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• Aug 2, 2003

• #1

im not sure if im gay or straight? i like to look at gay porn alot. and i like to look at straight porn too. But i like gay porn more. ive also had fantasies about getting fucked and sucking a cock

someone help me out plz

 

SkyyAngel

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• Aug 2, 2003

• #2

Although this sounds like the biggest joke in the world I'm gonna (naively no doubt) give you the benefit of the doubt.

Who cares what you watch when you're jerking off?? I watch women on women all the time. Does that mean I'm lesbian?? I don't think so. Not like there's anything wrong with that mind you. I just happen to know that I'm straight.

Are you gay just because you like to look at and fantasize about men? Probably not.

 

BlueSugar

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• Aug 2, 2003

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I don't enjoy anal, infact it makes me sick most of the time (but kudeos to everyone else taht does it) i'm just saying it doesn't float my boat... but when its in a story i still get off.
Maybe you're a homophobe wanna be

 

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Wulf7

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• Aug 2, 2003

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I'd say until you actually kiss a guy and/or have sex with a guy and enjoy it should you truly consider yourself gay or bi or whatever. I mean is it just a fantasy or does it really turn you on?

 

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• Aug 2, 2003

• #5

in a way it does turn me on. Skyy angel your right. but what about my parents lol.

ps.skyy angel do you have msn or yahoo -s-

 

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• Aug 2, 2003

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As we say here: "Ein bischen bi, schadet nie!"

(To be a bit bisexual is never wrong.)

 

SkyyAngel

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• Aug 3, 2003

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presence06 said:

in a way it does turn me on. Skyy angel your right. but what about my parents lol.

ps.skyy angel do you have msn or yahoo -s-

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What about your parents? I don't get it. Would they freak out if you were gay?? Personally I say freak them out. You can't spend your life living according to other people's rules. If we did no one would be here at Lit I'm pretty sure of that fact.

 

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• Aug 3, 2003

• #8

it would probably freak them out just knowing i look at gay porn/or porn altogether. but i dunno they would probably disown me lol. but i dunno i read on www.jackinworld.com of people who haved asked like the same q i did and the ppl there just told them that when your young like my age its normal to fantasise and shit about men. but you should put a "label" on yourself till your like 21 or older. whatever


skyy angel..whats your email addy -s-

 

Wantonica

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• Aug 3, 2003

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*sigh*

I get turned on by lots of things I would never, never do. Are you just turned on by it, or do you want it?

Bluntly,
Wantonica

 

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Guest

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• Aug 3, 2003

• #10

in a way both. but after i jerk off to pic/vid i feel dirty or guilty/wrong.
what bout that?

 

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• Aug 3, 2003

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presence06 said:

in a way it does turn me on. Skyy angel your right. but what about my parents lol.

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With all due respect...your parents aren't you. What you watch or don't watch, and what turns you on, doesn't have ANYTHING to do with them.

To your question...are you bisexual? Gay? Whatever? Why does it matter? Is it necessary to label yourself? Just enjoy what you enjoy, and if someone else feels the need to slap a label on something that is only your personal business, then let them go about their merry way, stamping comments on foreheads to put others into pigeonholes and therefore make their own little worlds a little safer.

Just try to be comfortable with who you are. No matter what that might be labeled as.

Rant over. For now.

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sheath

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• Aug 3, 2003

• #12

Double post, dammit.

Sorry!

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SkyyAngel

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• Aug 4, 2003

• #13

Sheath is right...your personal life is just that....you're personal life...your parents are only involved to a degree and even then they don't need to be at all. Especially with this subject.

And those people on the other board are right. It's completely normal to fantasize about having sex or doing sexual acts with people of the same sex at any age.

Whether you act on those fantasies is what determines your "label" or whatever. But sheath is also right in that respect...why label yourself? There's no need to do that...especially at this point in your life.

And if you want to talk to me privately just go ahead and PM me here.