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In search of that unicorn we all seek when what we are looking for is less attainable in everyday life, and sometimes never at all.

I am looking for my Dominant. Having been out of the submissive lifestyle for over ten years, I have tried easing back in and am finding it rather difficult to find that right connection. I know I'm not the only one. Why was I gone so long? I got carried away on the crazy train of life and lost part of myself along the way, which I have recently reclaimed.

I'll provide personal details to someone whom I connect with. For now, I am a 35 year old female with a family. I have a demanding profession, which is partially why I crave submission, but certainly not the only reason.

Mental and physical connection is important to me. I am not looking for a one time hookup. I would prefer someone local, or at least someone willing to travel, as I am looking for someone I can actually get to know in person- I am from Ohio.

This person needs to be aware that I have an ongoing medical issue, which I have posted about previously here: http://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=1504918

If this is something you cannot deal with, or are unwilling to understand how it affects me then please move on now.

What I am not looking for is an online D/s dynamic. It feels fake to me. Ideally I want to know you in real life if possible. Are my expectations too great? Probably.

It would be nice to share some similar interests and humor. I am in real life, very easy going, calm, artistic, with a wicked sense of humor, and very high sex drive. I don't claim to be beautiful but am comfortable in my own skin. With the right person I think this could be quite lovely but I will not begin a sexual relationship of any kind until we have gotten to know each other and have built trust.

This isn't my first time posting. I have been burned and mislead in the past which makes me skeptical of others intentions initially. If you think it's worth your time and you've made it to the end, please feel free to send a note and we'll see where it goes.

I certainly cannot meet you since my own wife is very handicapped with MS and I am very busy taking care of her and unwilling to cause her pain by having a real life affair.
Pity you are not interested in an on-line relationship as I am a dominant Master, but I at least wanted to say hello and wish you the best under your circumstances.
 
Hello sally how are you, I’m not from Ohio but can easily travel

I'm doing well, thanks.

I certainly cannot meet you since my own wife is very handicapped with MS and I am very busy taking care of her and unwilling to cause her pain by having a real life affair.
Pity you are not interested in an on-line relationship as I am a dominant Master, but I at least wanted to say hello and wish you the best under your circumstances.

I am very sorry to hear about your wife and can completely empathize. Thank you for saying hello.

Sally Good luck with your search I hope you find the right one real soon

Thank you. I appreciate it!
 
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