnight...and then at a very wild Str8 bar where the crowd was too young. But I have a lot of fun.

The sex as a Tgirl is incredible too....best I ever had...find sex just as a regular guy now to be a bit boring.

Hugs

Deidra

 

[Paige.]

Yes there are more around than let on.

The New Zealand dating website I go to there is a TV section but not many CDers have a profile there. I presume that because the site only allows one profile per person their profiles are geared towards the male side of their life style.

Hi T.H.

I tried to PM you but you are turned off so I will go public.

Take a look at the post immediately above yours, Post#23. It is from Kiwisub in NZ. He has pm'd me and my impression from his writing is that he is OK. He may be close to you or he may be on the other island from you but if you are looking, and he is looking..........Just a suggestion.

From your friendly matchmaker.