Assignments

I've just started giving my slave assignments... and am finding myself sadly slow at coming up with ideas that can be used right now, because this is fairly new to me. So I was hoping that, just to get my mind started in the right direction, I might be able to get some ideas. The only requirement is that I need assignments provable by photograph, as right now we have to go a few days apart at a time, and those are the times I need assignments for. So if you coul PM me ideas (she reads here... sorry, pet, no sneak peaks!), I'd really, really appreciate it. Just some ideas so I get my mind going in the right direction to make up my own.

Cassiel670 said:

So if you coul PM me ideas (she reads here... sorry, pet, no sneak peaks!), I'd really, really appreciate it. Just some ideas so I get my mind going in the right direction to make up my own.

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So, order her to stay away from this thread, or Lit altogether until you've given the assignments. I'd hope there's enough mutual trust for an order like that, or an assignment that doesn't require photographic proof.

If you two are into pain, have her do something painful to herself and take pics. Ditto for humiliation, pics you'd just like to see, tasks she needs to complete around her home (e.g. cleaning/organizing or getting projects done), bondage (have her learn techniques or about self-bondage, tit/pussy torture, wax, etc. Basically, anything you like and is safe for her to do on her own.

You could also have her go purchase something(s) for your next meeting, use plugs, vibes, practice orgasm control/denial, do research and write summaries/reports, write a story or essay, etc.

Notice how there are so many ideas in this one post that there's no way she could know what you're going to choose for her?

thank You, Master, for giving me permission to read this thread, and try to help get people to respond! i really would so appreciate any other Doms or like minded people to PM my Master. He is really a natural at this lifestyle and is beyond my wildest dreams. what is really bothersome to U/us at the moment is the time that W/we must spend apart. i have now been given an assignment which i am so very much looking forward to doing for Him. i did have an idea, that Master has approved before i typed it here. if anyone sends Him an idea that requires photographic proof, and He decides that it is to His approval to give to me, that the photos will be posted here for everyone to see. i do hope this generates more responses for Him, as even though marked a virgin by lit, He is the most wonderful, caring, loving man and Master. i have offered myself to Him for the rest of eternity and He is already trying so hard to be the Master that i know He will be.

i have attached a picture that was taken while i slept a couple days ago. Master requested that i wear lingerie to bed because He would be over to wake me in the morning, and imagine my blissful surprise when i woke to be chained as well! thank You, Sir!

Actually tell us what to do. We want to show you pictures of what we do threads are usually not very well received here. So I don't know if that will help get more responses or not.

I personally wouldn't do assignments in which pictures were required but that's just me.

You could join the BDSM Academy as a assignment master or whatever they are called. There you would find hundreds of ideas.

I had a task thread once and you might find some ideas that would work there.

https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=388631

There was another one just last week.

Mostly, for me, if the task has no purpose but to entertain, it doesn't feel right.

Fury

jennyleigh said:

thank You, Master, for giving me permission to read this thread, and try to help get people to respond! i really would so appreciate any other Doms or like minded people to PM my Master. He is really a natural at this lifestyle and is beyond my wildest dreams. what is really bothersome to U/us at the moment is the time that W/we must spend apart. i have now been given an assignment which i am so very much looking forward to doing for Him. i did have an idea, that Master has approved before i typed it here. if anyone sends Him an idea that requires photographic proof, and He decides that it is to His approval to give to me, that the photos will be posted here for everyone to see. i do hope this generates more responses for Him, as even though marked a virgin by lit, He is the most wonderful, caring, loving man and Master. i have offered myself to Him for the rest of eternity and He is already trying so hard to be the Master that i know He will be.

i have attached a picture that was taken while i slept a couple days ago. Master requested that i wear lingerie to bed because He would be over to wake me in the morning, and imagine my blissful surprise when i woke to be chained as well! thank You, Sir!

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The problem with only sharing assignment ideas by Private Message, is that the only persons benifiting from the collective creativity of the Lit BDSM board, are the two of you. If the ideas are posted publicly, then they are preserved for as long as the thread exsists, which means many relationships will benifit from the subject.

SweetErika also touched on the issue of the general public of the BDSM board having no freaking idea what the two of you, as a couple, are interested in. Neither of you are regular posters on this forum (to my knowledge), which means I don't even have casual references in previous posts to draw from. I have no idea if you are into sensual BDSM, if you are a masochist, if you enjoy humiliation, if he enjoys placing you in situations involving the aforementioned subjects, or any one of a number of things that are usually considered, when tailoring an assignment to a partner... which is one reason you may nnot receive many responses.

As for posting images of said assignments, it is generally better accepted in the Amature Pictures forum, rather than the BDSM forum.

thank you very much for your responses, i think maybe W/we were coming at this from a direction that needs to be modified. i'm sure that Master will look over the link that you gave FF, so thank you for it.

i *used* be a regular poster for a while, but had some very vanilla times that drew me away from the site. i hope to become more acquainted with you all!

CutieMouse said:

The problem with only sharing assignment ideas by Private Message, is that the only persons benifiting from the collective creativity of the Lit BDSM board, are the two of you. If the ideas are posted publicly, then they are preserved for as long as the thread exsists, which means many relationships will benifit from the subject.

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CutieMouse

I coudn't agree more. My Master and I aren't really at the assignment stage as such yet (I've had some) but I would love him to get ideas from other posters, if not for now then for the future.

A generic, general, "how we've remained in each other's thoughts"/tasks/assignments/research projects/etc sort of thread, in which new and old alike share ideas, might be of use to the BDSM forums (and those who wander through needing ideas ).

There is also an ongoing thread on long distance relationships, which might be useful for you:

Link

jennyleigh said:

thank you very much for your responses, i think maybe W/we were coming at this from a direction that needs to be modified. i'm sure that Master will look over the link that you gave FF, so thank you for it.

i *used* be a regular poster for a while, but had some very vanilla times that drew me away from the site. i hope to become more acquainted with you all!

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My tasks were all online btw.

I think you are well on your way! Just post and read that's all it takes!

*smiles*

Fury

Or people could just post them here. It really, really doesn't matter that much to me where the ideas come from, I just didn't see any threads about this.

Cassiel670 said:

Or people could just post them here. It really, really doesn't matter that much to me where the ideas come from, I just didn't see any threads about this.

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Try using Google to search by entering:

site:literotica.com BDSM assignments (or tasks or whatever you want to find in place of the bold portion)
The link for that query
The link for 'tasks'

Also, try something like:
site:collarchat.com assignments (and tasks)

You can do the same for other sites - the Lit and CollarMe forums are just what I'm most familiar with, and places I KNOW tasks/assignments have been discussed many times.