How to...get over it already!!!

PinkOrchid said:
EXCEPT: Menstruation, periods, bloody cunts. Why the hell can't people address that directly. It really wierds me out to read all the things I do on this board and then come a cross a reference to a woman's "monthly visitor" or "aunt flo" or "that time of the month." I suddenly feel like I'm among a bunch of adolescents who are embarrassed to mention menstruation directly.

I don't mind discussing it. To quote Dave Foley's old Kids in the Hall routine, I am a guy with a GOOD ATTITUDE TOWARDS MENSTRUATION! :D
I too welcome monthly proof that the rubbers didn't leak ;)
Nothing wrong with a little blood, I have my red wings (with clusters!) several times over.
In fact, one of the kinkiest sex acts I've ever been part of involved menstruation.
So whattya wanna say about it?
LOL
 
Rant heard... agreed to....now just wishing that for that very dear friend who loves making love amidst the warm inviting blood to move closer. :)


But you're right...for some reason people...or some people...can't think of periods as just another bodily function....like a heart beating.
 
Ironic you started this thread today, PO. I started my period just this week. Guess you could say I'm open for discussion about it...
 
Say, since we're talking about this, do you ladies find you need extra lube during the lower-flow days, especially if your partner's using a condom?
I've found it can dry rapidly on the latex and make it "tacky" as I move in & out.
 
Re: Re: Re: How to...get over it already!!!

PinkOrchid said:
So you're just going to tease us and not give us the details????? You could at least IM me about this ;)

Oh, I'll tell the world :D
Me & the psycho ex were going at it hot & heavy one day
She was right in the middle of her period, heavy flow day
We'd both gotten pretty messy with it rolling around & playing, being very rough, biting, scratching, etc
She rolled me on my back and jumped on top and just started absolutely fucking the HELL out of me
She played with her clit while I tugged her nipples & she came hard twice.
Then I said I was about to come, and she jmped off and started to suck me. I said "Baby, I'm all bloody!' She said "SO?" and proceeded to swallow me whole (she normally didn't deep throat).
She sucked me dry & licked me clean then came up for a kiss.

That was some AMAZING sex :D
Hell, I'm hard now just thinking about it *sigh*
(P.S., she had no cramps for the next 2 days)
 
Re: Re: How to...get over it already!!!

James G 5 said:
I don't mind discussing it. To quote Dave Foley's old Kids in the Hall routine, I am a guy with a GOOD ATTITUDE TOWARDS MENSTRUATION! :D
I too welcome monthly proof that the rubbers didn't leak ;)
Nothing wrong with a little blood, I have my red wings (with clusters!) several times over.
In fact, one of the kinkiest sex acts I've ever been part of involved menstruation.
So whattya wanna say about it?
LOL
Move over airborne ... Jumpmaster coming thru.
 
wicked woman said:
Rant heard... agreed to....now just wishing that for that very dear friend who loves making love amidst the warm inviting blood to move closer. :)


But you're right...for some reason people...or some people...can't think of periods as just another bodily function....like a heart beating.

I believe most men hold the view that 'if it (menstruation) doesn't happen to me, it can't be good/healthy/normal.' However, I should make it clear that I'm not most men. In fact, I'm an owl! :)
 
Owlz said:
I believe most men hold the view that 'if it (menstruation) doesn't happen to me, it can't be good/healthy/normal.' However, I should make it clear that I'm not most men. In fact, I'm an owl! :)

Sort of like that guy bumper sticker that says "Don't trust anything that bleeds for 7 days but doesn't die"??
 
Originally posted by Owlz
I believe most men hold the view that 'if it (menstruation) doesn't happen to me, it can't be good/healthy/normal.' However, I should make it clear that I'm not most men. In fact, I'm an owl! :)

I hear you Owlz, but how would men feel if women felt the same... I mean we don't ejaculate....well a lot of us...and certainly not from a cock!


Yes and an adorable owl you are.
 
Personally, I masturbate like crazy when I am on my period cause nothing aside of Vicadin helps more with the cramps. I have never, ever had anyone go down on me or fuck me when I was on my period though. N says he likes it, but lucky me I started taking Depo shots and now I don't have one anymore :) so it is a non issue.
 
PinkOrchid said:
<sigh>

If I didn't like you so much, I'd have to rip your throat out over this.

A little nibbling is OK, ripping the throat out is a bit much :D
And I didn't say *I* felt this way, I was addressing someone else's point about this :p
 
PERIOD.

it always seems strange to me that something that is basically a cleansing process, ie shredding the blood buildup of of the uterine wall can be considered by some to be so unclean.
 
I lost my virginity on the last day of my period ... he didn't seem to mind, and i know i didn't but i will admit to pushing him away while on my period because i felt "unclean" ... course i think i was just being hormonal.
 
that didn't make sense quite ... at other times, i have pushed him away while on my period because i felt "unclean" or just not in the mood but that was me being a weird hormonal female ... i hope that makes more sense
 
I've never understood why people get so grossed out about menstration, periods etc. Dh doesn't care we still have sex while I'm having a period. I'm usually more horny right before and at the end of my period. Great to see some men that don't mind it. ;) :D
 
wicked woman said:
I hear you Owlz, but how would men feel if women felt the same... I mean we don't ejaculate....well a lot of us...and certainly not from a cock!


Yes and an adorable owl you are.

...and a beautiful, sexy woman you are, wicked woman.
 
Re: PERIOD.

Noor said:
it always seems strange to me that something that is basically a cleansing process, ie shredding the blood buildup of of the uterine wall can be considered by some to be so unclean.

Well, in the sense that a lot of people are squeamish about blood in general, it makes perfect sense to them to be squeamish about the menses. As for me, I used to love watching a cable TV show about the E. R. called 'Trauma Center' because, given my own personal history, I've seen a lot of blood. Sure some stuff on that show got to me at that particular moment, but I never had nightmares about the show (not saying anyone has nightmares about a woman's period, though).

Anyway, I've rambled on enough. You all get my point.

Owlz
 
PinkOrchid said:
This is a bit of a rant, so leave now if you're not into it.

People talk about ALL kinds of things on this board. Cunts, cocks, ass fucking, fisting, licking come from cocks, floors, assholes, mouths, snowballing. Squirting pussies, good tasting pussies, bad tasting pussies. How to make a headboard suitable for bondage or a stripper pole for your bedroom. Cucumber-cunt salad. Nipple clamps, cock rings, gangbangs, teabagging, dirty Sanchez, DP, ginger up your ass. You name it, we can talk about it.

EXCEPT: Menstruation, periods, bloody cunts. Why the hell can't people address that directly. It really weirds me out to read all the things I do on this board and then come a cross a reference to a woman's "monthly visitor" or "aunt flo" or "that time of the month." I suddenly feel like I'm among a bunch of adolescents who are embarrassed to mention menstruation directly.

<SNIP>


I always thought you were a god. Now I'm sure of it. ;)

I have met TWO MEN in my sexual years who were not repulsed by the thought of me being on my period. One of them just didn't give a damn, but he was sure to immediately clean up afterward, and he got this awful look on his face if I asked him to wait five minutes before he climbed in the shower. As if that would scar him for life. :rolleyes:

The other one...well, I'm marrying HIM, so you can bet he has no hang-ups. ;)

Yet getting him to go down on me while I'm on it...well, we haven't broached that yet, but I would be okay with his decision one way or the other. I mean, I'm sure there are things that I don't want to do. I haven't found them yet, but I'm sure there is something...somewhere...maybe.

Menstruation one of the most natural things about a woman's body. It amazes me that so many "kinky" and "unusual" things are embraced in sexuality, but when it comes to something that is literally as natural as the turning of the tides, heaven forbid it be considered "normal".

Good rant, dear. :)

S.
 
One of the most wonderful things anyone ever said to me was "I love you all the time, not part time" when I explained that I'd probably have my period the first time we got together. This is after years of being made to feel "unclean" whenever I was menstruating, my ex has a real problem with menstrual blood even though he is a farmer and works with disgusting things every day :rolleyes:

I had to rethink my entire attitude to having sex when I'm on my period. Initially I was embarrassed and self conscious but now I've had a couple of other lovers who don't seem to mind, we put a towel down and shower together afterwards and it's somehow even more intimate when we're washing the blood off each other! Sometimes if it's really heavy I don't want to have vaginal sex so I leave the tampon in and we find "other" ways to pleasure each other........:D
 
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