Face slapping

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one of the things i like is for my husband to slap me during play. he doesn't try to knock my teeth out or anything, nor does he slap me full force. i was talking with a friend about this and she told me that i needed to seek professional help because i was being abused and i am just unable to recognize it.

i do not agree with her. what do you all think?
 
kittyinbondage said:
one of the things i like is for my husband to slap me during play. he doesn't try to knock my teeth out or anything, nor does he slap me full force. i was talking with a friend about this and she told me that i needed to seek professional help because i was being abused and i am just unable to recognize it.

i do not agree with her. what do you all think?
I think it's your friend that needs the counselling if she is unable to comprehend anything but missionary sex. Face slapping is just a small slice of fun
 
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From the way you phrased things, I take it that the face slapping is completely concentual. Therefore, you're friend is not correct in her assumetions. I would say, as a bit of advice, in the future, do not talk with her about these things. I doubt she will ever understand them.
 
Evaleastaristev said:
From the way you phrased things, I take it that the face slapping is completely concentual. Therefore, you're friend is not correct in her assumetions. I would say, as a bit of advice, in the future, do not talk with her about these things. I doubt she will ever understand them.
yes it's concentual. you're right in that i shouldn't talk about these things with her, but she brought it up so i assumed it was ok to talk about. now i know better. i was left sort of wondering if others might see it as abuse, too.
 
Here's the classic thread on this subject:

Face Slapping

You'll find LOTS of opinions here on the subject....

Not to kill your thread of course. *grin*

But, you may want to check it out.

Personally, tell your friend to read my sig line. The point being, whatever you and and your partner do consentually between yourselves that makes you hot, more power to you.

Face slapping rocks my world. So much so that it's part of our greeting ritual when I get home in the afternoon from work. It's one of those things that immediately puts me in a submissive frame of mind, no words, no bullshit, no ifs, ands, or buts.

We likes it.

~anelize
 
Welcome to the board kitty.

Please see the following links for more discussion on the subject of face slapping and degradation/humiliation which you might find enlightening.

However, feel free to continue your current discussion as well. Fresh commentary is always welcome.

lara

Face Slapping

Degradation and Humiliation
 
AnelizeDarkEyes said:
Here's the classic thread on this subject:

Face Slapping

You'll find LOTS of opinions here on the subject....

Not to kill your thread of course. *grin*

But, you may want to check it out.

Personally, tell your friend to read my sig line. The point being, whatever you and and your partner do consentually between yourselves that makes you hot, more power to you.

Face slapping rocks my world. So much so that it's part of our greeting ritual when I get home in the afternoon from work. It's one of those things that immediately puts me in a submissive frame of mind, no words, no bullshit, no ifs, ands, or buts.

We likes it.

~anelize

What this lady said ... laughs

lara
 
Personally, it sounds to me like the wrong person is getting slapped:)

I love the kind of arrogance which treats people who make choices and find pleasure in different lifestyles as "vicitms."

I had a friend who told me I had been brainwashed and "recruited" because I liked to kiss other girls.

I was blind to what these people were doing to me.

Turns out I was just a perv :)

Keiko
 
Freaks & Wierdos...

That'd be us. ;) Ask Bytor. He thinks you're abused, and probably sick in the head. We love him- he is fun to ridicule.

Slapping? Hothothot. Wish my Master thought so. I guess it's kinda like the thing prostitutes have about kissing the customers- Sex is not across the line, but never on the lips. Likewise, many folks seem to have a subliminal association between face-slapping and abuse/shame/disgust. Funny- to me it seems like a pretty mild chastisement, compared to a cane across the ass...
 
Careful

The problem with other people sharing their comments is that sometimes they DON'T KNOW THE REST OF THE STORY
which is that it is consensual.

But, as always, be careful, and remind him of the same!

Good Luck!
 
Just thought I would poke my head in and say that I have a deep liking for the occasional face slap.

I find it incredibly hot and sharply sexy.

Does it matter what somebody thought of your personal act that you share with your SO?


Warmly Stephanie :p :rose: :p
 
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