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[PleasePeesMe]

The longer I go without sex with my wife (medical reasons, not her fault), the more I'm interested in cock. In fact, I only masturbate to cock porn now, always imagining I'm the one sucking.

 

[PleasePeesMe]

I'm sure you're right.

 

[little cletus]

The longer I go without sex with my wife (medical reasons, not her fault), the more I'm interested in cock. In fact, I only masturbate to cock porn now, always imagining I'm the one sucking.

Absolutely. If I haven’t had sex with my wife in a week my fantasies become almost exclusively gay. I’ll jack off in the shower thinking about being spit roasted.

 

[BiDrew42]

When I was younger, I preferred males and females and, when I became aware of them, trans females, mostly equally. I would go through periods where I preferred one more than the others - for instance, when I first arrived in Miami I went though a period when I only wanted to have sex with Hispanic males, and when I first got divorced, I only wanted to have sex with trans females. As I have gotten older, I find I mostly prefer having sex with trans females and males. I do love having sex with females, but the opportunities have diminished as I've aged and the amount of effort required has increased. If I feel an overwhelming need for a female, I usually engage a prostitute or escort.

 

[storypost603]

I go back and forth. I have not had sex with a male in 40 years and really want to have a same sex connection again. I have thought about it for the last 40 years but i am married and because of my job i just did not have any chance of connecting with another male. My wife knows about my one and only in my past and i have stared to engage in crossdressing and she knows about and is part of our sex sometimes. I had her pegged me but I really want the real thing and I think she knows that. Also our sex life has slowed as i guess most couples do. So yes i do want to have sex with her but I do think about Cock a lot of the time.

 

[Pines]

As an older male who has bisexual interests, I find that those interests wax and wane. Sometimes I am so more interested in cock than pussy, sometimes more pussy than cock, and sometimes either (or both) will do. Does anyone else fluctuate like that? And if so, where are you in that continuum now?

I also am an older male and mainly hetero. I'm fortunate to have a older girlfriend that is still very much interested in having sex. That still doesn't stop me from wanting some M/M play. I especially would like mutual masturbation and mutual oral. These urges come and go, probably depending on how horny I am at the moment. Right now I'm horny.

 

[J1biboi]

I have considered myself to be bisexual for as long as I have known there was such a term because from a young age I had the urge to and wondered what it would be like to suck a cock. I finally got suck my first cock in my mid twenties, and it was good. Having said that, pussy has always been my preference, but there have been times though my life that the urge to suck cock has been really strong, especially in my later life. So, yes in my case it does fluctuate.

 

[JudyCD]

I have the same fluctuations

 

[hungryboytoy]

It's usually same sex porn and fantasies, but in real life it's fairly 50/50 who I'm attracted to.

 

[dodgeboy2]

Mine ebbs and flows also, now I am a married man who hasn't been with another guy since I married my wife. I considered myself to be gay or at least I thought that since early on I had only been with guys and didn't date girls, shy decent looking guy that just early on fit in with girls. However once I came out of my shell I found I loved girls also. Had a period of time being with both, girls openly and guys secretly as it was the 70's and coming from a strictly Catholic Italian homophobic family them finding out was a definite no.

So back to the ebbs and flows, there are times I think about sex with woman and many time I daydream about being with men, although my go to porn when I am not daydreaming is almost exclusively gay or bi with one woman and multiple men!

 

[swflabimale]

I go through a thought processs that creates trigger points for me. My bisexual side comes roaring back and I'm game for anything..... the only problem is it's not happening. I have dwelled on past experiences that really get me going, several friends, my cousin, my brother, my nurse when I was younger, a gay ex-neighbor.

One trigger point was an advertisement for cut-proof sleeves that cover your arms from your fingers to well over your elbows.(something I need for yardwork) My wife asked what they were and when I told her, she agreed that I needed them to keep me from becoming a bloody mess. I scrolled down the ad and there were a ton of ads for straps, ball gags, harnesses, and a bunch of sexually oriented items. Neither of us said anything for a minute and then I broke the silence. "Where were these things 30 years ago when we would have had a whole room full of them?" And her reply was "You know, I was just thinking the exact same thing, it would have made our sex-lives much more interesting...... although a lot of it would have been used on you." So, she remembers... that was a point where she was searching out extracurricular sex, (with my approval), and wanting to involve me in bi sex and if I resisted, bondage....... which allowed her to take that extra step.

 

[Jeph77]

I am also older and my sexual interests fluctuate and ebb and flow. Sometimes I want more sex and sometimes less. The older I get the less I have to have sex. Whether I want pussy or dick also fluctuates. I've always enjoyed pussy more but sometimes I just want dick. Pussy will not alleviate that desire.
Right now I want to suck cock and swallow cum.

Given the option,I'll chase pussy evey time, for the emotional and romantic satisfaction. But cock fires my imagination more. I can subsume my normal orientation and take on fantasy roles, if I'm lucky enough to find friends with similar flights of fancy.

 

[Edey]

I think basically I'm just gay, but was forced by my traditional upbringing to date women, I started with that, but it was always like being aroused at 30%, while when I had my first gay sex at 19 y, it was like 100%. So crazy, 5 hours of being almost permanently hard, haha.
But I still call myself bisexual because I'm able to have sex with a woman, but it's not what is most tempting, something is missing. I just like looking at dicks ejaculating.

I'm most attracted to feminine men, trans women, femboys. That's why I call myself bi (pan, demisexual), because I like most what's in the MIDDLE - halfway between masculinity and femininity. I love crossdressers! The whole person can be 100% feminine, but has to have a dick. That's perfect for me

 

[haventdonethat]

I also am an older male and mainly hetero. I'm fortunate to have a older girlfriend that is still very much interested in having sex. That still doesn't stop me from wanting some M/M play. I especially would like mutual masturbation and mutual oral. These urges come and go, probably depending on how horny I am at the moment. Right now I'm horny.

This could be me. GF is highly sexual and should be enough to keep me satisfied. BUT, my mind sometimes wanders to times in the past when I had a cock in my mouth.

 

[J1biboi]

I think basically I'm just gay, but was forced by my traditional upbringing to date women, I started with that, but it was always like being aroused at 30%, while when I had my first gay sex at 19 y, it was like 100%. So crazy, 5 hours of being almost permanently hard, haha.
But I still call myself bisexual because I'm able to have sex with a woman, but it's not what is most tempting, something is missing. I just like looking at dicks ejaculating.

I'm most attracted to feminine men, trans women, femboys. That's why I call myself bi (pan, demisexual), because I like most what's in the MIDDLE - halfway between masculinity and femininity. I love crossdressers! The whole person can be 100% feminine, but has to have a dick. That's perfect for me

I have those same attractions!

 

[CharlieBoker]

Yep, me too.
Sometimes I'm gay as fuck and obsessed with cock.
At other times it's all about the feel and scent of a woman.
As much as I loved sucking cock and getting fucked, I still desire tits, ass and pussy.
No pattern, it is what it is.

 

[tristantrotsky]

I love men. Only date men. But homo porn turns me on. Frot vids are hot. And I cum watching trib vids. I fantasize about tit sucking and vice versa.

I adore oral sex. Oral sex is what turns me on. Cock or pussy. Pussy and cock. Sixty-nine is just about the perfect fusion of erotic energies...

 

[Kellieskirt]

For me it's when wearing panties or getting the chance to dress up or if I have watched any CD or sissy captions or video then omg want to be the girl on my knees ect

 

[Bisexguy70]

As an older male who has bisexual interests, I find that those interests wax and wane. Sometimes I am so more interested in cock than pussy, sometimes more pussy than cock, and sometimes either (or both) will do. Does anyone else fluctuate like that? And if so, where are you in that continuum now?

Im right there with you. Right now I need tenderness and softness of a woman.

 

[Bisexguy70]

Yes. And if she happens to have a dick, that's good too.

Thats a bonus for sure

 

[Jeph77]

Thats a bonus for sure

It's an absolute windfall.
Or at least a blowjob.

 

[roseburgsteve]

Yep, me too.
Sometimes I'm gay as fuck and obsessed with cock.
At other times it's all about the feel and scent of a woman.
As much as I loved sucking cock and getting fucked, I still desire tits, ass and pussy.
No pattern, it is what it is.

I have to agree with you on this. Even though as of late I been more gay. I still get hard seeing mycwifes tips and her pussy. Very seldom I might even get to still taste her but not very often. But I do love both women and men

 

[Greytruck]

My interest in cock comes and goes.
of course pussy is number one but that’s just not happening for me.
wife physically can not do it..
so I’ve gravitated to cock over years .
have found other married men need just what I need.
a lot of us out there

 

[Excitabletom]

Again, this "porn site" acts as a support group! I see it many times on many subjects; it confirms that we are not alone in our yearnings and perversions! Imagine if any of us were going through what we are talking about now without the aid of the internet, we would think we were were the only ones with these thoughts.

That being said, I come and go through bisexual phases and urges. I go a long time without cock to enjoy, then I really, really want one to suck and play with. Usually, I'm then back to enjoyig the safe and cuddly expereinces of being happily married.