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[TheGirlwiththeGay]

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[Always5]

Yes

Yes, that would be the time to stop, make sure your partner is OK.

 

[klippert]

Yes...and the next day I would suggest we stop drinking....

 

[Muwarr90]

I can't think of many things that would be less arousing than an unconscious sexual partner.

 

[phil1955]

Doesn’t sound appealing to me plus I think I would have to put that in the plain wrong category.

 

[phil1955]

I only mean couples. Maybe me and hubby are more familiar with each other than some couples.

If two people are OK with it, that is fine with me. If my wife was asleep, I would miss half the fun soI would rather wait.

 

[CandK_inSE]

With couples, if consent has been given previously, I guess that’s okay. I do know of some who are okay with sex with a sleeping partner. I really don’t think it’s a good idea to keep going if your partner passes out from alcohol or drugs.

If it’s a hookup, you better stop.

 

[Hans101]

Fell asleep?

If someone is so drunk that she passes out during sex then that's a medical issue.

 

[J_Bone]

If she passed out, I would stop for sure more out of concern than anything as others have mentioned.

And not sure if you'd classify it as sleep sex per your question, but many, many times over the years we've both woken up in the middle of the night and been all over each other to widely varying degrees of activity and ended up having really wild sex. It's like it starts while asleep with a hand placed in just the right spot and with an unconscious but intuitive touch....but hard to know for sure since we were asleep. Then you come to and you're in the midst of it. Started back when the kids were little and either one or both of us were too exhausted when we went to bed only to be going at it 3 or 4 hours later.

Funny thing is we always just go right back to sleep afterward, but then discuss and laugh about how the hell it got started and who the initiator was the next morning.

 

[BBCfan]

Me and hubby have joked about it after I say "I'm too tired" lol. It wouldn't bother me as long as he didn't wake me up at some stupid hour.

Is sleep sex a thing for some couples? Drunk or not.

My wife loves getting fucked while asleep. I basically have a green light anytime she's asleep if I desire.

I think it plays into her forced sex fantasy a bit in a very safe way.
She says she's kinda aware at times, like in a pleasure filled dream.

It doesn't happen a lot.
At first it was a bit wierd and uncomfortable as I'm not getting lots of direct feedback...but I now enjoy it in a slow sensual fuck way, edging myself with her pussy for as long as possible and to try and give her fun pleasure filled dreams while she sleeps.

 

[FGB]

Had a ex once that would get horny in her sleep about three in the morning. I would wake up with her ass rubbing my crotch.

Sometimes a leisurely fuck, sometimes a Quicky. Sometimes a leisurely fuck would turn in a hard ass pounding.

Next morning...Wow! I had the wettest dream last night!

Um...you wouldn't happen to be horny this morning would you?

God Bless the man that invented Cialis!

 

[oneblueye]

hey ...

Me and hubby have joked about it after I say "I'm too tired" lol. It wouldn't bother me as long as he didn't wake me up at some stupid hour.

Is sleep sex a thing for some couples? Drunk or not.

If it was my wife no, I'd finish first. She always told me if she ever did fall asleep while we were having sex to just go ahead and finish if I had to --, and I've had to a couple of times over the last forty plus years.

If it was someone I was intending to see again other than my wife, then yes, I would stop.

 

[peterthelicker]

Many years ago my first wife and I on many occasions would spontaneously wake up during the night and have passion filled hard kiss filled fucks!

They were always fun.

 

[magicalmoments]

If my partner passed out drunk while we were shagging I'd finish. Certainly wouldn't stop. Then I'd invite my mates over and give them a go as well.

 

[stickygirl]

The OP has said 'partner' so I'm assuming this is an established relationship, because we politely describe such a relationship as 'sleeping with someone': an expression that implies consent, intimacy and fucking. People do weird things when they're half asleep, like sleep-walking, so sleep-fucking shouldn't be anything unusual in a physiological sense. I guess if you can walk out in the yard and stay asleep you can have sex too.

There's a difference between taking advantage of someone because they are drunk and not able to give consent AND 'fumbling around after a meal out with friends, both having too much wine, collapsing in bed and she falls asleep during sex' because the guy is not in a position to make a reasoned judgement.

ETA
Yes, there's a rape/consent angle to this. I understand the legal consent aspect and the OP has intentionally? been a little vague: did they start having sex, both drunk, with mutual consent OR was she ( I guess possibly he ) drunk, flat out and did not give/could not give consent at the outset? Different things

 

[MohanSingh]

Rapey questions but every relationship is different

 

[littlecordelera]

If someone gets drunk, they've already lost my interest.