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How a mother can really fuck up her son.

Black_Bird

Black_Bird

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Hate Men.

No, I'm serious! Raise him to respect women, all the while yelling at his piece of shit male-whore father who's always fucking around... He *must* be; he's male. Blame all of your problems on having too many men around you and watch as the light from your son's eyes slowly dim. Remember - Porn is evil.

And then, when he gets old enough to have sexual, wonder aloud why he is such a misogamist after being raised to respect women. Then he'll be really fucked up.
 
gothyc_bytch said:
eh, i hope your not speaking from experiance
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Don't hope too much, now.

I'm sorry... I just needed to vent. I'm a little aggrivated at the moment.
 
She probably doesn't even realize she's affected you in this way. Do you blame her for indiscretions on your part?

*adjusts therapists hat* ;)
 
Luvinit said:
She probably doesn't even realize she's affected you in this way. Do you blame her for indiscretions on your part?

*adjusts therapists hat* ;)
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Heh. Do you have a Dr. in front of your name?
 
Black_Bird said:
Heh. Do you have a Dr. in front of your name?
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No, not at all. You can't control how your mom thinks, but you can control how you respond to her.
 
Black_Bird said:
Hate Men.

No, I'm serious! Raise him to respect women, all the while yelling at his piece of shit male-whore father who's always fucking around... He *must* be; he's male. Blame all of your problems on having too many men around you and watch as the light from your son's eyes slowly dim. Remember - Porn is evil.

And then, when he gets old enough to have sexual, wonder aloud why he is such a misogamist after being raised to respect women. Then he'll be really fucked up.
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:eek:

I hope you didn't go through this.
 
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bknight2602 said:
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I hope you didn't go through this.
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Although I'm realitively happy at this point in my life, I will soon be seeing a psychologist. I'm sorry - I needed to take out some frustration and this was the wrong place to do it.
 
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Black_Bird said:
Although I'm realitively happy at this point in my life, I will soon be seeing a psychologist. I'm sorry - I needed to take out some frustration and this was the wrong place to do it.
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I'm glad to hear this. I know several people who have benefited a lot from therapy for their parents' mistakes. Good for you, BB.
Good luck and tell us how it goes.
 
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Black_Bird said:
Although I'm realitively happy at this point in my life, I will soon be seeing a psychologist. I'm sorry - I needed to take out some frustration and this was the wrong place to do it.
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What makes you say that??

This is the perfect place to take out frustration.

Name a better place.
 
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Sandia said:
What makes you say that??

This is the perfect place to take out frustration.

Name a better place.
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I'm in full agreement.
 
Black_Bird said:
Hate Men.

No, I'm serious! Raise him to respect women, all the while yelling at his piece of shit male-whore father who's always fucking around... He *must* be; he's male. Blame all of your problems on having too many men around you and watch as the light from your son's eyes slowly dim. Remember - Porn is evil.

And then, when he gets old enough to have sexual, wonder aloud why he is such a misogamist after being raised to respect women. Then he'll be really fucked up.
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Being raised to hate in that and more areas I can very much understand where your coming from Black_Bird. And to me your not all mussed up. Your just coping as best you can and are a good person and always will be. It will get better, not one of the easier paths to deal with in life. But you will do more than survive it.. you'll get through and past it. And you're on the right track in dealing with it. :)
 
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Black_Bird said:
Although I'm realitively happy at this point in my life, I will soon be seeing a psychologist. I'm sorry - I needed to take out some frustration and this was the wrong place to do it.
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Heheheh . . . and she probably didn't even realise that she was mimicking her own mother when she was abusing you for the alleged sins of other mature males . . .

Take heart Blackbird, many of us males suffer these indignities and work our way through them. The secret is to detach and realise that you are a really nice person who cannot do anything about your mother's state of mind, experiences in life or real and imagined disappointments. Only she can make the changes to her life that are necessary to heal her real and perceived emotional wounds.

I agre with Wolfsong, you are on the correct track, keep going. Gil's thread over on the How To ... Board may help. :)
 
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Sandia said:
What makes you say that??

This is the perfect place to take out frustration.

Name a better place.
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I agree too. The topic interests me.
 
And it's interesting for this mom to hear a son's perspective. My son is intelligent but not very verbose :(
 
I am interested in this as well. Mr K's mom is extremely passive aggressive, as well as a real "the glass is always half empty, but who cares because whatever's in the glass is probably not very good anyway" kind of person, and I can see how it has affected him deeply as an adult. It is painful for me, as someone who loves him so much, to see how much her years of undermining have caused him to lack confidence and feel insufficient.
 
Moms can frig up their daughters, too.

I'm glad you're choosing to not let that ugliness stomp all over the good stuff in you. I know its a much deeper issue than that, and for that, I'm sorry.
 
intrigued said:
Moms can frig up their daughters, too.

I'm glad you're choosing to not let that ugliness stomp all over the good stuff in you. I know its a much deeper issue than that, and for that, I'm sorry.
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And fathers can mess up their kids, too :(

I agree with intrigued--once we recognize the damage being done, we can start to act on it. Anger eats us up alive so we have to learn other methods.

A friend taught me the walk-out method. When my parents got into their mind games hot and heavy while I was in the room (in deep agony because the conflict always sucked me in), I learned to give myself permission to say, "I don't really need to be here for this," and then to walk out and be away from their hot anger. Of course, by the time I actually practiced this, I was an adult with my own kids :rolleyes:
 
MercyMia said:
And fathers can mess up their kids, too :(

I agree with intrigued--once we recognize the damage being done, we can start to act on it. Anger eats us up alive so we have to learn other methods.

A friend taught me the walk-out method. When my parents got into their mind games hot and heavy while I was in the room (in deep agony because the conflict always sucked me in), I learned to give myself permission to say, "I don't really need to be here for this," and then to walk out and be away from their hot anger. Of course, by the time I actually practiced this, I was an adult with my own kids :rolleyes:
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By the time I was able to do uncripple myself enough to do anything at all, it was too late. Instead of walking out of the room, I walked out of their lives.
And still, they do me in, through my children. When its your parents, sometimes, you can never be free of it. Really, when its anyone that you have that kind of bond with.
I have to tell myself to not respond, not feel, I have to completely flip the switch off. Sometimes it works, sometimes I'm on my knees. But the pain is about something more, because now they're doing it to my kids, and I'm just stuck.
 
I'm sorry but this "My parents screwed me up" garbage is pretty cringe inducing.

It sounds like your mother and my mother would get along pretty well. But I realized at an early age that my Mother's relationship with my Father had an effect on her that I couldn't uunderstand or empathize with.

If you couldn't realize at an early age that your mom was screwed up and/or you're dad was a world class jerk(in my case both were bang on) than you have nobody to blame but yourself.
 
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