Sex toys for men

My bf's birthday is coming up in a couple weeks and I wanted to get him something special. Also, I'll be leaving the country for work soon and it hardly seems fair that I'll have a wide variety of toys to keep myself happy while we're apart and he'll be left with nothing but his hands. So, I'd like to get him a toy of his own, but have no idea what to get. We've wanted to get him something in the past, but the stuff out there for guys always seems to be kinda sleazy and cheaply made...maybe we're just not looking in the right places?

Any advice would be appreciated...guys have you tried anything out there that you absolutely love? ladies have you bought anything special for your guy that drives him wild? I'd like to browse in person so if anyone knows of a good place to shop in the Vancouver area that would be helpful too...

In my humble opinion, the best sex toys for men are sex toys for girls...

If you get my meaning!

Or was that the type you meant?

Check out "The Blank Manual" sticky at the top of the main How To page. There have also been lots of discussions on anal toys, the fleshlight/pocket pussies, vibes, and a variety of other toys men enjoy, so try searching (instructions in the FAQs Before Posting sticky).

Freddy and Eddy have great reviews on male-oriented toys as well.

Your Right!

Sex toys for men are kinda crappy and to be honest you ladies on the toy side are lucky!!!

But to tell you the truth some toys really are not that bad. And it depends on what you really want to get him. Most womans toys will work just as good also.

You can try the prostate massager, or the different size butt plugs (Beginner get a small) or yes a dildo. There are even fleshlights 3-4 different kinda (BUTT,PUSSY,Mouth I there is just a plan hole?)

There are also many different forms of cockrings.

http://www.adameve.com/

Utamaro Silicone Masturbation Sleeve

Mucho better than your hands but not quite a good as the real thing.
Still pretty amazing.

www.freddyandeddy.com

what I'd recommend would depend on whether you're looking for something for anal play, something more like the afore-mentioned "fleshlights", or something else....

did you have some particular type in mind?

I've owned alot of toys over the years.

Most toys for guys are crap. I've even bought toys that I found out later I couldn't even fit inside. I remember when I was like 15 I used a money order an a PO box to order a bunch of crap from a website. One of the toys... a ridiculous pair of emerald lips with a nubby tube attached to the back... I couldn't even fit the head of my cock in. What the hell?

lol I found an image of it on google. Complete crap:

http://www.kronicvibes.com/productimages/main/2-4/251.jpg


Now the -best- sex toy I've ever owned is a Fleshlight. You can get one for about $50.... they are long lasting (I've had mine for about 5 years), easy to clean, they are soft and warm up easily, they feel great, etc.

http://www.fleshlight.com

http://blog.mrfleshy.com/images/fleshlight-vagina-ice-01.jpg

I've got the clear one with the clear insert... my wife and I both really like the clear one because you can see the cock inside moving around... pretty cool.

Thanks for all the suggestions everyone...I'll have a look around at the different sites.

We do have a few butt plugs...one of them I know he really enjoys, so I'll probably leave that one with him when I go (or buy him his own if I decide I really can't part with it).

I guess I'll have him browse around with me and let him pick something out for himself...after all he'll be the one that has to use it...mmm and shopping together for sex stuff is always lots of fun!

I think the first reply is probably very true, if my other half was going to buy me something, I'd hope it was something exciting I could use on her!

Anal probe, nice vibe, strap on.

Just a thought.

voluptuous_curves said:

My bf's birthday is coming up in a couple weeks and I wanted to get him something special. Also, I'll be leaving the country for work soon and it hardly seems fair that I'll have a wide variety of toys to keep myself happy while we're apart and he'll be left with nothing but his hands. So, I'd like to get him a toy of his own, but have no idea what to get. We've wanted to get him something in the past, but the stuff out there for guys always seems to be kinda sleazy and cheaply made...maybe we're just not looking in the right places?

Any advice would be appreciated...guys have you tried anything out there that you absolutely love? ladies have you bought anything special for your guy that drives him wild? I'd like to browse in person so if anyone knows of a good place to shop in the Vancouver area that would be helpful too...

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Hey there! Well, I've always loved soft jelly vibrators up the ass when masturbating... my gf promises she'll by me a cock-pump (I want one BADLY!!). The other thing that makes jerking off even better for a guy, is when you can't feel your hand touching your cock. Then it's almost like someone else doing it. This is very important! Soooo.... a favourite cheap toy I use that costs nothing (unless you go to the hardware store and spend 2 bucks) is a piece of "closed cell foam pipe-wrap". It's used for insulating hot and cold water pipes from the air so water doesn't condense on them, or keeps the heat in the pipe. You slick up the inside with baby oil jelly (jelly is best!!) and you use it to stroke your cock up and down till you blow. It is awesome(!!!!) because you can't feel your cock with your hands, and it surrounds the whole dick on all sides and (since you cut a piece long enough to cover your entire cock plus a bit after biggest hard-on size), it strokes every single square inch of your dick on all sides and up and down. Now that is an intense orgasm!!! I guarantee you!!! You use both hands to squeeze all around (well, I need to use 2 hands.. hehehe), just stroke up and down, up and down, up and down... lol.. hmmm- where is that pipe-wrap now? hehehe

My wife's company sells a masturbation sleeve called the "Super Stretch" along with a special lube for it. The thing is great whether we use it together or if I'm alone.

I like the hitachi magic wand. Nice and powerful...

depends on if you want a toy for just him (IE when hes alone) or not.

Id agree with the 'the best toy for him is a toy for her' comment, but if its a 'for him only' thing then fleshlights arent bad.

but TBH i still prefer my hand.

Another Fleshlight vote. Doesn't replace real, but oh my!!!

I have my own personal preferences. I am actually a big fan of the sleeves. Fleshlight isn't bad in some ways but I personally think that sensation can be beat. My favorite is the Futurotic Piece of Ass, made from futurotic material. It is long lasting durabe, very tight initially and the insides of it give a wonderful sensation.....

As a decent and cheaper alternative, I like the U3 material and the sleeves they make. Pretty good sensation. Inside there are rings of material that brush as you go up and down. Feels good. Basically you have to get really good soft material, something tight, and something that feels good on the inside for any sleeve.

For prostate massage, I love the aneros.

On its way!!!

Well, we decided on the utamaro (the reviews made it sound amazing), it's been ordered and now the wait for it to arrive. Bf is already brimming with anticipation and I'm getting excited about watching him try it out. Hope it doesn't get stuck at the border for too long...

We're considering the Utamaro, too, so I'd love to hear your guy's review of it once it arrives and he's had a chance to experiment! Could you ask if he's willing to come back and update us then?

Thanks!

SweetErika said:

We're considering the Utamaro, too, so I'd love to hear your guy's review of it once it arrives and he's had a chance to experiment! Could you ask if he's willing to come back and update us then?

Thanks!

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For sure...we'll let you know how it goes!

Not sure what your exact plans are but if it hadn't seriously crossed your mind, phone sex can be great!

subwannabe said:

Not sure what your exact plans are but if it hadn't seriously crossed your mind, phone sex can be great!

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That's definitely part of the plan...I just want him to have something to enhance the experience as well.

what is the utamo, or what ever its called? and when the toys come in the mail, what do they show up as? like in a brown unmarked box, or what?

You might consider electro stim. A completely hands free orgasm is very intense. Also with different attachments, both you and him can enjoy this.

Check out these sites for more info.

www.smartstim.com

www.peselectro.com

Definitely not your ordinary.

paintballa said:

what is the utamo, or what ever its called? and when the toys come in the mail, what do they show up as? like in a brown unmarked box, or what?

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mine turned up today in a unmarked jiffy bag

I recommend: http://www.babeland.com/

Look for the Men's Toys link on the left. The poeple who run Seattle (original) store are super nice.

Loving the utamaro!

Well, it arrived in a very discreet, unmarked cardboard box just a week after I ordered it. Inside the box was the toy in it's own packaging as well as a nice little bag of assorted lube samples which came in very handy later on. I wrapped the entire package up and left it for bf to find when he got home from work.

He almost couldn't wait for me to get home that evening so he could open his present, but when he finally did, the smile on his face got bigger and bigger as the night went on.

When he took it out of the box, we both had a feel...it was very soft and pliable-almost kinda squishy. The portruding "pussy lips" on the front end felt nice to rub my fingers against. The hole seemed really small, but the material stretches a lot. Sliding a finger inside, it was very tight and there were little ridges or bumps for a bit of added texture.

By this point, his cock was already rock hard in anticipation of using it. So we lubed him up...poured more into the toy and I sat back to tape his first time. The look on his face as he slowly slid the sleeve down onto his shaft was pure ecstacy.

It was a huge turn on for me to watch the toy stretching around him...the lips wrapped so tightly around his cock. MMM and when his head popped out of the hole in the top end of the toy he was so hard and swollen, I just had to take him in my mouth. When the toy is all the way down his shaft, his cock sticks out of the toy enough for me to still have a good mouthful to suck on. In fact, this toy would be a great blow job enhancer for women who have a hard time deep throating.

Unfortunately the lube we were trying out with the toy didn't really appeal to to me and felt kind of soapy in my mouth, so I had to stop my oral ministrations, but helping with my hands was just as much fun...and I had bf moaning and pushing harder against the toy and my hands before long.

Then he begged to feel my pussy so I straddled him and slid my pussy onto the tip of his cock with the toy still pushed down to the base of his cock. Guessing from his incoherent cries and the way he was clutching and grabbing at my body, this felt really good for him.

But I wanted to see him cum in his new toy, so I went back to helping with my hands...he came so hard...I got so turned on watching his cum shooting out the end of it.

Clean up was super easy, just warm soapy water and it was ready for more fun. He's really enjoyed it both on his own and everytime we've used it together.

So, from our view point...the Utamaro comes highly recommended! If anyone has any specific questions about it feel free to ask...