I'm Probably Going To Regret This...

BiBunny

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...but here goes nothing, anyway. I spent way too much time thinking of something to write here, so I'd really, really appreciate it if you took the time to actually read this long-winded bit of malarkey before posting in the thread or PM-ing me. Thanks! :)

A little about me:

I'm a 23-year-old bisexual, polyamorous, female switch, a graduate student located in the Anniston/Gadsden, Alabama, area. I have been involved in this lifestyle long enough to know pretty much what I want and don't want. Most of my experience has been on the submissive end of things, but I do enjoy the dominant role and would like to gain some more experience in that role. For that reason, I'm only interested in submissives or fellow switches right now. I'm not looking for a serious relationship at the moment, but I do expect more than a fuck buddy situation. I do have a girlfriend (who also posts on this site), and if she's interested, she may someday become a part of the equation. Ideally, this person (or people) would be a good friend, someone I can go out for drinks with on occasion, but not a "boyfriend" or "girlfriend," unless there's some kind of true soulmate connection going on. ;) It'll start out as a "friends who play together" situation and may someday turn into an ownership situation as time progresses, though that'll depend on the folks involved.

What I'm looking for:

Like I said, I'm bisexual, so gender doesn't really matter that much. I do prefer masculine men and feminine women, however. I'd like submissives or other switches who'd like to explore their submissive sides. Looks aren't really that important, but I'm a tall woman who's built like a brick shithouse, so if you're a man, I'd really like it if you were at least 6' tall and big-built. I'd prefer not to worry about killing you on accident. ;) With women, I'm a good bit more flexible about stature and body type.

I'm also polyamorous, so I need someone who can handle the fact that I'm not monogamous. If you're the type who gets jealous easily, please pass on by. Experience or inexperience doesn't matter a whole lot. I do require you to be intelligent. I'm an English major, so, shallow though it may be, I will most likely judge you by how well-written your posts or PMs are.

Please be between the ages of 21-30. For exceptional folks, I can extend my age limits a few years in either direction, but if you're old enough to be my father, please don't be offended that I'm not interested. I ask that you know what you're looking for. That "whatever pleases Mistress" crap doesn't hold any water with me. Please just be yourself when you contact me, and don't try to be someone you're not just to impress me. My other requirements are: drug and disease free, honest, loyal, relatively drama-free, open-minded, and located within 2 or 3 hours of me.

Above all, I want to get to know you as a person before anything else. I won't treat you like a walking collection of kinks, and I expect you to do the same. I'm sure I've forgotten a few things, but I'll add more as I think of it. :)

Edit: Yep, I've already remembered something to add. I'm not looking for an online relationship, and I don't do cyber. I'll talk online for however long it takes for both of us to feel comfortable (and I'll admit that it sometimes takes me awhile), but I do want a real-time situation.
 
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BiBunny said:
...but here goes nothing, anyway. I spent way too much time thinking of something to write here, so I'd really, really appreciate it if you took the time to actually read this long-winded bit of malarkey before posting in the thread or PM-ing me. Thanks! :)

A little about me:

I'm a 23-year-old bisexual, polyamorous, female switch, a graduate student located in the Anniston/Gadsden, Alabama, area. I have been involved in this lifestyle long enough to know pretty much what I want and don't want. Most of my experience has been on the submissive end of things, but I do enjoy the dominant role and would like to gain some more experience in that role. For that reason, I'm only interested in submissives or fellow switches right now. I'm not looking for a serious relationship at the moment, but I do expect more than a fuck buddy situation. I do have a girlfriend (who also posts on this site), and if she's interested, she may someday become a part of the equation. Ideally, this person (or people) would be a good friend, someone I can go out for drinks with on occasion, but not a "boyfriend" or "girlfriend," unless there's some kind of true soulmate connection going on. ;) It'll start out as a "friends who play together" situation and may someday turn into an ownership situation as time progresses, though that'll depend on the folks involved.

What I'm looking for:

Like I said, I'm bisexual, so gender doesn't really matter that much. I do prefer masculine men and feminine women, however. I'd like submissives or other switches who'd like to explore their submissive sides. Looks aren't really that important, but I'm a tall woman who's built like a brick shithouse, so if you're a man, I'd really like it if you were at least 6' tall and big-built. I'd prefer not to worry about killing you on accident. ;) With women, I'm a good bit more flexible about stature and body type.

I'm also polyamorous, so I need someone who can handle the fact that I'm not monogamous. If you're the type who gets jealous easily, please pass on by. Experience or inexperience doesn't matter a whole lot. I do require you to be intelligent. I'm an English major, so, shallow though it may be, I will most likely judge you by how well-written your posts or PMs are.

Please be between the ages of 21-30. For exceptional folks, I can extend my age limits a few years in either direction, but if you're old enough to be my father, please don't be offended that I'm not interested. I ask that you know what you're looking for. That "whatever pleases Mistress" crap doesn't hold any water with me. Please just be yourself when you contact me, and don't try to be someone you're not just to impress me. My other requirements are: drug and disease free, honest, loyal, relatively drama-free, open-minded, and located within 2 or 3 hours of me.

Above all, I want to get to know you as a person before anything else. I won't treat you like a walking collection of kinks, and I expect you to do the same. I'm sure I've forgotten a few things, but I'll add more as I think of it. :)

Edit: Yep, I've already remembered something to add. I'm not looking for an online relationship, and I don't do cyber. I'll talk online for however long it takes for both of us to feel comfortable (and I'll admit that it sometimes takes me awhile), but I do want a real-time situation.

Bunny, I hope you have luck in finding someone. Unfortunely I am out of your age bracket. You location caught My eye. i was born and raised in the Eastaboga area of Alabama. I don't feel you'll regret posting here.

LJ
 
Lord Jupiter said:
Bunny, I hope you have luck in finding someone. Unfortunely I am out of your age bracket. You location caught My eye. i was born and raised in the Eastaboga area of Alabama. I don't feel you'll regret posting here.

LJ

Cool! I sort of wondered when I put up my location if anyone would know where it was, LOL. I'm a student at JSU.

naxalite0906 said:
Good luck with your search bunny...:rose:

Thanks! Good luck with yours, too.

While I know I'm probably preaching to choir here, if I ask that you be looking for a real-life arrangement or be within a couple of hours of me, they're not just suggestions. Your illiteracy (or selective reading) don't endear you to me at all. ;) Thanks.
 
I am in no way close to what you're looking for, but I simply wanted to compliment you on a very well-written ad. Best of luck!
 
Too far away....
I'm not in the least bit switchy...
Outta the age zone...
But poly I can handle! I don't get jealous easily! (and Kitty's cute anyway)

25% doesn't really make it does it? :kiss: *LOL*
 
Evil_Geoff said:
Too far away....
I'm not in the least bit switchy...
Outta the age zone...
But poly I can handle! I don't get jealous easily! (and Kitty's cute anyway)

25% doesn't really make it does it? :kiss: *LOL*

EG, you're the exception to the rule. I'd throw all my requirements out the window for you. :kiss:
 
BiBunny said:
EG, you're the exception to the rule. I'd throw all my requirements out the window for you. :kiss:

July 14th... Atlanta. Dragon*Con staff meeting in the afternoon, very high probability of 1763 that night.... Mark your calendar...
 
Evil_Geoff said:
July 14th... Atlanta. Dragon*Con staff meeting in the afternoon, very high probability of 1763 that night.... Mark your calendar...

I shall see what I can do.
 
If you and kitty are SF/fantasy/horror/comics/gaming fans at all... Dragon*Con is a blast! Last year was the first one I've missed since 1994! And that's because a certain piece of internal plumbing decided to fu and make me get surgery the week before the con! Blast!

You might be back in school though... It's Labor Day weekend.
 
Evil_Geoff said:
If you and kitty are SF/fantasy/horror/comics/gaming fans at all... Dragon*Con is a blast! Last year was the first one I've missed since 1994! And that's because a certain piece of internal plumbing decided to fu and make me get surgery the week before the con! Blast!

You might be back in school though... It's Labor Day weekend.

Damnation. School will have started back, but Kitty and I are blowing off the first couple of days of classes (I know, bad us!) to go to the last few days of Celebration in Shelbyville. (Yes, obscure reference to people who don't know anything about Walking Horses. Overlook it.) I haven't been in five freakin' years, so I think it's past time.

Neither of us are really fans of that kind of thing, but we could make an exception if it was any other time. :(

As far as Atlanta in July, Miss Kitty doesn't turn 21 'til August, so she can't get in 1763. Doesn't mean we can't show up for dinner or something, though. :)
 
To Bi BUnny

Well, I'm in Montgomery, but I'm old enough to be your Dad(upper 30's).LOL.
Oh well. Anniston is beautful area. Have an old ex who lives in Weaver.
 
Let me not waste my time here..

she' has already got many guys. Damn hard compitition now,
Don't worry guys, I'll find some forum where, males are less in number than females, then I'll let you know, cause I'm not a selfish guy.
 
Mr_Voltage said:
she' has already got many guys. Damn hard compitition now,
Don't worry guys, I'll find some forum where, males are less in number than females, then I'll let you know, cause I'm not a selfish guy.

Sure, there are plenty of men. As of yet, none of them fit my criteria. Otherwise, I wouldn't have this damn ad up, right? :rolleyes:

I knew I was going to regret placing it in the first place. I think the phrase "cry me a river" comes to mind. :rolleyes:
 
BiBunny said:
Sure, there are plenty of men. As of yet, none of them fit my criteria. Otherwise, I wouldn't have this damn ad up, right? :rolleyes:

I knew I was going to regret placing it in the first place. I think the phrase "cry me a river" comes to mind. :rolleyes:

Sorry I'm so far away Bun-bun... *weg*
 
HottieMama said:
If only i was closer... ;)

(WHY is Kansas the armpit of the US that it is....?)

My father says Alabama is the asshole of the world, so at least the country is anatomically correct. :D
 
WriterDom said:
Dude, Canada is a long ways from LA. Lower Alabama.

It is but I'm not applying, just asking a question, however if it causes a problem and since no answer is forthcoming I'll withdraw it and leave it be, and also change my ava back.

I apologise for disrupting her thread, and I won't again.
 
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