Face Spitting

rosco rathbone

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This is the real deal--heavy humiliation play.

Not for everyone.

But to spit in someone's face is such a glorious method of expressing contempt. And for some of us twisted fucks; contempt and orgasms go hand in hand (on either side of the equation).

Or a spit in the open mouth....expectoration as analogue for oral ejaculation.....or to come in a mouth with the same venomous force with which a man spits on the sidewalk to show contempt and anger.....
 
i think we sort of covered this in the SMACK thread, but it's always worth revisiting.

Not even contemptuous ... more of a labelling of another as lesser; beneath contempt actually. To show another this kind of disregard is to raze them to the ground on a psychological level. At one point or another, through person-to-person comparison, life altering events, etc., we've measured our self-worth. To allow a person to take our sense of self (take as in control, mold and twist) and deem it lacking on a basic human plane ... well, that is beyond debasement, it's dehumanizing. And while it may seem immoral or even evil, it meets the needs of those who want objectification in the extreme. What an attractive thought.

lara
 
Spitting really doesn't do anything for me whatsoever. It doesn't turn me on to be spit at or on, and it doesn't humiliate me.

It is kinda gross. :D But that's about it.
 
While I've never ACTUALLY experienced this, I HAVE had it suggested to me during phone sex, and I have to say, that it got me VERY hot.. with that particular person.. he mentioned spitting both on my face, and into my mouth, as you have mentioned, and my GOD, it was hot.


Unless I'm that riled up, though, I don't think I could get into it.
 
Yes, rr, contempt. I agree with that. Maybe not universal but perhaps nearly so --"I spit on this/you/ etc."

J.
 
In my mind there are two kinds of face spitting: one is the contemptous, sidewalk kind of spitting you're all talking about.

The other is not really contemptous, mostly just possessive and intimate. It says, "I can spit on your face because everything about you belongs to me," and can be accomplished as easily by a wet lick or hard, open-mouthed kiss as well as by a direct expectoration. It reminds me a little of the way a mother sometimes spits on her thumb or hankie to rub a smudge from her child's face.

They're both hot.
 
Queen Bee said:
In my mind there are two kinds of face spitting: one is the contemptous, sidewalk kind of spitting you're all talking about.

The other is not really contemptous, mostly just possessive and intimate. It says, "I can spit on your face because everything about you belongs to me," and can be accomplished as easily by a wet lick or hard, open-mouthed kiss as well as by a direct expectoration. It reminds me a little of the way a mother sometimes spits on her thumb or hankie to rub a smudge from her child's face.

They're both hot.

Right on, babe. Mother hankie point is dead accurate.

I've done the intimate, sweet kind too. The best is the weird combination of the two.
 
sunfox said:
Spitting really doesn't do anything for me whatsoever. It doesn't turn me on to be spit at or on, and it doesn't humiliate me.

It is kinda gross. :D But that's about it.

Eenteresting.

It wouldn't be humiliating to you under any circumstances???

You might be one of those disgustingly well-adjusted folk.

Now evil minds are wondering wot it would take to get your goat; not that I expect (orate) you to spill the beans here.....
 
i find being spat on in the face or in the mouth to be not so much humiliating, as degrading. for some the two may be one and the same, but i see a thick black line between the two...degradation is what makes me feel lesser, lower, inferior to the extreme. humiliation is simply embarassment to an extreme degree. being spit on or in degrades me. it is not something Daddy has done much, but occasionally he has spat onto my face or more often into my mouth...those big hocking loogies that sound and feel so gross, and that serve as such a harsh reminder of my place in the world. only one or two other men have ever spat on my face...i think it takes an especially cruel and/or especially unfeeling Dominant soul to do such.
 
ownedsubgal said:
..i think it takes an especially cruel and/or especially unfeeling Dominant soul to do such.

Really??

Weird. It comes easy to me, but a lot of the stuff you describe your man doing seems a lot more hardcore.
 
My spitoon activities usually involve a lot of begging pleading and whining for Mistress' precious spit.

*shrugs*

I'm so easy.
 
hm

that is very interesting.

as soon as i was begged for it, the fun would go right out of that one, just like that. *snaps fingers*
 
I know.

Because you're a contrarian like that.



To me, the idea of hocking a loogie into someone's mouth is inherently so perverse I don't care if it's "forced" or whatnot.
 
rosco rathbone said:
Really??

Weird. It comes easy to me, but a lot of the stuff you describe your man doing seems a lot more hardcore.



maybe most other things are more "hardcore" physically, but emotionally speaking things like being spat on effect me in a profound way. and i actually believe that may be why Daddy does not do it much, he might think it would make me feel TOO bad on a repetitive basis. then otoh, perhaps i would become accustomed to it and the degradation effect would be lost. who knows.
 
rosco rathbone said:
Eenteresting.

It wouldn't be humiliating to you under any circumstances???

You might be one of those disgustingly well-adjusted folk.

Now evil minds are wondering wot it would take to get your goat; not that I expect (orate) you to spill the beans here.....

No.. it really doesn't bother me. Other than the girly 'ick' factor.

I am a bit disgustingly well-adjusted, I'm afraid. But I'm a corn-fed farm girl, and all spitting makes me think of is a farmer chewing his tabaccy :D

However, I'll freely admit that there are a lot of things that can rile/upset/humiliate me hugely. This just isn't one of them.
 
I'd have to go with Sunfox on the ick factor being far higher than any humiliation. But I have kind of a "spit thing". Strangely it's not generally a problem with lovers ---- when you're going hot and heavy the fluids fly and who really cares? ---- but I have a hard time eating off the same spoon or fork as a family member never mind sharing a straw or something. And just the thought of having somebody drop a loogey in my mouth makes me gag.

Hmmmm.....maybe it's just family spit? I mean, family spit and then any chewy spit regardless of relation.


-B
 
Is family spit a bit incestuous?

:D


Bad joke, I know.

Spitting isn't in my repertoire. I much prefer face slapping to achieve many of the same things.

And actually, I am just stopping in to see how far rosco's thread can go without become a flame fest of the two factions of D.s philosophies.

:D
 
I'm not sure what it is. I mean, my family is close and we're not physically inhibited with one another. Heck, we kiss on the mouth, but something about family spit is just too too. I'd be less uncomfortable swapping spit with my dog......as long as it wasn't that long, ropey spit.

okay, now I'm really grossing myself out.

-B
 
sunfox said:

However, I'll freely admit that there are a lot of things that can rile/upset/humiliate me hugely. This just isn't one of them.

Do share.

Otherwise, the private eyes and pinkerton dicks of R.O.S.C.O. will don their fedoras and trench coats and set to work.
 
bridgeburner said:
I'm not sure what it is. I mean, my family is close and we're not physically inhibited with one another. Heck, we kiss on the mouth, but something about family spit is just too too. I'd be less uncomfortable swapping spit with my dog......as long as it wasn't that long, ropey spit.

okay, now I'm really grossing myself out.

-B

Ya, my grandfather used to kiss us on teh lips and they were always those wet ones...no tongue, just wet.


Blech.

Spit just seems too unsanitary to make anything good come from it with the exception of french kissing.

And wet french kisses are gross too. You know, teh kind where you have to wipe your face off after being kissed?

:D
 
rosco rathbone said:
Do share.

Otherwise, the private eyes and pinkerton dicks of R.O.S.C.O. will don their fedoras and trench coats and set to work.

I would never dream of hijacking your thread with things unrelated to spitting though... especially if not answering means the P.I.s will be watching. Then I can indulge my exhibitionist streak. :D
 
i knew i'd seen this somewhere else.

Miss T, or kittycat ... think you can combine this thread and this?

yeah, yeah, yeah ... i like things orderly ... shoot me.
 
wanting or accepting someone spitting on your face is fucked up!! end of story.....bottom line...if you like it you have problems...

seek help quickly...
 
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