BDSM Personals: Dom/mes seeking submissives

Post it here!

I would recommend a few things:

~Be honest.
~Add a bit about what you are looking for in a submissive.
~Perhaps a bit about what activities you enjoy
~location, location, location


Making reference to experience isn't necessary, but might be helpful.

Best of luck to you all.

Dom looking for sub

I suppose if I minded being first, I wouldn't be a Dom .

I'm in New York, and whoever I speak to must be in or near New York. I'm looking for a real life sub, first contact through email, then phone, then in person. Applicants must be female and 18-35. Applicants with a picture will receive first response.

Things I look for in a sub: Honesty, sexual openness/desire, physical attractiveness (for what I find attractive you'll have to talk to me further), intelligence, obedience. These have been listed in order of importance, first to last. Obedience is the least important.....because that's the easiest to change.

As for what I am...the metaphor best describing me would be a steel hand in a silk glove. The right sub would become used to the feel of the silk...but she would never forget the steel is there.

Carpe diem.

2 Dommes seeking male pet

My Girlfriend and I are looking for a male sub to be our pet. obedience is a must, adventurous is a plus, hopefully will enjoy some of the same hobbies (outside of sex) that We do - you'll have to contact Us to find out about that... also for more specific lists of what We expect. We definately are looking for someone who either lives close by and/or is willing to move to be with Us (northern central indiana).

as for level of experience, We aren't very experienced, and We have no preference for the level of experience for our pet.

We did have some success on the first personals board, but thought that We'd try here too (thanks MissTaken).

... oh yeah, Froggy_day is my Girlfriend, so feel free to contact either of us...

after having some major disappointments, I feel I have to edit this... if you contact Us, you MUST be absolutely honest with Us at all times. We want to know what you think and how you feel about things, not just what you think We want to hear. We also need to know right up front if you have issues (religious, moral, or otherwise) with homosexuality. in fact, if you do have problems with it, don't even bother - My Girlfriend and I are both bi... looking for boys that are at least willing to consider playing with other boys... this is the issue that I just ran into trouble with, and it's a big problem for Me. I thought I made it clear what the situation with Us is, but apparently not, so I'm now trying to make it more clear. I don't want to waste any more of My or anyone else's time.

You are quite welcome, aerofreak.

Now, I can't spank this thread to page 1. I do believe that is someone else's job, so a gentle nudge will have to do!

I'll give it a little spank to the top. I just wanted to verify (in reference to Aerofreak's post) that it is fine to contact me too.

this is just an amendment to My post before... what Froggy and I are looking for is a 24/7, permanent arrangement if possible. of course, if things change after We have gotten our boy (or boys), they will be allowed to leave, but We don't want to be changing boys every few months.

just wanted to add that so that any boys 'applying' for the position would know this ahead of time.

*scooch over to the top*

Dom seeking Sub Female

Playmate and adventurous wench sought for occasional interludes. New England and Dallas are regions I am physically present in, enjoy firtation with ladies from every where.
Experienced, sane and sensible with a sense of humor and wicked creativity.

drop me a line if interested. http://briefcase.yahoo.com/bc/nhsail/vwp?.dir=/Yahoo!+Photo+Album&.dnm=sh_helm.jpg&.src=bc&.view=l&.done=http%3a//briefcase.yahoo.com/bc/nhsail/lst%3f%26.dir=/Yahoo!%2bPhoto%2bAlbum%26.src=bc%26.view=l

Is there any subbie from LA area?????

Tampa, FL
by Stiff Writer -- err, Staff Writer
TheCyberPoet

Experienced Tampa Dom, never switch, voracious appetite for stimulating the mind as well as the body, is open to new female sub or sub-switch (neophyte to somewhat experienced, but not totally jaded), age 18 to 38, of reasonably sound mind and body (Please no BBW's - females size 13+ are just not Our thing). I am not interested in online play nor phone-sex, although I will take the time to develop an understanding and a good level of communication online and/or over the phone in advance of meeting you. Limits respected; safewords given; you will be trained to My expectations (which do not involve golden showers, scat, beastiality, any illicit drugs, nor minors).

http://www.getlaid.net/galleries/300/30060..jpg
Picture taken 12 Oct 2002

I have a very beautiful live-in bi female significant other (switch for your purposes), who, depending on the semester, often does not have much in the way of free time (between her work and degree studies, it may only be a few hours a week), but you would be expected to acknowledge her presence in My life and form your own relationship with her (she may be Domme to you, or sub, or just the occasional lover; that is strictly a matter of how you two mesh personally and what your desires are -- but I will tolerate no cattiness).

http://www.getlaid.net/pictures/M/Ma/Man/MandP_medium.jpg

As for Me, I am not above spanking, whipping, flogging or caning for you, but I am not inherently a sadist (pain strictly for the sake of pain) in much of any sense, though I truly enjoy spanking. I use both positive and negative reinforcement, as well as negative-to-positive. Furthermore, I am, for lack of a better term, a pseudo-sexual vampire: I feed off that which fuels My partner's desires, what flames their fires, and what holds no interest for you at any given interest, probably holds no interest for Me for that moment either. This is not to say that I do not have My own prefered scenario's and themes (do you still call it a fantasy if it has already been a reality?), nor that I will not enjoy punishing you in the slightest. If pain turns you on, then I am all for making you feel each sensation intensely and do have great experience in the handing of various impliments, as well as techniques to maximize the perceptualization of the sensations.
I am well aware that the largest sex organ has always been and still is the mind, and I will stimulate yours, probably to realms which you have never reached before. I prefer to train My slaves for voice and eye control, although that requires a very advanced degree of training. And I do believe that romance and BDSM are not mutually exclusive concepts. Finally, I will push your limits, but not exceed them without your specific request (oh, and how you will beg Me to exceed them).

Interested parties should drop Me a PM with a letter of introduction, some information about yourself.

Generalities:
Perceptual Ownership: no matter what the illusion is that I, Master M, 'own' a slave, the truth is that any sub I would accept is a legal adult empowered by law to make her own decisions. She opted to be My slave, to be 'owned' by Me, but the reality is that she could just as easily reverse that decision and walk away (dubious that she would, but possible). No one person can truly own another in our society, irrelevant of convention or law; such ownership in our case is merely a mutually held illusion created by choice and endorsed by action. I do not fool Myself into believing that true ownership exists beyond that.

A Word on Dominance: I am naturally dominant in My environment. I am not inherently pushy [i.e. - gruff in a social context], but rather others just inherently defer to Me because of My education, intelligence and mannerisms, especially in times of crisis. This is an inherent part of My personality. If you prefer the company of weak-willed, easily controlled males, do not seek Me out. If you enjoy the concept of giving yourself to a strong Alpha Male who isn't suffering from testosterone poisoning, and are comfortable with the idea of being shared as ours, then feel free to read My stories and/or write Me.

aerofreak said:

this is just an amendment to My post before... what Froggy and I are looking for is a 24/7, permanent arrangement if possible. of course, if things change after We have gotten our boy (or boys), they will be allowed to leave, but We don't want to be changing boys every few months.

just wanted to add that so that any boys 'applying' for the position would know this ahead of time.

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NOt looking for a 24/7 permenant.. already have a permanent vanilla relationship... Dropped ya PM anyhow!

plzur her said:

NOt looking for a 24/7 permenant.. already have a permanent vanilla relationship... Dropped ya PM anyhow!

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hey, no problem. We're all for "on the side" too, but We do really want a full-time boy.

Anyone else care to post an ad?

Happy Birthday to ME!!

thought I'd bump this one up too...

and We are still looking for a boy... would make a great bithday/christmas present for Me

Miss Karen

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aerofreak said:

thought I'd bump this one up too...

and We are still looking for a boy... would make a great bithday/christmas present for Me

Miss Karen

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If only I was in Indiana!!! HAPPY BIRTHDAY MISS KAREN!!! WISH I WAS THERE TO BLOW OUT YOUR CANDLE AND ANYTHING ELSE YOU LET ME PUT MY MOUTH ON!!!!
X12

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plzur her said:

If only I was in Indiana!!! HAPPY BIRTHDAY MISS KAREN!!! WISH I WAS THERE TO BLOW OUT YOUR CANDLE AND ANYTHING ELSE YOU LET ME PUT MY MOUTH ON!!!!
X12

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you are so sweet!!! I wish you were in indiana

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aerofreak said:

you are so sweet!!! I wish you were in indiana

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Me too!!!!!!!!!

well, apparently, My Girlfriend and Me are the only two who are still looking for subs... but We'll keep trying...

if there are any subs out there looking, feel free to contact one of Us.

well, apparently, My Girlfriend and Me are the only two who are still looking for subs... but We'll keep trying...

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You're not the only ones look for a nice warm subbie to wrap with a ribbon this Xmas...

Best Wishes and Three Cheers for a good holiday!
=-= The CyberPoet

too bad your not in CALI........i would love to play slave for a day

krspy2001 said:

too bad your not in CALI........i would love to play slave for a day

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only a day?? that's no fun at all...

hmmmm...would be easier if i was not married.....how about 3 days a week? lol

yeah, that would be a bit of a problem...
I don't share well (except with My Girlfried), so I don't really want a married boy

*pouts* all the good ones are already taken

damn and i would be such an eager slave......

do what you want to me and make do whoever you want me to do