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[pumpkinluv]

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[AmberLGreen]

Meh! Penetration isn’t all it is cracked up to be.

You hang on to that virginal tightness. It will be worth a fortune by the time you are in your 40’s

 

[Horny_Royale]

With my ex, it took multiple sessions, and plenty of foreplay, before penetration became comfortable for her. We definitely still had our fun without penetration, and in the end she was able to get comfortable

 

[JackVettriano]

I just really want to be fucked sometimes. I use my showerhead to cum almost everyday. But I always have an ache for something to be inside of me. I've tried fingering myself but it's not very comfortable. It's so tight in there, it feels more like an examination than anything sensual. I think my hymen may still be in tact? My ex boyfriend and I tried to have sex, but he only got some of the tip in before I told him to stop. It was too uncomfortable and tbh, I didn't really like him that much. I've had sex with a girl friend of mine a few times, it's very casual. We get high sometimes and do stuff. I've penetrated her, but I haven't let her penetrate me. I guess that's why I still feel like a virgin.

As much as I do just wanna get it over with, intimacy is my biggest turn on. Having a deep emotional connection would be ideal for me. The times I have done stuff, I've never really been able to just enjoy it. I just want someone who I'm truly comfortable with. Someone I trust. Someone who is really attracted to my body but also me. I have a fantasy of guys jerking off to me. Thinking I'm so hot they can't control themselves.

I don't really know why I'm saying all of this here. I guess cos I don't really know who to talk about this with.

An honest, say it as it is post.
I like it, you don’t see many of them on here. You know the fact you can talk it through, makes you a very attractive lover. You will find if you can communicate your feelings,
Your needs and your desires, over time you will find a wonderful lover that understands you. Take it slow and enjoy the ride

 

[phil97405]

I just really want to be fucked sometimes. I use my showerhead to cum almost everyday. But I always have an ache for something to be inside of me. I've tried fingering myself but it's not very comfortable. It's so tight in there, it feels more like an examination than anything sensual. I think my hymen may still be in tact? My ex boyfriend and I tried to have sex, but he only got some of the tip in before I told him to stop. It was too uncomfortable and tbh, I didn't really like him that much. I've had sex with a girl friend of mine a few times, it's very casual. We get high sometimes and do stuff. I've penetrated her, but I haven't let her penetrate me. I guess that's why I still feel like a virgin.

As much as I do just wanna get it over with, intimacy is my biggest turn on. Having a deep emotional connection would be ideal for me. The times I have done stuff, I've never really been able to just enjoy it. I just want someone who I'm truly comfortable with. Someone I trust. Someone who is really attracted to my body but also me. I have a fantasy of guys jerking off to me. Thinking I'm so hot they can't control themselves.

I don't really know why I'm saying all of this here. I guess cos I don't really know who to talk about this with.

I like it! You're very brave and honest, and you're made yourself vulnerable with this post. Cheers to you! ...Oh, and you do sound hot. just like in your fantasy! If you'd like to chat with someone about this, feel free to PM me.

 

[Kitty_so_frisky]

I just really want to be fucked sometimes. I use my showerhead to cum almost everyday. But I always have an ache for something to be inside of me. I've tried fingering myself but it's not very comfortable. It's so tight in there, it feels more like an examination than anything sensual. I think my hymen may still be in tact? My ex boyfriend and I tried to have sex, but he only got some of the tip in before I told him to stop. It was too uncomfortable and tbh, I didn't really like him that much. I've had sex with a girl friend of mine a few times, it's very casual. We get high sometimes and do stuff. I've penetrated her, but I haven't let her penetrate me. I guess that's why I still feel like a virgin.

As much as I do just wanna get it over with, intimacy is my biggest turn on. Having a deep emotional connection would be ideal for me. The times I have done stuff, I've never really been able to just enjoy it. I just want someone who I'm truly comfortable with. Someone I trust. Someone who is really attracted to my body but also me. I have a fantasy of guys jerking off to me. Thinking I'm so hot they can't control themselves.

I don't really know why I'm saying all of this here. I guess cos I don't really know who to talk about this with.

I guess I mostly clicked because I was a 21/F Chubby Latina/Asian once upon a time (like 20 years ago )

After having read your post, I have to ask: that time your ex-BF tried to penetrate you, were you wet? Even if you’re tight, being well-lubricated can help a TON.
Also, FWIW, if that did happen to be the case: if a man can’t get you wet first, he probably shouldn’t be trying to stick his dick in you

Next question: are you familiar with the term “demisexual”? If not, the gist of it is that people who are demisexual can only feel sexual attraction to people with whom they have a strong emotional connection. I don’t know you well enough to say whether that applies to you or not, but from your post, it sounds like that might be something worth researching. If, upon researching and reflecting, you think it may apply to you, you can find online communities that can help in adapting and learning to handle certain situations.

Either way, there’s no rush. If you want to wait for someone with whom you have a connection and to whom you are attracted, you absolutely can! If you want to keep enjoying non-penetrative fun with men and/or women, you can do that too!

 

[subdudeme13]

I guess I mostly clicked because I was a 21/F Chubby Latina/Asian once upon a time (like 20 years ago )

After having read your post, I have to ask: that time your ex-BF tried to penetrate you, were you wet? Even if you’re tight, being well-lubricated can help a TON.
Also, FWIW, if that did happen to be the case: if a man can’t get you wet first, he probably shouldn’t be trying to stick his dick in you

Next question: are you familiar with the term “demisexual”? If not, the gist of it is that people who are demisexual can only feel sexual attraction to people with whom they have a strong emotional connection. I don’t know you well enough to say whether that applies to you or not, but from your post, it sounds like that might be something worth researching. If, upon researching and reflecting, you think it may apply to you, you can find online communities that can help in adapting and learning to handle certain situations.

I wonder if she found someone? I hope she did but one post and gone is not a positive sign.

 

[RoanMtn]

...intimacy is my biggest turn on. Having a deep emotional connection would be ideal for me.

Me too. It makes the physical act that much more special. There is nothing wrong with sex for the sake of sex, but it does come up short when no "deep emotional connection" is a part of it.

 

[Yarglenurp]

They have a label for this now… demisexual. I’d bet that like… 70%+ of humans are demisexual to some degree. I’d bet good money that 90%+ of women are demisexual. It’s why erotica for women is often called “romance” novels and erotica for men is relegated as porn.

 

[Mrtenant]

I just really want to be fucked sometimes. I use my showerhead to cum almost everyday. But I always have an ache for something to be inside of me. I've tried fingering myself but it's not very comfortable. It's so tight in there, it feels more like an examination than anything sensual. I think my hymen may still be in tact? My ex boyfriend and I tried to have sex, but he only got some of the tip in before I told him to stop. It was too uncomfortable and tbh, I didn't really like him that much. I've had sex with a girl friend of mine a few times, it's very casual. We get high sometimes and do stuff. I've penetrated her, but I haven't let her penetrate me. I guess that's why I still feel like a virgin.

As much as I do just wanna get it over with, intimacy is my biggest turn on. Having a deep emotional connection would be ideal for me. The times I have done stuff, I've never really been able to just enjoy it. I just want someone who I'm truly comfortable with. Someone I trust. Someone who is really attracted to my body but also me. I have a fantasy of guys jerking off to me. Thinking I'm so hot they can't control themselves.

I don't really know why I'm saying all of this here. I guess cos I don't really know who to talk about this with.

with only this single post to work with, and it being the only thing you ever posted, I wonder at your commitment towards sexual gratification of self at the very least.

You want penetration. Then do it. Don't be so wishy washy. Go and get raw dogged and have a great time. Timidity will not get you there. Dig deep and let that primal urge run free.

Time waits for no one. There will come a day when you no longer can get fucked or have no desire for it or both. Live and enjoy the experience while you can.

 

[Xxllrs69xx]

I just really want to be fucked sometimes. I use my showerhead to cum almost everyday. But I always have an ache for something to be inside of me. I've tried fingering myself but it's not very comfortable. It's so tight in there, it feels more like an examination than anything sensual. I think my hymen may still be in tact? My ex boyfriend and I tried to have sex, but he only got some of the tip in before I told him to stop. It was too uncomfortable and tbh, I didn't really like him that much. I've had sex with a girl friend of mine a few times, it's very casual. We get high sometimes and do stuff. I've penetrated her, but I haven't let her penetrate me. I guess that's why I still feel like a virgin.

As much as I do just wanna get it over with, intimacy is my biggest turn on. Having a deep emotional connection would be ideal for me. The times I have done stuff, I've never really been able to just enjoy it. I just want someone who I'm truly comfortable with. Someone I trust. Someone who is really attracted to my body but also me. I have a fantasy of guys jerking off to me. Thinking I'm so hot they can't control themselves.

I don't really know why I'm saying all of this here. I guess cos I don't really know who to talk about this with.

Sex is great. Foreplay is even better.

 

[Mike130]

I guess I mostly clicked because I was a 21/F Chubby Latina/Asian once upon a time (like 20 years ago )

After having read your post, I have to ask: that time your ex-BF tried to penetrate you, were you wet? Even if you’re tight, being well-lubricated can help a TON.
Also, FWIW, if that did happen to be the case: if a man can’t get you wet first, he probably shouldn’t be trying to stick his dick in you

Next question: are you familiar with the term “demisexual”? If not, the gist of it is that people who are demisexual can only feel sexual attraction to people with whom they have a strong emotional connection. I don’t know you well enough to say whether that applies to you or not, but from your post, it sounds like that might be something worth researching. If, upon researching and reflecting, you think it may apply to you, you can find online communities that can help in adapting and learning to handle certain situations.

Either way, there’s no rush. If you want to wait for someone with whom you have a connection and to whom you are attracted, you absolutely can! If you want to keep enjoying non-penetrative fun with men and/or women, you can do that too!

That’s pretty interesting, the part about being wet. When I was in college, we had a party with a bunch of nurses we knew in our apartment building. Got a bit drunk and was about to have sex with one. Well, I was hard, but it just wouldn’t go in all the way. First egomaniac thought, as a guy, would be it was because I’m sooo big, but the truth is, I’m just average size, and as I recall, she was pretty dry. As far as an emotional connection, we were friends before and after the encounter, but never a romantic connection. Thanks Kitty for your insight. I think you clarified things for a few people with your post.

 

[Kitty_so_frisky]

That’s pretty interesting, the part about being wet. When I was in college, we had a party with a bunch of nurses we knew in our apartment building. Got a bit drunk and was about to have sex with one. Well, I was hard, but it just wouldn’t go in all the way. First egomaniac thought, as a guy, would be it was because I’m sooo big, but the truth is, I’m just average size, and as I recall, she was pretty dry. As far as an emotional connection, we were friends before and after the encounter, but never a romantic connection. Thanks Kitty for your insight. I think you clarified things for a few people with your post.

Not everyone needs an emotional connection to have sex, but enthusiastic consent should always be a thing…and hopefully enough skill to get an enthusiastic response from her body first too.

 

[naughtyishaan]

Me too. It makes the physical act that much more special. There is nothing wrong with sex for the sake of sex, but it does come up short when no "deep emotional connection" is a part of it.

Not just that ..... You won't even have the freedom to try different things. Suppose on certain day you just want to get finger fucked..... without emotional connect it would come weird to him and even if he accepts to do but wont satisfy the itch

 

[naughtyishaan]

Not everyone needs an emotional connection to have sex, but enthusiastic consent should always be a thing…and hopefully enough skill to get an enthusiastic response from her body first too.

Kind of hard when we men only tend to look for our needs..... Once the cum is out we tend to forget else

 

[pumpkinluv]

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[tommyt125]

UPDATE: I FINALLY HAVE WHAT I WANT.

A few months after posting this, i entered into a serious relationship with a guy i had been dating. Our first time was honestly way better than I thought it would be. We were able to go multiple rounds and it was amazing.

Since then, we have become animals lol. We are usually able to see each other 3 times a week and we have sex at least twice every time. It's been incredible. We love to roleplay and dirty talk. The taboos really turn me on and thankfuklly he likes them too. I never thought my sex life would ever be so good. And so filthy. But it has been a dream come true.

I recently got an IUD and we had unprotected sex for the first time on his birthday. Finally, I got to feel his cum inside of me. I am so so happy.

I hope everyone who feels like I did gets this too.