I'M NOT LOOKING! But then again...

Evil_Geoff

Equal Opportunity Sadist
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I am not currently looking for any kind of romantic or sexual relationship at this time, I have an owned alpha-slave, janey, that I am quite happy with.

However, someone with a genuine desire for a service relationship may be considered as a beta-slave for a houseboy/boi/girl/grrl or yardboy/boi/girl/grrl position. Room & board and occassional SM play would be part of the relationship. More might follow if there is mutual interest with both myself and my girl.

Size/weight/age/sex/race are non-issues as long as you are healthy and physically able to do housework and yardwork. Mental and emotional health are musts. Don't come to me expecting me to "fix" your problems. I am not a medical or psychiatric professional, nor am I God. I will gladly help someone in service to me deal with issues, but I am not the cure.

The house/yard slave would be free to pursue educational and employment opportunities outside the home. They would, in fact, be encouraged to take advantage of those opportunities.

Keep in mind that I am a Dominant and sadist. I expect honesty and obedience, and if you are not a masochist, why in God's name would you want a relationship with a sadist? I am also an exhibitionist, I like to play with an audience. I am active in the BDSM community as a group leader, presenter and activist. If you don't want to be outted, or you are shy around a crowd, this might not be a good position for you.

I'm also a realist, if you have questions or concerns about something I tell you to do, ask. I don't expect you to read my mind. On the flip side, don't expect me to read yours!

Brats and SAMs need not apply, I have no patience for a partner who can't honestly communicate their needs to me. If you need your ass beat, tell me, don't act out. It's part of that communicating with your partner idea.

I have been active in the BDSM Scene locally and regionally (US - Southeast) since early 1998. I am the founder of the T3WD munch group in Columbia, SC, and I am their WebMaster. T3WD is a Coalition Partner in the NCSF, and I am the CP Representative to the NCSF.

If you are still reading at this point because you are tired of all the online fantasy bullshit, and are actually interested in learning more, drop me a note. I have a personal web site, and will gladly provide information on T3WD or NCSF, and personal references, upon contact and request.
 
If you find a yardboy I have a ton of leaves that need raking. A yardgirl would be even better.
 
Kajira Callista said:
ok...when can i move in?
*smiles softly and runs his fingers through KC's hair, gripping it for just a moment before releasing and finishing the brush through...*

Well there would certainly have to be a period of consideration, of getting to know each other (all three of us), of determining if you and janey and danielle would be compatible with one another and could become friends, compatriots, sisters of the heart (and not just the coffle and sirik). Understand that janey is alpha. she is loyal to me and I return that loyalty.

Are you truly interested in a service oriented relationship? Are you willing and/or capable of being in a real, working, poly relationship? Romantic/erotic feelings are not guaranteed, sexual service would not be part of things until or unless romantic/erotic feelings developed. What would your desires and expectations for the relationship include? More importantly, what are your needs for a relationship like this to work?

I understand that you are kajira, slave... But slaves are human beings too. I consider myself to be a decent, caring Master, I treasure my slaves. They are the most precious of my possessions and as such, I try to take good care of them so they, in turn, are highly motivated to take good care of me. Beyond a warm bed to sleep in, food in your belly, water and air, what would you want to get out of this arrangement? And what skills do you offer that would be useful to me and mine, to make our lives better, richer, easier?

I have two adult children and an ex-wife that I have frequent contact with. Do you have children? An ex? Family? Job? Friends? Are you willing to relocate to Columbia (the belt buckle of the Bible Belt, the ass-end of civilization), South Carolina? Are you willing to leave much of your past behind? We only have one bedroom available for a new person to join the household, will the items of your present and past fit in that space? If not, are you willing to leave those things behind, or put them in storage?

While fantasy is a wonderful thing, and fun to indulge in from time to time, I live my life in the real world, with real people, dealing with real problems and situations. But, that means that when things are right, I get to enjoy real rewards too! *grin*

While I know a good bit about Gor and understand much of the mindset, I am NOT a Gorean. My homestone lies elsewhere. Kneeling before me in nadu, crouching in she-sleen, doing the chain dance, the wearing of silks (probably white, not red, at least until such time as I felt that you were deserving of red) could be part of what you could do. But if you were to become my slave, you would be expected to adapt to my rules, my ways, my needs and desires, not those laid out by John Norman, as interpreted by others, from his stories.

Still interested? *grins* I won't make this easy. I don't WANT it to be easy! I want it to be damnably difficult, scary as all Hell, and more than a little intimidating. Because I play for keeps. This is my life, my home, my heart, that I am opening up to someone. Velcro collars are NOT my style. The collars I have offered have been worn for YEARS, not hours or days. I pride myself in being selective as all get out and making things that LAST. I expect the same commitment from anyone who desires to be in service to Me and Mine.
 
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psht, it's good to see you don't ask for much. :)
 
Lady Reiha said:
COOOOOKIES! :cathappy:

*grins*

Goodness... For a moment there I thought our favorite thread hijacking cookie queen, gracie, was back...

Yer just as cute though! Pleased t'meetcha!
 
ammre said:
psht, it's good to see you don't ask for much. :)
Well... I kinda though it would be better to ask for much than to post a personal that ran something like this:

On ur knees, slut. I'm a Dominate (say that Do Me Nate) and I'm lookin 4 a slav. R u that slav? I'm 10 inches of subbie pleasin pocket rocket an a sadist. PM me if u r interested.

*sighs* The J. Studley Cyber-Hungwell approach just doesn't work for me, ya know?
 
we are glad that isn't Your style, Sir

But for a moment, I liked it, it was quite interesting, to say the least
 
well, i am sure that You will have a wonderful slave soon. Any slave worth their merit would be fortunate to have You to rule over them, Sir.
 
ima6uldv8 said:
Good luck on your quest.
Thank you, I appreciate the thought.

Unfortunately too many people think "service" is synonymous with "sex". I can get sex from damn near anyone. But finding someone who takes pride in and finds joy in vacuuming or dusting or doing the laundry??? Now THAT'S special!
 
Evil_Geoff said:
*grins*

Goodness... For a moment there I thought our favorite thread hijacking cookie queen, gracie, was back...

Yer just as cute though! Pleased t'meetcha!



^-^ Nice to meet cha too *sorry this is delayed, tee hee!* :heart:
 
Lady Reiha said:
^-^ Nice to meet cha too *sorry this is delayed, tee hee!* :heart:
Delays are fine, Lady Reiha... I'm not always "Johnny-on-the-spot" either!
:D
 
Not that anyone is really paying attention but just in case someone wants to get out from behind the computer screen and meet f2f ...

There is a gathering of kinky Lit-sters happening this coming weekend at 1763 in Atlanta, Georgia.

Main thread is here:
SouthEastern US Lit Gathering?

Join the thread or drop me a PM for more info!
 
I love your sense of humor coupled with your dedication and respect to your lifestyle...
 
kittyspurr said:
loved the commit about the 10 inches
would lov to ride that.
*LOL* I wish I had that for you to ride! Just call me "Joe Average"!
 
Evil_Geoff,
You sound incredible....if i wasnt only just 18 and still living at home id take you up on that ofer! i love ur sense of humor and clear love for ur subs....ahhh perfect kind of Master i think ;)
 
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