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Speaking of virgins...

How was your first time?

  • Horrible!

    Votes: 32 15.7%

  • Great!

    Votes: 54 26.5%

  • Not too bad.. but not too good either

    Votes: 78 38.2%

  • Not there yet

    Votes: 40 19.6%
  • Total voters
    204
I was 18, and sick of being a virgin. I'd broken up with my "first love" (ie my puppy love) who I had planned to lose my virginity to, and was heartbroken. So I was introduced to this new guy by a well meaning friend who didn't realize he was an asshole.

So he gets me over to his place and starts fooling around with me. Shrug...I kinda go with it, and I was feeling embarrassed about being an 18 year old virgin (gasp).

We have sex, and there were several issues

1. There was anime playing in the background, forever putting me off anime...which isn't easy to explain when you date geeks
2. It lasted only 15 miinutes or so start to finish
3. He got pissed that I bled on his sheets
4. I was kinda freaked out, and when I reached for my underwear I knocked over a candle (the lone candle for "mood") making him even more angry because I got wax on his shirt.
5. He went downstairs to get me a "glass of water" and when he came up acted like a friend had called and was coming over
6. Said friends did come over
7. He was only about 4 inches erect...and the ocean had little motion if you know what I mean.


Yeah...sucked. I even was going "so why are people so hyped about this?"


Luckily two weeks later I ended up in bed with R, who was about 8 inches, and was the first guy to go down on me. And suddenly I understood why people would want to have sex.
 
I just lost my virginity a couple months ago (at age 18, 19 now) with my boyfriend of 8 months (at the time, more months now :)). We were both virgins, same age, both in our first serious relationship. It was definitely great. My roommate was gone for the night for some reason, and we were fooling around. We had been talking about it for a while and he said he had a condom so I figured, alright let's do it. He's 8 inches and thick so it hurt a bit at first but me on top seemed to fix that after about 5 minutes. We went all over the room trying so many different positions, for almost two hours, it was amazing. No bleeding, very little pain, an overall wonderful way to get started. :D



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I was too young to mention here, I was curious. I did it with my best friend, it was alright but I didn't think it was worth the risks involved though. We used foam and condoms.

The guy I wanted to do it with, who was also my first kiss at age 12, was too catholic at that point, with him I would have felt differently, he could make sitting in a dark squash court just talking be fun! he was a birthday gift from another friend.
I haven't seen him in almost 20 yrs but I can still remember how he smells ;)

anyway a few years later it was much more interesting.
 
I was too young, he was 18. I don't regret losing my virginity to him, I just regret I was so young; he was my first boyfriend, my first kiss, my first love. We ended up being together off and on the next four years and he was always there for me. The sex got better the more we had. Unfortunately, I have a tendancy to block things out, so I do not remember my first time exactly.
 
Hmmmm

AttentionWhore said:
I was too young, he was 18. I don't regret losing my virginity to him, I just regret I was so young; he was my first boyfriend, my first kiss, my first love. We ended up being together off and on the next four years and he was always there for me. The sex got better the more we had. Unfortunately, I have a tendancy to block things out, so I do not remember my first time exactly.
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I was 18. I'd been going with this guy for about 9 months. He was a jerk and just wanted in my pants as it turns out. Anyway we got drunk one night in a drive in(? uh huh) and he ended up getting me in the back seat while we were parked in the drive way of my parents house.

First time in a back seat and last. He was a total dud. Pump... Pump... Squirt. That was it. The whole thing left me wondering if sex was even worth bothing with.

I found out a few months later is was ;)
 
idoyoganaked said:
... how was your first time?
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I was fifteen and he was twenty-two... we'd been together for eleven days (yup, eleven whole days!) and I just knew that he was the one I wanted to lose my virginity to. It wasn't something that I ever questioned, just something I accepted eagerly. We were downstairs at around one in the morning on our huge leather sofa and we were kissing and cuddling... he asked me if I wanted him to 'slip it in' and I begged him to. So he put on a condom and held me and pushed inside of me (didn't hurt at all) and it only took me about one minute to go into complete hysterics, lol. I started shaking uncontrollably because I was so nervous and started to cry. But he was wonderful... pulled out and held me and kissed me and stroked my hair... kept saying, "You're my girl, I love you, you haven't done anything wrong." It may not have been a mindblowing sexual experience but it was great because it showed his love for me... and we're together now and the sex is very very lovely :D.

Dunno if that is an acceptable story because I was under 18 but *shrugs* it still happened that way, lol.
 
Should have split the pool by sex; male - good, female - OK, etc.
 
I was in college. Expected the first time to be both better and worse, and it was really kind of no big deal. After, my thought was "Oh ... is that it? What's all the fuss about?"

Happily, the experience eventually improved ;)

Sabledrake
 
I was 19 and very sexually niave. I was at my boyfriends house. we met online and had met only twice in the flesh before.

He gave me an all body massage and we had sex..it was amazing!

Maybe that explains why i married him a few years later and we'll be on our 3rd wedding anniversary very soon :D
 
Mine was horrible, and it was my fault... I was drunk, horny 18 and it was prom night, my fairly new girlfriend had thrown me a private party at her place with her roommate... in the middle of the night after quite a bit of foreplay, we finally got around to the actual act.
Unfortunate the motion was a bit much for my alcohol filled stomach, and I ended up trowing up on the floor beside her bed... ruined the mood completely.

Luckily, after paying to dryclean her bedspread, being extreemely contrite and hang-doggish for a week or so, I managed to talk to her seriously for about an hour, and convinced her that I was serious when I said that"she had seen my worst, Now let me show you my best" I guess she kinda like me or something because I wasn't thrown out on my ear and we ended up dating for a little over two years, during which I redeemed myself many times.
 
I was too young to mention here. I had been in a relationship for a while with a much older man. He took his time, let me take the lead, and built us up to a wonderful, incredible first time for me. No regrets whatsoever. The sex was fantastic. It was intimate, caring, and everything good lovemaking should be.

I was very, very lucky. And very loved. :)

It is still one of my best memories.

S.
 
Without wanting to hijack the thread (oh well, Im going to ask anyway) ... How old is too young?
 
soapstar said:
Without wanting to hijack the thread (oh well, Im going to ask anyway) ... How old is too young?
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I think it depends on the individual, people mature at different ages (duh but I had to say it, lol)... the youngest person I've met who I honestly felt was mature enough for a sexual/emotional/all around fulfilling and healthy relationship was fourteen years old. And then I've met some thirty year olds who were definitely too immature to be romantically involved with someone...
 
Tania_Rides said:
I think it depends on the individual, people mature at different ages (duh but I had to say it, lol)... the youngest person I've met who I honestly felt was mature enough for a sexual/emotional/all around fulfilling and healthy relationship was fourteen years old. And then I've met some thirty year olds who were definitely too immature to be romantically involved with someone...
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You're never really too young to have sex if you just look at it from an age perspective (is it healthy or morally 'right', no, but it's possible). It's all about the level of maturity, as you said, Tgirl...

But from my point of view the thought of anyone under sixteen having sex makes me a little nervous. I have met a few exceptions though... *rambles on until he falls off of the waterfall*
 
I had just turned 19. I had been thru a couple of fairly serious relationships by teen standards...no co-habitation, but full of laughs, love and angst. I grew up with pretty conservative ideas in this area and was literally saving myself for marriage. Then after a few "missed chances" I decided that I loved my new girlfriend and that was enough, no ceremony needed. Our first time (she was a virgin also) was very awkward but fulfilling in that we both felt it was the right time. It was not that great physically but very satisfying emotionally. We were together for a little more than a year after that, so we had plenty of time to get better at the physical part.
 
Tania_Rides said:
I think it depends on the individual, people mature at different ages (duh but I had to say it, lol)... the youngest person I've met who I honestly felt was mature enough for a sexual/emotional/all around fulfilling and healthy relationship was fourteen years old. And then I've met some thirty year olds who were definitely too immature to be romantically involved with someone...
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No, sorry to be so vague what I MEANT was at what age is it considered too young to have sex legally! Quite a few people have mentioned they were too young, and I also was Definitely way too young, but I am not sure what age this is considered to be legally in this forum! In New Zealand the age of consent is 16.
 
I was 19 and my friend and I were sick of being virgins and had a bet who could lose thier virginity first. I won. I had dated a guy for 3 weeks and I liked him. It wasn't great but not bad either. We stayed together for 3 years and he ended up marrying the girfriend I had the bet with, which amuses me no end.
 
While there are minimum ages to be on this board and for participants in your stories, you can admit to any age in your own life with regards to having lost your virginity.
 
I was 16 and working at McDonald's. She was 18 and worked there too. She been around a bit and was a first-year college girl, me a high-school junior. Lust shall follow lust, and we ended up in my car in a park near Christmas-time. I was driving a Kharman-Ghia. If you're not familiar with it, the backseat is barely big enough for a child, let alone two semi-grown-ups. But the back seat could fold down and give access to the trunk. So her head and torso were back there, and all I could see was her waist and lower. Which I didn't mind at all. It was work, but penetration was achieveed. She came, I didn't. All in all, not the greatest time. But still, any deflowering experience, for a guy at least, is gonna be pretty good.
 
I was 16, so was he. The place was a bench along the seafront; not very romantic, but we were young and full of passion, I even thought I was in love with the guy.
The actual sex was great, it did not hurt, and I even had an orgasm. This was the first time that I'd had penetrative sex, but I had been experimenting for quite a while before. Playing with myself, letting guys put their fingers inside me, etc. I think I was quite well prepeared for it, both physically and emotionally.
Btw, the age of consent here in the UK is 16.

Lou
 
soapstar said:
No, sorry to be so vague what I MEANT was at what age is it considered too young to have sex legally! Quite a few people have mentioned they were too young, and I also was Definitely way too young, but I am not sure what age this is considered to be legally in this forum! In New Zealand the age of consent is 16.
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Check out the website www.ageofconsent.com for information on that... or Milo's thread 'Statutory Rape'... that got pretty interesting, lol.
 
I was 18 and I had wanted to get rid of my virginity for so dang long. However, my vagina had other ideas. I didn't think it was possible for anything to clamp so tight!

Anyway, after several attempts at that special night with no joy, my bf (now hubby) and I finally had entry one day after playing racketball of all things.

I was so naive, I had no idea that you were supposed to MOVE. So there is he, doing what nature intended, and it hurt. I kept making little grunts of agony, but I endured because I knew that it was supposed to hurt the first time.

He asked about it afterwards and I told him it was because he kept pushing me into the headboard. Poor guy actually believe it until 3 years ago!

It got better after that, but it didn't get REALLY good until 7 years after that when I finally had my first O. Now I can't get enough!
 
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