——— The Sybian from the woman's POV ———

[garyblue]

* Is the Sybian an actual orgasm generator?

Since I don't have a Sybian, nor do I know anyone who does (or will admit to
it), I'd like to hear from women who have actual experience in using one. I
don't trust stories or vids written by or targeted at men.

** Can it cause arousal without pre-existing condition?

Is it possible to 'force' an orgasm? Or, at least improve sexual
responsiveness? Please discuss the various "tools" and how you use them.

*** The vaginal/clitoral insert
**** Longer, deeper penetrator
***** Effect of speed
***** Length of time

**** Shorter G-spot throbber
***** Effect of speed
***** Length of time

**** Clitoral vibrator
***** Effect of speed
***** Length of time

*** Anal insert

Do you use the anal insert? At all? Often, or now and again? What does it
add to your enjoyment?

**** Different sizes
***** Effect of speed
***** Length of time

** Multiple orgasms

Do you commonly have multiple orgasms when using your Sybian? Were you
multi-orgasmic before the Sybian or did you become so with the Sybian? If
the latter, what were your methods towards becoming multi-orgasmic?

** Other comments

Please add anything you think might improve my understanding of the machine
and its uses.

* Purpose of this post

I hope to use a Sybian as a part of a story of training a submissive. The
submissive is in her mid forties and is sexually repressed. She has been
topping from the bottom for twenty years or so. She realizes she's
submissive, but as you can imagine is set in her ways. Her husband hopes
the protagonist can do something for both of them.

I am open to suggestions that will improve on the realism of the characters.
We are already having to suspend disbelief. I hate for bullshit to slip in
and throw the few believable things under the bus.

Thanks,

gary

//edit: Thanks to the mod who moved this post to a more appropriate topic. I debated and then (obviously) chose the wrong one (BDSM) ~g

 

[Carnevil9]

Well I'm not a woman and I've never actually used a Sybian, but I was at a party once where somebody had brought one along. All I can tell you is that there was a looooong line of women queued up to give it a whirl. And all that did LOVED it!

 

[garyblue]

Thank you, Carnevil9

I appreciate your reply. That is my general impression. However, without the details from the woman's POV, I cannot write a realistic scenario. For example, what does extended vibration do? Increase erogenous sensitivity, or cause numbness or pain?

You could do me the favor of asking the ladies that attended that party to write of their experience with the machine. I have no doubt that it works to cause arousal. What I need is the how of it. Without the detail that provides life to the story, I will have to omit the Sybian rather than share my ignorance.

The guys might not know or care that I get it wrong, but my (longish) story tries to deal honestly with female submission. To lie through ignorance is to do a disservice to my female readers.

Please, any women with personal experience on the Sybian, post about what you discovered about your own reactions to the machine; the good, the bad and ...

gary