Masturbation Methodology’s

Hi peeps,

I’m new here so sorry if this one has been covered in the past. Simply put I was wondering if people have any weird, wacky or just down right awesome methods of making themselves cum.

Having been masturbating for 10ish years now I have found that I sometimes lack the enthusiasm it deserves, I have a girlfriend who is not 100% sexually motivated so I have to look after myself in that department most of the time.

Any thoughts/theory’s?

Cheers

Morn100 said:

Hi peeps,

I’m new here so sorry if this one has been covered in the past. Simply put I was wondering if people have any weird, wacky or just down right awesome methods of making themselves cum.

Having been masturbating for 10ish years now I have found that I sometimes lack the enthusiasm it deserves, I have a girlfriend who is not 100% sexually motivated so I have to look after myself in that department most of the time.

Any thoughts/theory’s?

Cheers

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http://www.masturbateforpeace.com/

A link for all things masturbatory.

I consider masturbation to be a legitimate form of sex on it's own. No one has a willing, desireable, or available partner all the time. Masturbating a partner is fun too. Sex has many forms IMHO.

I usually do it through my underwear or PJs. Years of growing up with a nosy mother and an inoperative door lock taught me to masturbate in a way that's fairly easy to cover up if you're interrupted halfway through.

I've learned to appreciate the feel of having something on when you play with yourself. Different materials have different feels, naturally, and as long as you don't try to 'work' on or near the seam of the pants, it feels pretty good. It's not really better or worse than doing it fully exposed, just different.

Since I'm living with roommates now, I still rarely get the privacy to enjoy myself in the traditional way, so the more discreet method that I use has been a lifesaver.

Morn100 said:

Having been masturbating for 10ish years now I have found that I sometimes lack the enthusiasm it deserves.....

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This is a very common syndrome in a masturbatory relationship. After time, the magic wears off, that "newness" that was so exciting in the early days begins to fade. The honeymoon is over. But that doesn't mean that your sex life needs to suffer.

A masturbatory relationship with yourself is like any other living thing: it must be cherished and nourished, and never taken for granted. You must find ways to keep that spark in the relationship.

Try new things as often as possible! Different rooms of the house, different music, maybe some role playing. Instead of just you making love to yourself, imagine that you are a horny ranch-hand making love to himself, or a naughty schoolboy fantasizing about his professor, or maybe a famous movie star.

Try taking yourself for a vacation someplace exotic. The new and sensual atmosphere is bound to replace some of that missing spark.

Don't forget romance! Don't treat yourself just as a sex partner. Remember that you have feelings, too, and need to be treated as a valuable person in your own right, not just a sex object, or you will come to resent the physical expectations you put on yourself.

And don't forget the power of surprise! Many find surprise outings romantic and exciting. Surprise yourself with an unexpected dinner out, or tickets to a hot new show, or just a romantic walk along the beach when you least expect it. After a hard day of work, give yourself an unexpected bubble bath or massage. Surprise yourself with a bouquet of roses, or maybe some sexy underwear.

If you are willing to put in a little work, and to remember to respect YOUR needs, you will keep your masturbatory relationship fresh and exciting for many years to come.

Good luck! We're all pulling for you......Carney

Morn100 said:

Hi peeps,

I’m new here so sorry if this one has been covered in the past. Simply put I was wondering if people have any weird, wacky or just down right awesome methods of making themselves cum.

Having been masturbating for 10ish years now I have found that I sometimes lack the enthusiasm it deserves, I have a girlfriend who is not 100% sexually motivated so I have to look after myself in that department most of the time.

Any thoughts/theory’s?

Cheers

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Dump the girlfriend

Just do what makes you cum, and that's the way to do it.