Female Use of Strap Ons - Purchase Advice

My wife wants to use a Strap on, on me. Im not gay let alone bi, but find the idea quiet erotic. She wants to try to feel more of what it must be like for me to feel as I fuck her and wants me to feel what its like to be her.

She wants me to purchase it for her. I am looking for advice from women that have used strap ons. There are a boat load of Strapons out there. Are there any styles or brands that you have found more comfortable and more erotic than others? I have thought to find her a style that has a double end to it so she can experience satisfaction at the same time to her. Is it better to find one with an anal plug or a small dild for her enjoyment?

Any other suggestions or thoughts we should be aware of?

Thank you.

First of all, did you see this thread? http://www.literotica.com/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=77579

plzur her said:

I am looking for advice from women that have used strap ons. There are a boat load of Strapons out there. Are there any styles or brands that you have found more comfortable and more erotic than others? I have thought to find her a style that has a double end to it so she can experience satisfaction at the same time to her. Is it better to find one with an anal plug or a small dild for her enjoyment?

Any other suggestions or thoughts we should be aware of?

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I have a strap-on harness and a couple of dildos in different sizes that go into it. I did a lot of investigation before i bought mine, trying to determine what would last, what were the good and bad points about different brands, worknmanship, materials, etc.

For my needs, anything with elastic (legs bands or waistband) was quickly eliminated. Since it wasn't going be purchased to be used primarily as something i'd don to pose for pics in, any elastic would take too much of a beating over time and wear out, almost definitely at an inopportune moment.

Additionally, there seemed to many chaep harnesses out there made of plastic or thin vinyl or something. Again, this bit of equipment was gonna be used to play rough; it had to be of quality materials.

I wanted it to be fully adjustable in case someone else wanted to wear it, too.

The harness i finally purchased came from the Stockroom (http://www.stockroom.com/j013.htm), the place at which i get most of my online toys. I recommend it without hesitation as being of very good quality and having lasted quite well despite some of the rough use it's been put to.

I prefer to buy toys of higher quality; this harness is more expensive than many. I really believe, however, that if you buy higher quality toys, then you don't have to rebuy them very often so you save money in the long run. And since i'm in this for the long run...

Feel free to email instead of post if you desire, always interested in chattin with females whom prefer to dominate their partner (m or f).

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Did you happen to have a look at our all-new and right-out-in-open Forum Rules as you came in the door? They're here: http://www.literotica.com/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=81138

I consider your above statement as edging very close to what is not permitted here in terms of personals ads. Please don't post anything like this again.

Thank you,
cym
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Welcome to Lit, plzur her.

I encourage you to read through some of the threads as there is a wealth of information here.

and cym, thanks for the advice on the strap on... seems that Himself has put me in the market for one and I really like the harness at the stockroom.

cellis said:

and cym, thanks for the advice on the strap on... seems that Himself has put me in the market for one and I really like the harness at the stockroom.

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My pleasure, cellis. And may i offer a little tip? If this particular harness is adjusted just right, the flared plastic base of the dildo it's holding will bang up against your clit with every stroke!

re strapon fun

Hi all,strap on fun is good you have a good lady there,she obviously wants to pleasure you,my partner and i love strap on sex,my guy just wanted to know what it felt like.I agree with all the above you need a good strong one as they do take a beating i have several but have all been bought in uk so cannot advise for usa,ask your lady if she wants to have the peni pantie sort that fill har pussy and anus,if you can talk about strap on sex she surely will tell you what she fancies,then both of you get out there and buy one or two,after all you are both going to get tremendous pleasure from them,enjoy.

cymbidia said:

My pleasure, cellis. And may i offer a little tip? If this particular harness is adjusted just right, the flared plastic base of the dildo it's holding will bang up against your clit with every stroke!

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Oh my that is just what i was going to ask you.... another question if you know... does the Nexus model fit it... I saw one on goodvibes.com and love it (althought 85.00 for a dildo does seem like a lot).

Thanks cym, you are ever the queen of the subs!

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cymbidia said:

I consider your above statement as edging very close to what is not permitted here in terms of personals ads. Please don't post anything like this again.

Thank you,
cym
Forum Moderator [/B]

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CYm, My apologies, it was not intended as noted by you and will not appear in the future. Thank you for the observation.

Bump.