AliceBarker
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I am a 36 year old wife. I married my husband 8 years ago, but a monogamous relationship, given to one man for life, is sexually unnatural.
I want to make it clear that a relationship is based especially on the desire to be with that man.
That really is Love, a feeling that can be for our whole life, if we continue to love each other, especially as people, extending until after the death of one of the two, because whoever remains without the other, will continue to love and think about he always. I love how he is, and he feels with me, better than with any other woman.
But that is only one part of the whole of our relationship, although it is the Main one.
I have changed over the years, he too. I am not referring to a physical change, the real change is at the level of taste for doing things that we used to do together and now one of us does not care.
The hormonal changes in both of us do not stop, we change slowly but unstoppably and then the moment comes when only one of us is still interested in intense, new and different sex, feeling and trying new things, new sex variables. , fantasies that we want to experience, but that he or I do not want to try.
I am a very sexually active woman. For me, having sex frequently or regularly is necessary to feel alive and desired.
From that moment on when the sexual tastes, frequencies and desires, they are distancing themselves in the priorities of both.
One of the two becomes frustrated and the relationship becomes monotonous, repetitive like a job or an obligation.
Our solution to those hormonal changes and desire to experience new unknown sensations within sex, to realize those sexual fantasies that one of the two, longs for many years, if we are both sincere and therefore, only as a sporadic fun, like playing to golf, to go shopping, to buy a new car or a wish, which is just that, a wish, totally outside the permanent love relationship between the two.
Having sex with anyone we want, for whatever reason, to feel new sensations (we are all different having sex, and that is fantastic).
From having that window of Freedom that we generously grant each other, and always with the knowledge of the other (at least in the main - it is not bad to hide a part of what we have felt - as something intimate and not to disturb our Real couple, our husband!
To have the freedom to experience any (or almost) kind of sexual experience with another person or group who wants the same thing as me) exhibitionism, group sex, interracial sex, being fucked in an exciting gang-bang, attending parties by myself, exhibiting my sensual body and sharing it with other men and women, it is not bad at all, nor should it affect it, it strengthens it because we are both happier in our love, based on mutual trust in the other member of the couple.
I am happier like this,, fulfilling my hidden desires but without hiding them from him (deception should not be given) always the sincerity ahead.
That makes both my husband and I, we are happier, because he sees me happy, being able to open myself to those fantasies and sexual desires.
We are both happier because I am also aware that he needs his personal space where he can feel happy and free!
Such a relationship, if it is anything, is pure generosity to the person we love for our only permanent life partner.
Forcing the other to sacrifice their wishes and illusions only leads to estrangement and in many cases to divorce, when the situation is tense and unbearable.
Forgive me, husbands and wives, that I have lengthened my personal vision of a good relationship as a couple, happy and for life.
I would appreciate all the husbands and wives, who tell me their vision on "Granting the Necessary space to our Couple"
Between all of us we can see not my position in which I believe, we can see a more general situation, about what most couples think. Hugely grateful for reading, your friend Alice and my husband Brad, wishing you much happiness as a couple. Alice
Note: You can ask us any questions you may have about
our way of conceiving the partner for life, if you wish.
You ask both me and my loving husband Brad.
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https://imagizer.imageshack.com/v2/511x684q90/r/921/s7EG8d.jpg
I want to make it clear that a relationship is based especially on the desire to be with that man.
That really is Love, a feeling that can be for our whole life, if we continue to love each other, especially as people, extending until after the death of one of the two, because whoever remains without the other, will continue to love and think about he always. I love how he is, and he feels with me, better than with any other woman.
But that is only one part of the whole of our relationship, although it is the Main one.
I have changed over the years, he too. I am not referring to a physical change, the real change is at the level of taste for doing things that we used to do together and now one of us does not care.
The hormonal changes in both of us do not stop, we change slowly but unstoppably and then the moment comes when only one of us is still interested in intense, new and different sex, feeling and trying new things, new sex variables. , fantasies that we want to experience, but that he or I do not want to try.
I am a very sexually active woman. For me, having sex frequently or regularly is necessary to feel alive and desired.
From that moment on when the sexual tastes, frequencies and desires, they are distancing themselves in the priorities of both.
One of the two becomes frustrated and the relationship becomes monotonous, repetitive like a job or an obligation.
Our solution to those hormonal changes and desire to experience new unknown sensations within sex, to realize those sexual fantasies that one of the two, longs for many years, if we are both sincere and therefore, only as a sporadic fun, like playing to golf, to go shopping, to buy a new car or a wish, which is just that, a wish, totally outside the permanent love relationship between the two.
Having sex with anyone we want, for whatever reason, to feel new sensations (we are all different having sex, and that is fantastic).
From having that window of Freedom that we generously grant each other, and always with the knowledge of the other (at least in the main - it is not bad to hide a part of what we have felt - as something intimate and not to disturb our Real couple, our husband!
To have the freedom to experience any (or almost) kind of sexual experience with another person or group who wants the same thing as me) exhibitionism, group sex, interracial sex, being fucked in an exciting gang-bang, attending parties by myself, exhibiting my sensual body and sharing it with other men and women, it is not bad at all, nor should it affect it, it strengthens it because we are both happier in our love, based on mutual trust in the other member of the couple.
I am happier like this,, fulfilling my hidden desires but without hiding them from him (deception should not be given) always the sincerity ahead.
That makes both my husband and I, we are happier, because he sees me happy, being able to open myself to those fantasies and sexual desires.
We are both happier because I am also aware that he needs his personal space where he can feel happy and free!
Such a relationship, if it is anything, is pure generosity to the person we love for our only permanent life partner.
Forcing the other to sacrifice their wishes and illusions only leads to estrangement and in many cases to divorce, when the situation is tense and unbearable.
Forgive me, husbands and wives, that I have lengthened my personal vision of a good relationship as a couple, happy and for life.
I would appreciate all the husbands and wives, who tell me their vision on "Granting the Necessary space to our Couple"
Between all of us we can see not my position in which I believe, we can see a more general situation, about what most couples think. Hugely grateful for reading, your friend Alice and my husband Brad, wishing you much happiness as a couple. Alice
Note: You can ask us any questions you may have about
our way of conceiving the partner for life, if you wish.
You ask both me and my loving husband Brad.
https://imagizer.imageshack.com/v2/667x684q90/r/923/2EIBBJ.jpg
https://imagizer.imageshack.com/v2/511x684q90/r/921/s7EG8d.jpg
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