18 year old female sub musings- Eager, curious, intrigued

[Dannyluvsu13]

Submission is earned

BDSM. At first I just thought it was an out of the norm way to have "mind-blowing" sex, but it's more than that. It's not abuse or slavery either (to each his own for RP though). It's a way to give part of yourself to another human being and, in essence, a way to say "I trust you". It's crazy to think that as a submissive you are giving up all the power to your Dominant or Master 24/7, because not only are they not super human, but you allowing Him control is power in itself that only you have. A good foundation to begin this lifestyle, and it IS a lifestyle, stems from communication and a mutual understanding of what the other person wants. Throw around terms like "safe word", "protocol", "kinks", "fetish", and "collar" and it's fairly easy for people, like myself, to get overwhelmed.

I admit that I have just brushed the topic and still have a lot to learn, but I also know that this is something I am interested in. I can be hard-headed, hormone-driven, super shy and downright playful/immature or naughty at times, but I'm also very sincere about this. Half of the time I'm not sure if I just want some rough sex and desire brief servitude or am really cut out for BDSM. At such a young age I think it's hard to know what I want for sure, and luckily I have all the time in the world to explore (some people are into grandmas, right?). I'm eager to please and learn.

Let me know what you think! An online D/s relationship, friendships, mentor/teacher feel free to message me if interested in that; I am open to it all. PM, kik (Dannyluvsu13), yahoo (daniluvsu13), Skype (daniluvsu13), email (Dannyluvsu13@aol.com)
-Daniella (Dani)

 

[jamesdafuq]

Pm'd you

 

[domolder]

You got it

Dani,

You have it, already. Your description is just right.

Don't worry about the definitions and names, just enjoy and be enjoyed.

Find someone to trust as you describe...bit be discerning.

 

[Wanderer0327]

Dani,

You have it, already. Your description is just right.

Don't worry about the definitions and names, just enjoy and be enjoyed.

Find someone to trust as you describe...bit be discerning.

Seconded... especially the part about being discerning. There are a lot of wannabes who don't understand what being a Dominant is about.

 

[Prince Albert]

Would to play with you

 

[Sthrngent1962]

I am sure that you will find many Doms that are really wannabes, but don't give up. There will be the perfect Dom for you out there some where. I wish you the best of luck.
TK

 

[LairdDaveR]

Greetings Dani

As domolder posted, “Your description is just right.” Although you referred at least in part to the BDSM
mantra, SAFE, SANE and CONSENTUAL, I would, if I
may add one more thing to this list. FUN, If you aren’t
having FUN, you’re not doing it right. Domolder was also correct when he also said, “Be discerning.”

On the down side, if there is indeed one? Prince Albert tried to say, “many Doms that are really wannabes.” Certainly a very good reason to be discerning; however,
since there is no a credited course to be a Dom/Domme,
no university masters or Ph.D program. The question has
to be asked, “What constitutes a competant Dom?” Especially when everyone has there own idea of what is
right or wrong, vanilla or kinky,

Yes Dani, I would love to chat, and perhaps play with you.
If you’re interested please feel free to write to me.

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Dannyluvsu13
07-15-2014, 11:51 PM

Submission is earned
BDSM. At first I just thought it was an out of the norm way to have "mind-blowing" sex, but it's more than that. It's not abuse or slavery either (to each his own for RP though). It's a way to give part of yourself to another human being and, in essence, a way to say "I trust you". It's crazy to think that as a submissive you are giving up all the power to your Dominant or Master 24/7, because not only are they not super human, but you allowing Him control is power in itself that only you have. A good foundation to begin this lifestyle, and it IS a lifestyle, stems from communication and a mutual understanding of what the other person wants. Throw around terms like "safe word", "protocol", "kinks", "fetish", and "collar" and it's fairly easy for people, like myself, to get overwhelmed.

I admit that I have just brushed the topic and still have a lot to learn, but I also know that this is something I am interested in. I can be hard-headed, hormone-driven, super shy and downright playful/immature or naughty at times, but I'm also very sincere about this. Half of the time I'm not sure if I just want some rough sex and desire brief servitude or am really cut out for BDSM. At such a young age I think it's hard to know what I want for sure, and luckily I have all the time in the world to explore (some people are into grandmas, right?). I'm eager to please and learn.

Let me know what you think! An online D/s relationship, friendships, mentor/teacher feel free to message me if interested in that; I am open to it all. PM, kik (Dannyluvsu13), yahoo (daniluvsu13), Skype (daniluvsu13), email (Dannyluvsu13@aol.com)
-Daniella (Dani)

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Dani,

You have it, already. Your description is just right.

Don't worry about the definitions and names, just enjoy and be enjoyed.

Find someone to trust as you describe...bit be discerning.

- - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - -

I am sure that you will find many Doms that are really wannabes, but don't give up. There will be the perfect Dom for you out there some where. I wish you the best of luck.
TK

 

[Dannyluvsu13]

Greetings Dani

As domolder posted, “Your description is just right.” Although you referred at least in part to the BDSM
mantra, SAFE, SANE and CONSENTUAL, I would, if I
may add one more thing to this list. FUN, If you aren’t
having FUN, you’re not doing it right. Domolder was also correct when he also said, “Be discerning.”

On the down side, if there is indeed one? Prince Albert tried to say, “many Doms that are really wannabes.” Certainly a very good reason to be discerning; however,
since there is no a credited course to be a Dom/Domme,
no university masters or Ph.D program. The question has
to be asked, “What constitutes a competant Dom?” Especially when everyone has there own idea of what is
right or wrong, vanilla or kinky,

Yes Dani, I would love to chat, and perhaps play with you.
If you’re interested please feel free to write to me.

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You've interested me a lot with your reply. So much so that I will take you up on that offer to chat. You'll have a PM waiting for you the next time you log in.

 

[standingmare]

hello my dear

let me not start as others while you spoke many words I see they were superficialy spoken as you have not said what you want other than to give your self over my personal belife is a dom should see you as more than a piece of meat and it should be as lover mentor trust being all in such I would like to talk with you far more I also belive it to be a mind body spirt development and know in such their is no top to the reach it is a contumium of beterment of both parties lives so I would enjoy talking with you more