Spitting in their face or mouth

ukgal22

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Spitting

In most adult videos of a BDSM theme their seems to be more and more face spitting both on the face and and even in the open mouth......... so what do others think ?

do they like this?

Have they done it or had it done to them what feelings did it give ...
 
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purrrs and swishes tail :cathappy:

shockingly erotic? i dont think there are words that describe it.
first time it was done to me it was unexpected...for the first three seconds i had to fight with all i had to not get up and deck the person only because that would have been the expected reaction for most ppl ...then a kinda calm realization of this being exactly what i need came over me, and i loved him all the more for knowing that. :)
 
Kajira Callista said:
purrrs and swishes tail :cathappy:

shockingly erotic? i dont think there are words that describe it.
first time it was done to me it was unexpected...for the first three seconds i had to fight with all i had to not get up and deck the person only because that would have been the expected reaction for most ppl ...then a kinda calm realization of this being exactly what i need came over me, and i loved him all the more for knowing that. :)

So did he spit in your face, or in your mouth?

Has it happened since then? What's your reaction been like after the first time, if so?
 
RawHumor said:
So did he spit in your face, or in your mouth?

Has it happened since then? What's your reaction been like after the first time, if so?
face. ive been spit on in many more places since then. the reaction was dependant on when it was done but basically i would say...calm acceptance. :)
 
Kajira Callista said:
face. ive been spit on in many more places since then. the reaction was dependant on when it was done but basically i would say...calm acceptance. :)

So it does excite you, but on a baser level than some more obvious types of stimulation?
 
It's one of those exchanges of bodily fluids useful for transmitting STDs... so handle with care.
 
That's what I do instead of kissing. Know how you can kiss mean or sweet like feeding a baby bird? Same thing.
 
Wow, I've never been spat on. I've been pissed on, and been forced to drink piss, but never spat on. I think I find pissing more intimate than spitting, because the urine has gone through the top's body...then again spit is created by the salivary glands.

I'm not sure it's something I'd be interested in, though. Should I ask to try it and see?
 
Etoile said:
Wow, I've never been spat on. I've been pissed on, and been forced to drink piss, but never spat on. I think I find pissing more intimate than spitting, because the urine has gone through the top's body...then again spit is created by the salivary glands.

I'm not sure it's something I'd be interested in, though. Should I ask to try it and see?


YES!
 
rosco rathbone said:
Some times I wonder what goes on in that head of yours.

:D
Wow, thank you! I take that as a compliment. :D

And yeah, I admit that the line you quoted does come across as kind of strange. I can make things make all kinds of weird sense in my own head. :)
 
Re: Spitting

ukgal22 said:
In most adult videos of a BDSM theme their seems to be more and more face spitting both on the face and and even in the open mouth......... so what do others think ?
Sounds way up there on the humiliation scale.
ukgal22 said:
do they like this?
The PYL, or the pyl? i can't think of a better "slap in the face" to get someone's attention. The receiver would never see it coming ...
 
spitting......

I stopped in the bulletin board to do a little reading this morning; I'm always interested in learning everything that I can about the various thoughts and ideas regarding the D/s lifestyle. I read the question with a bit of a queasy stomach and the answers with an ever-increasing sense of unease.
Surely first anything done within the confines of a relationship with one's Dom/me is their own business; if another sub chooses to surrender to being spat upon with calm acceptance, I am not going to tell them they should do otherwise. However, this is not about my preaching; it is about my opinion.
The idea disgusts me. Not because I wouldn't accept anything my Dom chose to extend to me. I would, and He knows this. It is because I know my Dom well enough to know that He would find it disgusting and degrading as well, and that He would never choose to do anything with or to me that degraded me.
I wonder sometimes if W/we hear O/ourselves talking about the lifestyle. Being urinated on? Drinking urine? How does that make U/us better than a dog, marking his territory? The thing that I love most about my relationship with my Dom is that O/our relationship is an INTELLIGENT one. A thinking one. Of course it is sexual and emotional and about domination and submission as well, but it is all those things taken to the highest human level, where spitting and going to the bathroom on other people are hardly supportable. Am I the only one thinking this?
 
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ladyphoenix said:
Of course it is sexual and emotional and about domination and submission as well, but it is all those things taken to the highest human level, where spitting and going to the bathroom on other people are hardly supportable. Am I the only one thinking this?
First, to each their own.

Read the various threads about mindfucks.

Try reading the threads here.

i don't know what goes on between you and your PYL, but i'm quite sure some in the vanilla world would think the two of you hadn't taken "it" to the highest human level either. Some would condemn you for not assuming the missionary position and only that position for coitus. Others would think you no better than animals for engaging in any kind of sex save for the purpose of procreation.

Be very careful out here in the deep end. This ain't the kiddie pool, although i'm sure said kiddie pool has more piss and spit in it than you'll ever find here.
 
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ladyphoenix said:
I wonder sometimes if W/we hear O/ourselves talking about the lifestyle. Being urinated on? Drinking urine? How does that make U/us better than a dog, marking his territory? The thing that I love most about my relationship with my Dom is that O/our relationship is an INTELLIGENT one. A thinking one. Of course it is sexual and emotional and about domination and submission as well, but it is all those things taken to the highest human level, where spitting and going to the bathroom on other people are hardly supportable. Am I the only one thinking this?
Okay, I'm done wincing at the caps pattern. I think I can respond now.

I'm surprised that you assume those of us who do engage in pissplay etc. do not have intelligent relationships. Everybody expresses their emotions in a different way. For some dominants, that means using piss for humiliation (which I take it you believe isn't of the "highest human level"). To me, it's hardly supportable that you would make such statements. You seem to be judging other people based on what they enjoy within their own relationships that do not involve you. How can you assume that my relationship isn't intelligent and even intellectual?

AA put it very well. Be careful making such judgmental statements on your third post in the BDSM Talk/Cafe area.
 
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AngelicAssassin said:
Be very careful out here in the deep end. This ain't the kiddie pool, although i'm sure said kiddie pool has more piss and spit in it than you'll ever find here.
Bwahaha! Very, very well said. :D
 
Gosh and honesty

Gosh, I am surprised at the number of people I have met who wanted to be spit on (usually women) and some women who wanted a golden shower. I have always said . . . "happy to oblige."
I absolutely love E when she admits to drinking piss and then says it is very intimate. Yeow, I guess it is indeed inmtimate and I give her cerdit for her honesty. That, being said, I have always refused women when they begged me to pee in their mouths. Just me I guess!
 
Lady: Being urinated on? Drinking urine? How does that make U/us better than a dog, marking his territory? The thing that I love most about my relationship with my Dom is that O/our relationship is an INTELLIGENT one.

A thinking one. Of course it is sexual and emotional and about domination and submission as well, but it is all those things taken to the highest human level, where spitting and going to the bathroom on other people are hardly supportable. Am I the only one thinking this?



Well, dogs don't drink pee, so it's above the dog, a sign of a higher level, to do so.

However I note dogs aren't really *disgusted* with anything-- look at what they enjoy smelling-- shit and animal corpses. They sometimes eat shit.

So anything that *plays upon disgust* is highly human and NOT like a dog.

Are you the only one disgusted? No. Indeed many proclaim to be disgusted with blow jobs (and swallowing); and not a few are disgusted with simple fucking.
 
Re: Gosh and honesty

fallon2 said:
Gosh, I am surprised at the number of people I have met who wanted to be spit on (usually women) and some women who wanted a golden shower. I have always said . . . "happy to oblige."
I absolutely love E when she admits to drinking piss and then says it is very intimate. Yeow, I guess it is indeed inmtimate and I give her cerdit for her honesty. That, being said, I have always refused women when they begged me to pee in their mouths. Just me I guess!
You're quite welcome. I find it easier to be honest than to hide parts of myself. It's not the choice for everyone, but around here (and online in general) I am pretty much who I say I am.
 
Reply to Pure

Pure,
Interesting comments to be sure. However, we cannot compare dogs and humans. What turns one on is . . .exactly that it turns one on. If Etoile begged me to pee in her mouth I personally would not yet it gives her pleasure to accept that from the one she loves/trusts/doms her.
I am never disgusted what humans request . . . but I decide what will happen and once I decide that then it happens or the sub chooses to or not. Usually, I know whatshe wants, needs or desires.
Etoile, again I love your honesty. Your Daddy is a lucky lady.
 
I have to toss the spare change of my thinking into the ring here (as well as enter the mixed metaphor competition). 'Tis time to rally around "freedom of choice" flag. The one hoisted on high next to "freedom from judgment".

Anyone self-righteously squeamish shouldn't even open a thread called "spitting in their face or mouth", much less blithely contribute a "aren't this people disgusting?" post. In fact, they should be banned from literotica for life. No, they should be tied down to a stake while a pair of well-watered St. Bernards -

Oops. Almost turned into the enemy there. Caught myself just in time.

There seems to be some idea abroad that people into BDSM have to speak softly and not bring up certain "practices", lest the vanilla world invade our cyber castle with farm implements and flaming brands. Uh, I thought the whole idea here was to encourage uncensored revelation among compassionate, like-minded individuals in the service of greater understanding. Of course, I could be wrong.

Personally, as a (mostly) Dom I find spitting & pissing arousing if it arouses the sub. Though for "spitting and pissing" you could substitute "just about anything" to get to the core of my twisted being.

Disgusting, but there it is.
 
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